I drive a female friend around a lot who can no longer drive, and this has came up from her like a dozen times, according to her she doesn't understand how my brain can think the route I always take makes any sense.
I used MSPAINT to make a diagram of her mental madness. The black lines are the streets, the red circle's the car and the blue circle's where we're going. I take the red line, the blue line is the way she always tell's me I should have gone. And without fail, every time I do this she asks "why we're going this long route? We're going in circles" Apparently, going a mile east and then a mile north's the smart way, but going a mile north then a mile east's the idiot way. In these cases we're going straight down a single road and making 1 turn down a single road to end up at the destination. I know a street isn't perfectly straight, so in some instances, her route might be slight shorter. But she acts like I'm going miles out of my way and I can't understand lol.
I tried about 10 times to use logic and explain there's no difference, but I stopped because she'll just say I don't make any sense. I honestly make sure I take this route on purpose now because I know it annoys her, and her logic annoys the shit out of me lol. And I can't help but think about this every day, I really want to decipher her brain thinking her over and up route is somehow magically much shorter than going up and over.
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