waggy
No Lifer
- Dec 14, 2000
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yeap. Also you two need to seperate. She needs to get away from someone who who is mentaly abusive and you need to get away from someone who is phsyically abusive.
either way the two of you are fvcking sick. Why would you say something rude enough to her in public to make her slap you? what did you say to her anyway?
But whatever you said did not deserve getting slaped. I would have dumped her ass right that minute.
obviously you're wearing pants at home and she wears them, everywhere else. i think the role should be changed.
I was dating a girl in HS that would playfully slap me all the time in front of our friends. It made people really uncomfortable. Finally she did it hard enough...
"DAMMIT WILL YOU FSCKING STOP THAT?!"
No problemo after that.
"DAMMIT WILL YOU FSCKING STOP THAT?!"
No problemo after that.
agreed what did you say...
I personally wouldnt do it... i did have a friend who ended up pretty much in a fist fight with his girl at a party... it was pretty much self defense but the law sided with her... should mention she is kinda loopy and was significantly hitting him before anything happened... it was bad...
SithSolo1
Diamond Member
- Mar 19, 2001
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DHITBFTWYARLY! 
For the record though, you don't have the right to swing back. You just gotta suck up and take it. Now if it happens all the time I'd drop her like a bad habit...preferably somewhere in the middle of the ocean but thats another post...
For the record though, you don't have the right to swing back. You just gotta suck up and take it. Now if it happens all the time I'd drop her like a bad habit...preferably somewhere in the middle of the ocean but thats another post...
You made a bad comment she didn't like and she slapped you, so what? Everyone else in this thread need to look up the definition between SLAP and HIT. There is a major difference. If everyone here reacts this way over a small slap I would hate to see how they would react to being hit...
OP, you gotta keep your pimp hand strong.
People smell your weakness. It might even cost you a promotion, now.
To fix this, tell her to bring in a home made lunch (that she made) for you while at work. Have her bring it in before the lunch rush, so as to have more witnesses around.
When she brings you the lunch, make a big fuss about how you don't like your afternoon steak cooked like that, and slap it to the ground out of her hands. Then tell her to go home and get it right by the time you get off work.
This should pretty much get you out of the "man this guy is weak" feeling.
People smell your weakness. It might even cost you a promotion, now.
To fix this, tell her to bring in a home made lunch (that she made) for you while at work. Have her bring it in before the lunch rush, so as to have more witnesses around.
When she brings you the lunch, make a big fuss about how you don't like your afternoon steak cooked like that, and slap it to the ground out of her hands. Then tell her to go home and get it right by the time you get off work.
This should pretty much get you out of the "man this guy is weak" feeling.
middlehead
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- Jul 11, 2004
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That bolded section is huge IMO. It's one thing if we're alone and she slaps me, but it's a completely different situation if she slaps me in front of a everyone at an establishment, including all my friends.
I wouldn't hit a woman unless it I was in a situation where if I didn't defend myself, I would risk moderate to severe injury. As such, I have held ex's to the same standard, that they should never hit me.
I do not believe that any person should ever raise a hand to another person in anger without fully expecting to get hit back, regardless of gender.
a better person would always walk away with doing so, but i do not think that gender should ever come into it. A girl should never hit a guy in anger and think he cannot or should not hit her back because she is a girl. i dont think he should hit her like she is a grown man in a bar fight if the sizes are unequal, however. But hit back hard enough to let her know that he will not be a punching bag because of differing genitals.
Women wanna be equal, they should go punch for punch with whomever they raise their hands to in anger.
a better person would always walk away with doing so, but i do not think that gender should ever come into it. A girl should never hit a guy in anger and think he cannot or should not hit her back because she is a girl. i dont think he should hit her like she is a grown man in a bar fight if the sizes are unequal, however. But hit back hard enough to let her know that he will not be a punching bag because of differing genitals.
Women wanna be equal, they should go punch for punch with whomever they raise their hands to in anger.
sorry, i am at work, so i cant monitor it that closely...
a few things to clear up...
1) i dont really care about people at work, it just made me think about it.
2) it was somewhere between a playful and meaningful hit. when she talked to me about it, she was like "after you said it, i wouldnt normally think anything about it...but the look i got from a couple girls gave me the impression of "are you going to let him get away with that?" ".
3) the comment i made was nothing out of the ordinary for me...i forget it word for word, but i am a pretty blunt person and people know i joke A LOT! It was something about her being bad in bed if i recall...which she KNEW was not true.
oh i definitely wasnt swinging back. I respect her and i respect every female. I have had a female get pretty pissed at me trying to slap and knee me. The worst i did was grab her by the arms and put her back against a wall (didnt slam her against it) and held her there until she cooled down. I WILL NOT hit a female if i can ever help it...PERIOD.
that is my point. there was nothing i could do...hit her back means more talk and possibly jail...
secondly, if i sit and take it, which i am, i get crap from people at work (no boss...just 2 co-workers i am kind of close with) but that doesnt bother me a whole lot. It is hard for me to think about dumping or hitting a female i have loved for roughly 5 years. It is not like this has ever happened before. Given, once it happens, it could happen more and become a trend...but you would think if she truly apologizes and it happened once...why is it such a big deal.
Also, females can definitely slap hard enough to hurt...it wasnt that type. It was more of a push slap kind of thing. Probably looked like something a tease would do in a movie...but faster and harder.
it was obviously joking, so you don't do anything.. if it was in anger, you still don't do anything but walk away.. never acceptable to hit a woman
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