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Lifer
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she just did.... she smacked me right before she left for the night.

no, we didn't get in a fight... last week, i did a knock knock joke to her and it was funny as hell.. so, she got me back...

here's how it went:

last week:
me: knock knock
her: who's there?
me: interupting starfish
her: interupting st-
me: *smacks her in the face*.... get it!? hahaha!

tonight:
her: hey, guess what :eek: <--- that's her doing a cutesy face, not embarrassed face...
me: wh-
her: *smacks me in the face* INTERUPTING STARFISH!!! :) hahahaha
 

DAGTA

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If you change the two sexes around in this situation, people would be calling the man a horrible creature deserving of jail and/or torture.

If a man hits a woman but then apologizes later, it's ok?
If a woman says a rude comment to a man, it's ok for him to hit her in the face in public?
If a woman cheats on a man, it's ok to beat her in her sleep because she's a cheater?

What happened to that 'equality' women so claim they want?
 

Powermoloch

Lifer
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Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Powermoloch
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Powermoloch
a slap is nothing.


So it's ok to slap women?


No...to be slapped at is nothing. maybe I said it wrong lol :laugh:

So you dont' believe in equal rights?


I believed it, but I don't find it necessary to hit back unless it's life threatening.
 

jagec

Lifer
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Originally posted by: DAGTA
If you change the two sexes around in this situation, people would be calling the man a horrible creature deserving of jail and/or torture.

If a man hits a woman but then apologizes later, it's ok?
If a woman says a rude comment to a man, it's ok for him to hit her in the face in public?
If a woman cheats on a man, it's ok to beat her in her sleep because she's a cheater?

What happened to that 'equality' women so claim they want?

Maybe that's because a slap is not a hit, and men and women have different standards of acceptible behavior, due both to biology and culture?
 

DAGTA

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Originally posted by: Powermoloch
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Powermoloch
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Powermoloch
a slap is nothing.


So it's ok to slap women?


No...to be slapped at is nothing. maybe I said it wrong lol :laugh:

So you dont' believe in equal rights?


I believed it, but I don't find it necessary to hit back unless it's life threatening.


I'm not referring to hitting back. I'm referring to the fact that everyone is ok with the girl hitting the guy because he 'said a rude comment'. So, shouldn't it then be ok for a guy to hit a girl if she says a rude comment?
 

DAGTA

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Originally posted by: jagec
Originally posted by: DAGTA
If you change the two sexes around in this situation, people would be calling the man a horrible creature deserving of jail and/or torture.

If a man hits a woman but then apologizes later, it's ok?
If a woman says a rude comment to a man, it's ok for him to hit her in the face in public?
If a woman cheats on a man, it's ok to beat her in her sleep because she's a cheater?

What happened to that 'equality' women so claim they want?

Maybe that's because a slap is not a hit, and men and women have different standards of acceptible behavior, due both to biology and culture?

Did you miss the part where women want equal rights and treatment in the USA?
How is a slap not a hit? It's physical violence.
 

Powermoloch

Lifer
Jul 5, 2005
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Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Powermoloch
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Powermoloch
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Originally posted by: Powermoloch
a slap is nothing.


So it's ok to slap women?


No...to be slapped at is nothing. maybe I said it wrong lol :laugh:

So you dont' believe in equal rights?


I believed it, but I don't find it necessary to hit back unless it's life threatening.


I'm not referring to hitting back. I'm referring to the fact that everyone is ok with the girl hitting the guy because he 'said a rude comment'. So, shouldn't it then be ok for a guy to hit a girl if she says a rude comment?

It's hard to imagine what a woman will say to make me hit her...maybe I'm just raised that way lol :eek:

 

DAGTA

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Originally posted by: Powermoloch
It's hard to imagine what a woman will say to make me hit her...maybe I'm just raised that way lol :eek:

I agree... hitting is wrong and I don't hit women. So my question that I'm trying to get out of people is: why is it ok for women to hit men in our society? Why aren't women being raised to believe it's wrong to hit a man?
 

her209

No Lifer
Oct 11, 2000
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If a woman kicks me in the nuts, you can bet she's going to get a nice punch to the face.
 

OCNewbie

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Who cares what "we" would do, if you're satisfied with the way you handled the situation, and so is she (assuming she wouldn't have felt better had you whacked her back), then that's all that should matter.

Then again, maybe that scenario, and your co-worker's reactions just made you curious.
 

MustangSVT

Lifer
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Originally posted by: fLum0x
So, my GF and i have been dating for around 5 years. We were out with a bunch of friends from my work place. She gets along with them well and was having a good time. She could not drink because of some meds she was on so she was the DD for the night. Obviously we all get tipsy/drunk and i make a rude comment to her. She slaps me across the face in front of everyone basically. It was semi joking because she knows i was just playing around. I joke with her a lot and she is used to it, although with other people around, she felt like she needed to do something about it i guess.

We go back home and i was fully sober about 3 hours later laying in bed and she was apologizing. Obviously, i was like, "so what? you hit me, but i am not hurt or anything". So she felt bad and she was almost crying because she was so sorry.

So anyways, she hits me and then i come into work this morning to everyone saying sh1t like "if she hits you, you have every right to swing back" and i was like "wtf?! no you dont hit her no matter what". I just wont hit i female if i can help it by any means. I am basically at work swallowing pride with them because they are ripping me a new ahole about it but i am staying in her defense.

what do you guys think and what would you do about the situation?

OMG U FOOL! DONT TELL ME U DIDNT HAVE MAKE UP SEX!!! its time for some POUNDIN!!! -_-;
 

RCN

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slap.....let it go

Now if you are going down the road with no place to pull over, she is beating the sh!t out of you, and you've told her "the next time you hit me I'll knock the sh!t out of you" its ok to backslap her ass into the window.................
 

VanTheMan

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Don't worry about the slap once. It sounds like she was genuinely apologetic about the incident. Make sure you milk it for all the nookie you can get, though! ;) If it happens again, take a break from eachother and send her to counseling. OP, I agree with your policy of never hitting a woman. I would never hit a female unless I was facing serious bodily injury and I could not physically restrain her for some reason.
 

montanafan

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Originally posted by: DAGTA
If you change the two sexes around in this situation, people would be calling the man a horrible creature deserving of jail and/or torture.

If a man hits a woman but then apologizes later, it's ok?
If a woman says a rude comment to a man, it's ok for him to hit her in the face in public?
If a woman cheats on a man, it's ok to beat her in her sleep because she's a cheater?

What happened to that 'equality' women so claim they want?


What does this have to do with women wanting equal rights in the workplace?
Are you saying that women want physical equality with men? Or are you saying that most women are physically equal to most men?
What exactly is your point?

As for what's the difference in a woman slapping a man and a man slapping a woman.

Most men and women are not equal physically.
Most men are larger and stronger than most women.
Most women do not slap men out of a desire to physically dominate them.
Most men who do slap women do so out of a desire to physically dominate them.
Most women who were slapped by a man would feel in fear of their physical safety.
A man has a right to hit someone when they hit him in order to defend himself when he is put in fear of his physical safety.
Most men are not frightened for their physical safety by a slap from a woman and therefore do not feel the need to defend themselves by hitting her back.

Now if you were a small man and the woman was physically dominant I could see you being frightened for your safety if she slapped you and you hitting her to defend yourself from harm, but cases like that are very rare.

So I guess my point is that it's okay for a man who's slapped by a woman to hit her back if he's less of a man than most. :evil:

As for the girl slapping the guy in the OP, I don't think it was right for her to do it. I've never slapped a guy in my life and I certainly don't think I'd have a right to do it because he made a rude comment, though I would reserve the right to make an equally rude and insulting comeback. I think the only time a woman has a right to slap a man for being rude or insulting is in the case of physical rudeness, like a guy who has no right to touch her grabbing her in an inappropriate way.


 

Mo0o

Lifer
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If she hit me I deserved it. My gf is the most reasonable person i know
 

GroundZero

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Originally posted by: fLum0x
So, my GF and i have been dating for around 5 years. We were out with a bunch of friends from my work place. She gets along with them well and was having a good time. She could not drink because of some meds she was on so she was the DD for the night. Obviously we all get tipsy/drunk and i make a rude comment to her. She slaps me across the face in front of everyone basically. It was semi joking because she knows i was just playing around. I joke with her a lot and she is used to it, although with other people around, she felt like she needed to do something about it i guess.

We go back home and i was fully sober about 3 hours later laying in bed and she was apologizing. Obviously, i was like, "so what? you hit me, but i am not hurt or anything". So she felt bad and she was almost crying because she was so sorry.

So anyways, she hits me and then i come into work this morning to everyone saying sh1t like "if she hits you, you have every right to swing back" and i was like "wtf?! no you dont hit her no matter what". I just wont hit i female if i can help it by any means. I am basically at work swallowing pride with them because they are ripping me a new ahole about it but i am staying in her defense.

what do you guys think and what would you do about the situation?

my renters girl is in jail right now because she hit him. he took it and didn't do anything back, but she called the cops and when they got there he had a busted nose and was bleeding. he put his hands in his pockets when she smacked his ass. busted him up good though, so don't think a girl can't throw a punch! her rings did the most damage though. but alll in all, don't hit a woman even if she hits you first, or we'll be coming over with Vinney and the boys to do a little knee-cap work on your soory ass....