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What goes around comes around, ex-wife got what she deserved

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All I have to say is holy shit @ divorce. How do government agencies respond to these batshit crazy memo's? Its really typical too. Its not surprising, but WOW...


I don't know how the president's office and the FBI responded, but the police and child protection took the claims very seriously. She went to family court and got an order of protection all based on a pack of lies. Her actions have made everything much more complicated and expensive for me. Luckily I had no run-ins with the law in my past and a totally clean record. I could have found myself in much deeper troubles if I had any priors. The DA's office took her seriously too, they have to. Her crazy claims could have been real for all they know. She even tried to have my attny arrested and was almost successful. She talks really well and sounds very convincing. All the nasty things she did to me has just hardened my resolve and made me really despise her. If she had her way I would be totally ruined now for life and behind bars. I will never understand why she would want that.

There is some upside to all of this. I tend to look for the silver lining in the clouds. My son and I are very close. We have spent a lot of time together during this whole ordeal. He is with me exactly half of the time. When he is with me, he is only with me for the whole time.
 
You guys in these crazy stories need to think about why you picked these chicks.


seriously.

hey man my dad passed away and I foolishly rushed into something with someone that I did not know. our child was born before I knew her for a year even. when I did find out who she was I realized I could not be with her.
 
hey man my dad passed away and I foolishly rushed into something with someone that I did not know. our child was born before I knew her for a year even. when I did find out who she was I realized I could not be with her.

I wasn't talking to you directly, but that is crazy no way to say otherwise.
 
My ex is also a control freak and having a child makes it much more complicated. We were married for only 8 months and after 3 years and 2 months of litigation, the divorce still isn't finalized. She has fired 4 attnys, 2 of which were free and court appointed. She insisted on being pro se. meanwhile I have given my lawyer a huge amount of money in legal fees. She was writing a memo a day to gov't agencies, including but not limited to the FBI, the office of the president of the USA, child protection svcs, NY State dept of State, various judicial disciplinary bureaus, the DA's office in 2 boroughs and 2 states, the governor's office in NY and NJ. All these memos had to be read and responded to. All of these memos were frivolous and baseless. She even went after our former marriage counselor. It is finally winding down now hopefully, but this thread gives me some hope. Maybe what comes around will go around for her too.
Maaaaaaan some women are just plain fvcking psycho, I'm glad I've never been with somebody like this. Keep that on Maury Povich, ladies, please don't be like that IRL. But hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
 
Be sure to send her a "sympathy" card.

Suggested greeting to show how much you care: "Lol!"

I'm with this guy. Being the better person only matters when it affects you directly. 😉

For those of you who have psycho ex-wives, were there absolutely no signs? Did you guys drive them to it by cheating on them? Curious.
 
For those of you who have psycho ex-wives, were there absolutely no signs?

Of course there were. It's like people who've been in an auto accident and always say, "He came out of nowhere."

Riiiiiiiight, nowhere. 🙄

Otoh, life is messy, and mistakes, even huge ones, get made by good people trying not to. Nobody's perfect, ergo nobody leads a perfect life. It's how you deal with the fallout from your mistakes -- what you learn -- that matters.

If you do learn and don't repeat your mistakes, then you put yourself in the enviable position of being free and clear to make newer, possibly even stupider ones. 😉 😛
 
I'm with this guy. Being the better person only matters when it affects you directly. 😉

For those of you who have psycho ex-wives, were there absolutely no signs? Did you guys drive them to it by cheating on them? Curious.

I can say with my ex wife I recognize the signs now but didnt at the time we were dating. And truthfully a few months after we married she changed into a totally different person. The person I am divorcing is not the person I married.
 
For those of you who have psycho ex-wives, were there absolutely no signs?

With any relationship there are the good and bad points. When you get into a long term relationship, and things start going bad, you just hang on and hope things start getting better.

Sometimes things do get better, sometimes things get worse.
 
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