"I started laughing and she said 'I'm serious, I really want to fvck you' I asked her what in the world she was thinking since I'm married and she is engaged and she said it was 'because you are married now, you're safe.' What the hell is that supposed to mean?"
Huh? You got married? I thought Tina and you were still engaged; hence, I felt the liberty to proposition. :Q I'm kidding.
On a serious note: It's very interesting how men react to situations. I find it extremely engaging to watch guys here react to this scenario. I mean, this constitutes sexual harassment. The preponderance of evidence is no longer a huge weight (e.g., it doesn't have to be a quid pro quo). If it were a woman propositioned, we likely would have seen a different reaction. I guess maybe because women aren't generally in a position of power, so they more easily could feel daunted.
It is remarkable that you even have guys saying "cool", "awesome", etc. LOL!
In response to your question, Shinerburke, I think you shouldn't use this circumstance to make such a hasty conclusion about women. Yes, some women do this, but how many do-- especially at a work environment?