So, I'll respond to a couple of concerns...
I wouldn't rat him out but I've been struggling with not saying anything. As I said before, he did this to me at the last job and I kept it quiet so he knows he can trust me, but, I just think he's doing a shitty thing to a company that pays him so well..just seems REALLY greedy to me.
He's giving a 6-wk notice so...I to am skeptical as to how they would possibly be willing to let go of the money...I mean, we're not doing 'bad' but our numbers have dropped a little (but still pulling in about $2mil/week, but after everything is paid its closer to around $1-1.5). We're not a big company...around 100 employee's total but we do a lot of high-end appraisals for some big name banks and in a typical day, our volume is about 5000 appraisals a day (our appraisers are contracted).
So, no...I do NOT want to burn bridges with my boss b/c after-all...I have a guaranteed position at the new place as a Network Engineer if I decide to go that route or it doesn't work out here for me.
He DOES already have the position at the new place so there's no way he's not going to take it and he's already signed contracts and everything over there. It's a tech consulting company and we deal with them because HE brought them in (he's dealt with them for about 10yrs I guess now) and so he wants me to keep their presence here by continuing to order from them AND he's going to try to get his boss to use him for consulting some of our security audits, at least until I become familiar with them.
To reply to everyone who said it was none of my business and they hold me in low regard for ratting..I wasn't thinking of ratting, was just asking about a moral dilemma with it. I've also thought about going into HR to ask hypothetical but...that sounds really bad b/c they would begin looking at me!
Anyway, at least everyone agreed with my thoughts...and also, to answer the other question concerning vacation, a lot of things have changed since we started as we managed to get a new controller hired to help with the finances and in the beginning we were accrual based but we stopped at the first of this year, so now, we get all of our vacation up front. BUT...when he and I came in, we negotiated for getting our vacation up front, me just because and him because he was in the process of adopting a child from China and so he needed his vacation time in order to travel a couple months after he brought me in, so, the vacation time for 1/1 2015 will NOT be earned.
I like the guy, he's been good to me and defended me when I needed it, but, as far as helping me excel my career...he hasn't really done that. He hired me to make himself look good is all...it's all self-preserving for him I think.