What the hell is it with women??

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shiner

Lifer
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Originally posted by: shimsham
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
You are safe:

No wondering if you are sleeping around and she could catch something.

Plus, Sex without emotional ties, string or questions.

:) KarenMarie

hmmm....sounds like a man. but arent we dogs if we try that?

yet another woman who thinks she can do/get what she wants because she has a vag. dont give this ho the satisfaction. do us all a favor and prove to her that regardless of what she, all her friends, and society wants to believe, all men dont think with the head with a hole, exclusively. tell her to go fvck herself.

might be a good idea to tell your wife, and a friend you can trust at work. if she keeps it up, definately file a complaint. no telling what crap she could try to make up if you dont do what she wants, so its best to cover your a$$.

just dont give in, its not worth it.
No worries there. I'm 100% loyal and would never cheat. The damn Olsen Twins, The Coors Light Twins, and Beyonce could come into my office naked and I wouldn't touch em.

Did I just say that? I think that means I'm either all grown up or I lost my libido.

 

Nitemare

Lifer
Feb 8, 2001
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Originally posted by: MaxDepth
having trouble standing up? :p

If you two have flirted before, try this. Next time she walks into your office and asks where you want to eat, point at her crotch and say, "there." When she looks surprised, tell her that's how you felt when she flirted with you on this day.

Then she could slap a sexual harassment lawsuit on him, get all of his money and his job.

See the KarenMarie post
 

gistech1978

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the real question is now are you going to hit her up for sexual harrassment?
had you said this to a woman the **** wouldve hit the fan.
i suppose if you are friends with her, its all in fun and vice versa.
thats crazy stuff.
 

shimsham

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May 9, 2002
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just be prepared for her to really lay it on. she wont know how to handle someone not sniffin it when she prances it about.

what if all those women came in at the same time?;)


 

Gage

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Maybe she doesn't really want to have sex with you. Maybe she just is just saying that because she knows that you won't do it. You're "Safe". It's all just a big mind-fvck. I say Call her bluff. :evil:
 

Megatomic

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Nov 9, 2000
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Originally posted by: shinerburke
Did I just say that? I think that means I'm either all grown up or I lost my libido.
No you didn't lose your libido, your wife has it in her purse. That's where my wife keeps mine. :Q :eek: :D
 

boyRacer

Lifer
Oct 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: Megatomic
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Did I just say that? I think that means I'm either all grown up or I lost my libido.
No you didn't lose your libido, your wife has it in her purse. That's where my wife keeps mine. :Q :eek: :D

lol... along with your precious. :p
 

kranky

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Oct 9, 1999
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Frankly, I would think that kind of woman is a little psycho.

I understand what KarenMarie said about sex without ties or questions, but I don't see it in this type of situation. It would make more sense if you're out somewhere and meet a woman for the first time. For someone you have known at work for two years, with no prior hints at being interested, to just come out and ask like that doesn't seem to be the same situation.

Maybe she just wants to have something to threaten you with in the future for some reason.
Maybe she wants to hurt your wife.
Maybe she has an STD, is angry at men for giving it to her, and wants to even the score.
Maybe she is feeling unattractive and wanted to see if she could get you to go along to boost her self-esteem. When you get to her apartment, she tells you it was "just a big joke, we're friends, you know I could never do that!"
Maybe she's aiming for a sexual harrassment suit and needs some evidence.
Maybe her fiance got caught screwing around and she wants to even the score and make sure he knows about it.
Maybe she bet a friend that she could get you to agree to do it because she is sure she's so hot no man could deny her.
Maybe she wanted to see if you'd accept and then ruin your reputation at work by spreading it around.

Somethin' ain't right.
 

KarenMarie

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Sep 20, 2003
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Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
You are safe:

No wondering if you are sleeping around and she could catch something.

Plus, Sex without emotional ties, string or questions.

:) KarenMarie
Is this a typical female thing?


With some women... yes.
Believe it or not, my brother used to get more women coming on to him when he was out with me then he did when he was out with the guys.

Many women can be .. well, really messed up. They find a way to justify anything they want to do, right or wrong, and if they change their minds they will justify that, too. Usually by making it a guy's fault. Dunno, I am kinda old fashioned. I dont think that it is okay for women to act like men. If a guy sleeps around it is one thing, but if a gal doesnt it, it just aint right.

And in this case... sheesh... what kind of woman would go after a guy she knows is married and do it so blatently!! That is wrong on so many levels. If I were a guy, I would not take it as a compliment. I would be profoundly insulted. Insulted for something thinking that I was the type to cheat, and even more insulted that someone would think I would cheat with the type of person who wants to screw a married person.

Ever stop to think that when she says you are safe, she really means that you are a challenge? That you are married and she can get you anyway?

Just a thought.
:) KarenMarie

 

shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
You are safe:

No wondering if you are sleeping around and she could catch something.

Plus, Sex without emotional ties, string or questions.

:) KarenMarie
Is this a typical female thing?


With some women... yes.
Believe it or not, my brother used to get more women coming on to him when he was out with me then he did when he was out with the guys.

Many women can be .. well, really messed up. They find a way to justify anything they want to do, right or wrong, and if they change their minds they will justify that, too. Usually by making it a guy's fault. Dunno, I am kinda old fashioned. I dont think that it is okay for women to act like men. If a guy sleeps around it is one thing, but if a gal doesnt it, it just aint right.

And in this case... sheesh... what kind of woman would go after a guy she knows is married and do it so blatently!! That is wrong on so many levels. If I were a guy, I would not take it as a compliment. I would be profoundly insulted. Insulted for something thinking that I was the type to cheat, and even more insulted that someone would think I would cheat with the type of person who wants to screw a married person.

Ever stop to think that when she says you are safe, she really means that you are a challenge? That you are married and she can get you anyway?

Just a thought.
:) KarenMarie
Interesting...I hadn't thought of the whole challenge angle....

 

lokiju

Lifer
May 29, 2003
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Pretty well known that woman and men for that matter want what they can't have.

Seen it and experienced it myself plenty of times.
 

Megatomic

Lifer
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Originally posted by: boyRacer
Originally posted by: Megatomic
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Did I just say that? I think that means I'm either all grown up or I lost my libido.
No you didn't lose your libido, your wife has it in her purse. That's where my wife keeps mine. :Q :eek: :D

lol... along with your precious. :p
Well, I hope she's taking good care of it, it's been a while since I've seen it. :D

 

dquan97

Lifer
Jul 9, 2002
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I get the opposite response...maybe because I stopped caring about how I look after getting married ;)
 

skace

Lifer
Jan 23, 2001
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Any single guys tested this by simply just getting a ring and saying they are married?
 

Iron Woode

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Oct 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: skace
Any single guys tested this by simply just getting a ring and saying they are married?
Yes, I have done this back in the day.

My friend's wedding band fits my ring finger perfectly. So one night I borrowed it and went out to the bars wearing it. Its like some kind of slut magnet. As soon as they see the ring, they start comming on to you.

It works.

 

Ferocious

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Feb 16, 2000
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Oh man.

When I was in my twenties I used to score with married women all the time. A lot of women (married or not) are attracted to married men....because they aren't so afraid of the guy falling in love or whatever.

But often it aint easy to hook up with someone who is married hence my good fortunes doing my younger single years. :)
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: shinerburke
What is it about a wedding ring that makes women want to fvck you all of the sudden? There is a girl in the office here, one of the office hotties, that I have been friends with since she came to work here a little more than a two years ago. Anyway she came into my office a little while ago and asked what I was doing for lunch. Nothing unusual, we go to lunch on a regular basis. I told her I didn't have any plans and she said "good, let's go to lunch" to which I said "sounds good, where do you want to go?" Her answer...."Let's go to my apartment and have sex!" I started laughing and she said "I'm serious, I really want to fvck you" I asked her what in the world she was thinking since I'm married and she is engaged and she said it was "because you are married now, you're safe." What the hell is that supposed to mean? I'm safe? Huh? I told her there was no way that was going to happen and as she left my office she said "oh, you will change your mind."

Damn...never ever did this girl ever show that kind of interest before I got married. Even when we were both single there was never any kind of flirting at all...we have always been just friends...now because there's a ring on my finger I am "safe" to have sex with. Someone, anyone explain this to me.

I just read on another board this weekend about wedding bands being worn by single men to appear as married to intice sex from women...you on there too?

Safe is sort of a misnomer...since I have known one married woman that slept around and had herpes. She wouldn't bother mentioning it either since she considered the deal as a fling...not a relationship...as such they were not entitled to more information unless they asked.

Just seems a little odd that she came right out in the office with this....and so upfront....even the boldest woman will what for a better time and usually when there won't be witnesses.

I have had some affairs with married women. I had some also while I was divorcing but not quite divorced (my ex-wife knew I was seeing people and I knew she was seeing people)
 

shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
You are safe:

No wondering if you are sleeping around and she could catch something.

Plus, Sex without emotional ties, string or questions.

:) KarenMarie
Is this a typical female thing?

No,you're married=off limits
Yeah...but you aren't the typical female...you are UberWoman or something.....