What the hell is it with women??

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shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: petejk
hahahah...the answer to this one is easy!


GIRLS LOVE A CHALLENGE

THEY LOVE TO SEE IF THAT CAN SUCCESSFULLY FCUK WITH SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE

THEY GET A KICK FROM IT...sad thing huh

HAHHAHAHAHAHHA.........
After thinking about it some more I don't think she's the type. Doesn't seem to be about conquests....I think she's just bored in her sex life and looking for a little variety. She's complained before about her fiancee's lack of skill in the bedroom. Dunno....she says she loves him....but how can anyone who loves a person ever cheat on them. Anyway.....I'm still pissed at her for doing this. Ruined a perfectly good friendship.

 

Palek

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Shinerburke, if I were to ever face a situation like yours, I would probably call my wife on the spot to tell her what just happened. If the girl in the office turned out to be a nutcase who wanted to ruin your life for whatever reason, this would completely destroy her case. It's a sad reality, but there are some messed up people out there who feed on the mysery of others.

I most certainly would not keep this a secret from my wife.
 

shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: bleeb
DON"T TELL YOUR WIFE!!!
Told the wife last night. She said she had been expecting it because of the way this girl "looked at me" when we all went out together. Umm...ok...maybe I just never noticed. Anyway she understood and after playing the tape, I told you my nickname here was Nixon, of everything that was said she just started laughing. She just thought it was funny that anyone would ever be that bold. Long story short is that she took it well....she's angry at the girl....but not foaming at the mouth or anything.

 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Konigin
Kinda relates to what we did in class today. We were discussing "What women want" the girls made a list of 5 things as a group, as did the guys (it took them forever)

Guys list:
1. Rich husband
2. Car
3. Money
4. Attention
5. Communication

Girls list:
1. Honesty
2. Good Communication
3. Attention
4. Sacrifice
5. Love

Kinda funny, considering the guys who made the list thought they had women figured out.

How old were the men/women in this class?
 

alkemyst

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Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: Konigin
Kinda relates to what we did in class today. We were discussing "What women want" the girls made a list of 5 things as a group, as did the guys (it took them forever)

Guys list:
1. Rich husband
2. Car
3. Money
4. Attention
5. Communication

Girls list:
1. Honesty
2. Good Communication
3. Attention
4. Sacrifice
5. Love

Kinda funny, considering the guys who made the list thought they had women figured out.

How old were the men/women in this class?

Age doesn't really matter as it's been proven time and time again that neither men nor women answer honestly on these direct type surveys. The best answers come from those convoluted ones where certain questions are the same but reworded. Also the test taker has to be assured they will remain anonimous.
 

shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: kranky
Tape? You had an audiotape of the girl propositioning you?
I tape every conversation that takes place in my office. Had one of the other managers try to screw me once...since then I record everything. Actually burned the same manager with it a few weeks ago....he tried to pull another one of his stunts where he says one thing then does something else and then tries to claim innocence and blame it on my or one of my group. Well....I left him a copy of the tape with a note attached saying he would admit to what he did or our CEO would get a copy.
 

alkemyst

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Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: kranky
Tape? You had an audiotape of the girl propositioning you?

That's just wierd. It was wierd she was so forward in a company office and even wierder there is a tape.

 

Orsorum

Lifer
Dec 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: Konigin
Kinda relates to what we did in class today. We were discussing "What women want" the girls made a list of 5 things as a group, as did the guys (it took them forever)

Guys list:
1. Rich husband
2. Car
3. Money
4. Attention
5. Communication

Girls list:
1. Honesty
2. Good Communication
3. Attention
4. Sacrifice
5. Love

Kinda funny, considering the guys who made the list thought they had women figured out.

How old were the men/women in this class?

Age doesn't really matter as it's been proven time and time again that neither men nor women answer honestly on these direct type surveys. The best answers come from those convoluted ones where certain questions are the same but reworded. Also the test taker has to be assured they will remain anonimous.

Link to a similar survey administered with double-blind anonymous methodology?
 

Aharami

Lifer
Aug 31, 2001
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Originally posted by: shinerburke
I tape every conversation that takes place in my office. Had one of the other managers try to screw me once...since then I record everything. Actually burned the same manager with it a few weeks ago....he tried to pull another one of his stunts where he says one thing then does something else and then tries to claim innocence and blame it on my or one of my group. Well....I left him a copy of the tape with a note attached saying he would admit to what he did or our CEO would get a copy.
thats a damn good idea!! CYA
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Originally posted by: Konigin
Kinda relates to what we did in class today. We were discussing "What women want" the girls made a list of 5 things as a group, as did the guys (it took them forever)

Guys list:
1. Rich husband
2. Car
3. Money
4. Attention
5. Communication

Girls list:
1. Honesty
2. Good Communication
3. Attention
4. Sacrifice
5. Love

Kinda funny, considering the guys who made the list thought they had women figured out.

How old were the men/women in this class?

Age doesn't really matter as it's been proven time and time again that neither men nor women answer honestly on these direct type surveys. The best answers come from those convoluted ones where certain questions are the same but reworded. Also the test taker has to be assured they will remain anonimous.

Link to a similar survey administered with double-blind anonymous methodology?

I dont have a link....read a sexual psychology book though and you will probably find this....there are links on line I do know...but I don't bookmark everything I read :).

Truth is in most personal surveys it's been found people answer expecting to be identified with their choices even if they are told they are 'anon'.


 

"I started laughing and she said 'I'm serious, I really want to fvck you' I asked her what in the world she was thinking since I'm married and she is engaged and she said it was 'because you are married now, you're safe.' What the hell is that supposed to mean?"

Huh? You got married? I thought Tina and you were still engaged; hence, I felt the liberty to proposition. :Q I'm kidding. ;)

On a serious note: It's very interesting how men react to situations. I find it extremely engaging to watch guys here react to this scenario. I mean, this constitutes sexual harassment. The preponderance of evidence is no longer a huge weight (e.g., it doesn't have to be a quid pro quo). If it were a woman propositioned, we likely would have seen a different reaction. I guess maybe because women aren't generally in a position of power, so they more easily could feel daunted.

It is remarkable that you even have guys saying "cool", "awesome", etc. LOL!

In response to your question, Shinerburke, I think you shouldn't use this circumstance to make such a hasty conclusion about women. Yes, some women do this, but how many do-- especially at a work environment?
 

shiner

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: neilm
Tape or Ban.

That's a new one....sorry....no. For starters I don't want to take the time to get it in a format to post. Secondly it has both her name and my name on it and that info really doesn't need to get out.
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: neilm
Tape or Ban.

That's a new one....sorry....no. For starters I don't want to take the time to get it in a format to post. Secondly it has both her name and my name on it and that info really doesn't need to get out.

A wise decision,you'd think these dudes can't find enough of their own 2D entertainment or something.
 

Sust

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Wow...
This reminds me of an HK flik called "mr. vampire"
In it, one of the disciples is lured into the trap of a "seductive" female ghost and when the ghost steps away for a sec, he suddenly sees through everything and has a moment of clarity and thinks to himself:
<begin paraphrase>
Man, I cant believe this is happening to me. Either I must be dreaming... or I'm being haunted by a ghost!"
<end paraphrase>

LOL, It's actually a lot funnier hearing it in chinese.
I think the moral from that is to always be a little suspicious when good things happen.
BTW, the guy gets pwned by the ghost lady if you care to know.

And good idea with the tape. Stickin it to the man.
 

ebaycj

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Mar 9, 2002
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Originally posted by: shinerburke
Yeah...we used to hang out all the time for lunch and occasionally the four of us(her, her SO, my SO, and myself) would get together and have dinner, catch a movie, etc.... outside of work. It was a pretty cool friendship...now it's in the crapper.

DUDE. If your wife has had any contact with this woman, it is VERY likely she is testing you. I mean, I could see not believing that if your wife didnt know anyone from your work, but just the fact that these two have 'hung out all the time' would make her a prime candidate for 'testing' you. YOU ARE BEING TESTED. BE SURE TO USE A #2 PENCIL.