what would you do if your GF hit you?

[Lonyo]

Originally posted by: fLum0x

Originally posted by: sao123

Originally posted by: fLum0x
So, my GF and i have been dating for around 5 years. We were out with a bunch of friends from my work place. She gets along with them well and was having a good time. She could not drink because of some meds she was on so she was the DD for the night. Obviously we all get tipsy/drunk and i make a rude comment to her. She slaps me across the face in front of everyone basically. It was semi joking because she knows i was just playing around. I joke with her a lot and she is used to it, although with other people around, she felt like she needed to do something about it i guess.

We go back home and i was fully sober about 3 hours later laying in bed and she was apologizing. Obviously, i was like, "so what? you hit me, but i am not hurt or anything". So she felt bad and she was almost crying because she was so sorry.

So anyways, she hits me and then i come into work this morning to everyone saying sh1t like "if she hits you, you have every right to swing back" and i was like "wtf?! no you dont hit her no matter what". I just wont hit i female if i can help it by any means. I am basically at work swallowing pride with them because they are ripping me a new ahole about it but i am staying in her defense.

what do you guys think and what would you do about the situation?

What you said will determine whether you deserved it or not. Its cool to joke alone, but in public, you can embarrass people easily.
WTF DID YOU SAY???!? TELL US NOW!!!!!:|

sorry, i am at work, so i cant monitor it that closely...

a few things to clear up...

1) i dont really care about people at work, it just made me think about it.
2) it was somewhere between a playful and meaningful hit. when she talked to me about it, she was like "after you said it, i wouldnt normally think anything about it...but the look i got from a couple girls gave me the impression of "are you going to let him get away with that?" ".
3) the comment i made was nothing out of the ordinary for me...i forget it word for word, but i am a pretty blunt person and people know i joke A LOT! It was something about her being bad in bed if i recall...which she KNEW was not true.

Seems like most people in this thread are just idiots.
You should just move on with life and pretty much forget it happened, and ignore what anyone else says.
So, she slapped you. Big deal(!).

 

[sao123]

Originally posted by: Lonyo

Originally posted by: fLum0x

Originally posted by: sao123

Originally posted by: fLum0x
So, my GF and i have been dating for around 5 years. We were out with a bunch of friends from my work place. She gets along with them well and was having a good time. She could not drink because of some meds she was on so she was the DD for the night. Obviously we all get tipsy/drunk and i make a rude comment to her. She slaps me across the face in front of everyone basically. It was semi joking because she knows i was just playing around. I joke with her a lot and she is used to it, although with other people around, she felt like she needed to do something about it i guess.

We go back home and i was fully sober about 3 hours later laying in bed and she was apologizing. Obviously, i was like, "so what? you hit me, but i am not hurt or anything". So she felt bad and she was almost crying because she was so sorry.

So anyways, she hits me and then i come into work this morning to everyone saying sh1t like "if she hits you, you have every right to swing back" and i was like "wtf?! no you dont hit her no matter what". I just wont hit i female if i can help it by any means. I am basically at work swallowing pride with them because they are ripping me a new ahole about it but i am staying in her defense.

what do you guys think and what would you do about the situation?

What you said will determine whether you deserved it or not. Its cool to joke alone, but in public, you can embarrass people easily.
WTF DID YOU SAY???!? TELL US NOW!!!!!:|

sorry, i am at work, so i cant monitor it that closely...

a few things to clear up...

1) i dont really care about people at work, it just made me think about it.
2) it was somewhere between a playful and meaningful hit. when she talked to me about it, she was like "after you said it, i wouldnt normally think anything about it...but the look i got from a couple girls gave me the impression of "are you going to let him get away with that?" ".
3) the comment i made was nothing out of the ordinary for me...i forget it word for word, but i am a pretty blunt person and people know i joke A LOT! It was something about her being bad in bed if i recall...which she KNEW was not true.

Seems like most people in this thread are just idiots.
You should just move on with life and pretty much forget it happened, and ignore what anyone else says.
So, she slapped you. Big deal(!).

Drunk OP to GF: You wouldnt know a pelvic thrust from an epilectic seizure!!!
GF: You Bastard... SMACK!!!!!!
Drunk OP: what did I say? what did I say?

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: gigapet
a slap isnt being hit. im fairly certain there is no way a girls slap could cause any real man any harm.

Ever been slapped before. My sister did that to me once. It definitely hurt/stung. Mainly, I was in shock though. She could be a real tool when she was younger.

 

[Mill]

Absolutely nothing? Perhaps be a little pissed, but obviously what can you do if she wasn't really being violent? Just discuss it and move on.

 

[SP33Demon]

I once had an ex kick me in the kidney b/c I was napping and forgot she wanted to go to Target... she was dumped with the quickness.

Slapping I could care less.

 

[bonkers325]

violence is love

 

[necine]

She apologized. It's okay. However, you do need to figure out a way to get ur balls back infront of ur coworkers. That's very important.

 

[Fraggable]

A sissly slap for a rude comment is one thing. A g/f trying to hurt you is another. If my g/f was coming after me like she realyl ahted me and was going to break an appendage, yeah I'd fight back in the interest of self-preservation.

 

[Saint Nick]

I always tickle my fiancee and she will usually say "<first and middle name>, Stop!" and playfully slap me on the wrist :laugh: Anytime where she has hurt me was completely by accident, actually.

 

[jagec]

Originally posted by: waggy
yeap. Also you two need to seperate. She needs to get away from someone who who is mentaly abusive and you need to get away from someone who is phsyically abusive.

either way the two of you are fvcking sick. Why would you say something rude enough to her in public to make her slap you? what did you say to her anyway?

But whatever you said did not deserve getting slaped. I would have dumped her ass right that minute.

Dude, talk about making a mountain out of a molehill.

The OP was drunk. The girl was putting up with the OP and his drunk friends all night. I'm sure it wasn't the only comment, and so she was probably feeling pissy. She's never done it before, and she feels horrible about it now. The OP isn't too concerned either, so obviously she didn't hit TOO hard.

Doesn't sound "sick" to me.

 

[Orsorum]

I would dump her. I'm not kidding. A woman who slaps me is a woman who just assaulted me. There's no gender exclusion here.

 

[JackSoph]

Originally posted by: brandonbull

Originally posted by: JackSoph
OP, you gotta keep your pimp hand strong.

People smell your weakness. It might even cost you a promotion, now.

To fix this, tell her to bring in a home made lunch (that she made) for you while at work. Have her bring it in before the lunch rush, so as to have more witnesses around.

When she brings you the lunch, make a big fuss about how you don't like your afternoon steak cooked like that, and slap it to the ground out of her hands. Then tell her to go home and get it right by the time you get off work.



This should pretty much get you out of the "man this guy is weak" feeling.

I would suggest then picking up the steak and smushing it in her face.

Well, SHE would have to pick it up. But instead of wasting food, you make it loud and clear that this shat-like effort at cooking your favorite food is all that she gets to eat today because she is gaining weight.

This action would be a great supplement to keeping your pimp hand strong.

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

Originally posted by: sao123

Originally posted by: fLum0x



What you said will determine whether you deserved it or not. Its cool to joke alone, but in public, you can embarrass people easily.
WTF DID YOU SAY???!? TELL US NOW!!!!!:|

Agreed, you might have said something that was really embarrassing to her, and her slap was a knee jerk reaction. Then by the time you got home she may have had time to think about her reaction and felt badly for reacting the way she did.

It's one thing if she just all out jumped on you pulling a bunch of closed fist punches then you have the right to defend yourself. But if she did the typical "girl" slap thing out of embarrassment, then I would say no, you have no right to hit her back, and tell your buddies at work to STFU. She has already apologized and obviously feels pretty bad about it. That in itself says enough. So I would just move along and forget the whole thing.

 

[DaiShan]

Look, it's not OK that she hit you, and I think she realizes that, but it would have been far worse for you to hit her back. You do not hit a woman except in EXTREME circumstances (She has a weapon/threatening your family or something)

On a related note: I took a girl to a bar a few months ago, and right from the moment we got there she started talking to other guys. I've got a zero tolerance policy for this, if I'm buying a girl drinks and she came out with me, I'm not paying for her to get drunk and hook up with some other guy, so I just walked off and started hitting on some girls on the dance floor. Probably 45 minutes later I see her kiss one of the guys so I'm thinkin eff that and step up my game on the floor a little, then when we're getting ready to leave the girl I met and her friends wanted to come back for some drinks so I called the girl that I came with a cab. As soon as she saw I was with some other girl she just walks up and smacks me. You can bet that I never talked to her again heh.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: fLum0x
So, my GF and i have been dating for around 5 years. We were out with a bunch of friends from my work place. She gets along with them well and was having a good time. She could not drink because of some meds she was on so she was the DD for the night. Obviously we all get tipsy/drunk and i make a rude comment to her. She slaps me across the face in front of everyone basically. It was semi joking because she knows i was just playing around. I joke with her a lot and she is used to it, although with other people around, she felt like she needed to do something about it i guess.

We go back home and i was fully sober about 3 hours later laying in bed and she was apologizing. Obviously, i was like, "so what? you hit me, but i am not hurt or anything". So she felt bad and she was almost crying because she was so sorry.

So anyways, she hits me and then i come into work this morning to everyone saying sh1t like "if she hits you, you have every right to swing back" and i was like "wtf?! no you dont hit her no matter what". I just wont hit i female if i can help it by any means. I am basically at work swallowing pride with them because they are ripping me a new ahole about it but i am staying in her defense.

what do you guys think and what would you do about the situation?

Id turn in my man card... since you obviously cant tell the other guys to STFU..
I guarantee not 1 of them would hit thier woman back..
stand up for yourself and your gf... they dont know the true circumstances they should butt the fvck out.

as for this entire thread...

Click!

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

Originally posted by: DaiShan
Look, it's not OK that she hit you, and I think she realizes that, but it would have been far worse for you to hit her back. You do not hit a woman except in EXTREME circumstances (She has a weapon/threatening your family or something)

On a related note: I took a girl to a bar a few months ago, and right from the moment we got there she started talking to other guys. I've got a zero tolerance policy for this, if I'm buying a girl drinks and she came out with me, I'm not paying for her to get drunk and hook up with some other guy, so I just walked off and started hitting on some girls on the dance floor. Probably 45 minutes later I see her kiss one of the guys so I'm thinkin eff that and step up my game on the floor a little, then when we're getting ready to leave the girl I met and her friends wanted to come back for some drinks so I called the girl that I came with a cab. As soon as she saw I was with some other girl she just walks up and smacks me. You can bet that I never talked to her again heh.

What the hell? Why did you even bother to get her a cab? I would have gone right up to her and called her on that ******. That is just plain BS. I can't stand women like that.

 

[DaiShan]

Originally posted by: Runes911
You made a bad comment she didn't like and she slapped you, so what? Everyone else in this thread need to look up the definition between SLAP and HIT. There is a major difference. If everyone here reacts this way over a small slap I would hate to see how they would react to being hit...

If you let girls smack you around on a regular basis you are a b!tch. You need to realize that the same reasons that you use to make the argument that you should not hit a woman can be cross-applied to the other side.

 

[DaiShan]

Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston

Originally posted by: DaiShan
Look, it's not OK that she hit you, and I think she realizes that, but it would have been far worse for you to hit her back. You do not hit a woman except in EXTREME circumstances (She has a weapon/threatening your family or something)

On a related note: I took a girl to a bar a few months ago, and right from the moment we got there she started talking to other guys. I've got a zero tolerance policy for this, if I'm buying a girl drinks and she came out with me, I'm not paying for her to get drunk and hook up with some other guy, so I just walked off and started hitting on some girls on the dance floor. Probably 45 minutes later I see her kiss one of the guys so I'm thinkin eff that and step up my game on the floor a little, then when we're getting ready to leave the girl I met and her friends wanted to come back for some drinks so I called the girl that I came with a cab. As soon as she saw I was with some other girl she just walks up and smacks me. You can bet that I never talked to her again heh.

What the hell? Why did you even bother to get her a cab? I would have gone right up to her and called her on that ******. That is just plain BS. I can't stand women like that.

I didn't want to leave some girl stranded at a bar, that's just not who I am, but don't get me wrong the look on her face was priceless as I Left with 3 other girls. Well worth the $$

/edit I'd already called the cab before she smacked me though because I figured having a raging drunk in my car would probably put a damper on the rest of the evening.

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

Originally posted by: DaiShan

Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston

Originally posted by: DaiShan
Look, it's not OK that she hit you, and I think she realizes that, but it would have been far worse for you to hit her back. You do not hit a woman except in EXTREME circumstances (She has a weapon/threatening your family or something)

On a related note: I took a girl to a bar a few months ago, and right from the moment we got there she started talking to other guys. I've got a zero tolerance policy for this, if I'm buying a girl drinks and she came out with me, I'm not paying for her to get drunk and hook up with some other guy, so I just walked off and started hitting on some girls on the dance floor. Probably 45 minutes later I see her kiss one of the guys so I'm thinkin eff that and step up my game on the floor a little, then when we're getting ready to leave the girl I met and her friends wanted to come back for some drinks so I called the girl that I came with a cab. As soon as she saw I was with some other girl she just walks up and smacks me. You can bet that I never talked to her again heh.

What the hell? Why did you even bother to get her a cab? I would have gone right up to her and called her on that ******. That is just plain BS. I can't stand women like that.

I didn't want to leave some girl stranded at a bar, that's just not who I am, but don't get me wrong the look on her face was priceless as I Left with 3 other girls. Well worth the $$

LOL, Good for you!

I have seen this in the past. I have gone out with some of my GF's and their friends. The prissy type. The ones who looked like penthouse models and new they could work a guy over. You know the type, the kind that could get a complete stranger to pick up their meal tab at a resturant. Anyway, they would make it a game to get some poor sap to take them out bar hopping, and use them just for a ride, drinks, food whatever... then dump them the minute they found some good looking guy along the way at a bar. It always pissed me off when they did this crap. I have no respect for women like this.

 

[alfa147x]

Originally posted by: PricklyPete
Hitting is a bit much, but if she was doing it playfully...that's not really a big thing. Obviously from her crying and how the people at work mentioned it, it didn't come across playful and she wasn't really being playful otherwise she wouln't be so appologetic.

I'd say you both need to work on things...

1) you need to stop making rude comments to her in public.
2) she needs to learn not to hit people...regardless of how mad she is with them. Is she going to hit your kids that way when they piss her off. Kids will make unbelievably rude comments on a daily basis.

:thumbsup:

 

[wfbberzerker]

if she playfully is hitting me, i'll playfully hit back.
if she slaps me, she will for sure hear about later, but i would NEVER hit her back in anger.

 

[Eeezee]

Get her to make you a steak dinner or something where she buys all of the ingredients and does all of the work.

Unless she's been doing this already, in which case you don't have a damn thing to complain about for one little slap!

Letting someone do something about it as a form of "paying you back" usually makes them feel better about it if they're truly apologetic. Letting her cook you a meal would be a win-win

 

[AbAbber2k]

Originally posted by: fLum0x
So anyways, she hits me and then i come into work this morning to everyone saying sh1t like "if she hits you, you have every right to swing back"

Bullsh1t. She "slapped" you, and she did it in a way/at a time in which you knew it wasn't actually threatening. If she came at you in a psychotic fury with closed fists or a weapon... then by all means, lay her ass on the floor.

Edit: LMAO at all the idiots screaming "zomg if a b1tch slapped me I'd dump her ass right there lol im pimp!!!1"

 

[Stumps]

depends..it she hits me open handed...well I'll probably suck it up, but if she is man enougth to hit me with a closed fist..well then she probably cope one back then

 

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