What do you think of restaurants who demand a tip?

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OCNewbie

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Originally posted by: Nebben
Since this thread just doesn't seem to quite have enough conflict already, how about the person who made your food? Do you tip them?

I believe cooks don't get paid $2-3 an hour, along with you have no real personal interaction with them, so it's not as sensical to tip them I suppose. They're not really doing anything special for you, they're making "a" meal for "a" person, nothing individualized generally. So for those reasons, it doesn't make as much sense to me to tip the cook versus the waiter that does all the leg work to keep you happy.
 

Savij

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So basically Nik knows it's expected that he tip certain people (delivery guys and waiters, won't get into cable guy, plumber, dentist, surgeon, carnie, school teacher, etc.. debate) at least a small amount, and yet he choses not to. He is instead choosing to take advantage of an understood practice that allows the food price to be fixed while the service price is decided by the customer to steal service. He does not adjust the price he pays for food acordingly, he takes advantage of the understanding between restaurants and customers to get cheaper food. He is allowing every other customer to susidize his meal price.

Way to go, Nik. You're not even trying to debate what a standard tip percentage is; I could at least respect that position. You're not paying extra for the meal to cover the cost since you know you're not tipping, you're not getting your own drinks and taking your own plates to the kitchen sink, you're not telling the waiter/waitress that you won't be tipping, you're taking advantage of a common law payment system to get a cheaper meal. That person took that job with the understanding that they are tipped for the service they provide. If you aren't going to tip, at least have the decency to tell the person before instead of walking out without paying for service. I mean come on, you aren't even trying to argue about what is decent service, what is a decent amount to tip, or who gets tipped (The "Does the cable guy/plumber/ tooth fairy get a tip" debate).

Basically, Nik, you understand that, at the least, waiters and waitresses get some sort of tip for their service and you choose to ignore it. You make no excuses about not tipping, you simply expect the rest of us, who choose to tip, to pay for a percentage of every meal you eat at a restaurant and to pay for part of every pizza you eat at home. I find it incredibly ironic that you claim that people who take a job with the understanding that tipping is expected hold a "fvcking lazy, ungreatful, stupid, self-destructive ideology" and yet you see noting wrong with taking advantage of that ideology to get a cheaper meal. Why can't you write letters, why cant you organize a march, a sit-in, or some other protest? Why is the only thing that you are doing, not tipping, the one thing that saves you money?

Quite frankly you're cheap and trying to avoid saying it. If you want to organize a march on D.C, if you want to write to your congressman, if you want to boycott, be my guest. However, if you choose to pay for food but not for the service that comes with it, if you choose to take advantageof the other customers who actually leave a tip to get a percentage off each meal, I hope that someone else gets annoyed at having to subsidize your meal and chooses to employ Aimster's preferred form of protest and puts a brick through your windshield.
 

czech09

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I usually do as you do 10-20% based on service. I know one place locally had a 20% tip built in I was like wtf as well but since my order was like $7 total I said what the hell and paid it. I don't like that system at all either.

I just read more of the threads, I agree if the service is really horrible I'd leave no tip. But I usually tip a minimum of 10%.

Nik some of your claims are bs you're just being a cheaparse...
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Nebben
Since this thread just doesn't seem to quite have enough conflict already, how about the person who made your food? Do you tip them?

hmmm cooks are not paid like waiters/waitresses. They are paid at least standard minimum wage. In some restaurants, the staff does share all tips which I think is a bad system...make's it easy for slackers to do nothing and cash it on another's hard work.

also to other's paying 15% of your meal in a tip, especially if you are at a table 2 hours is hardly going to put a waiter through med school....

 

waggy

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Originally posted by: xirtamI'm saying that you'd make either of them happier by tipping them a buck or two. Doesn't mean that you should feel obligated to tip either, but if they provide a high degree of service and you want to tip them, that's what a tip is supposed to be for. Granted, in our society, tipping wait staff is far more expected, but it's still arbitrary. The tip is a recognition of service, not an additional surcharge that you're supposed to grudgingly produce our of a sense of obligation, which is exactly what you're going to produce by going around calling everyone who doesn't tip cheapskates and pressuring them to dig into their pockets.

Oh, and my standard tip is 15% unless I find the service to be sub-par. All you have to do is give me the expected level of service, and I'll tip 15%. If you provide exceptional service, I'll be inclined to tip more. If you provide sub-par service, I might drop the tip to 10%, and if you completely ignore me and make me wish I'd never come to the restaurant, yeah, you're probably not going to get a tip.



Bingo.

At least someone gets it.

A "tip" that is forced is not a tip anymore. its a fee.



 

Trevelyan

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We're not even talking about "tips" anymore. You used to get a tip because you were performed excellent service, but now they are trying to tell us you get a tip because the manager cuts your paycheck.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Trevelyan
We're not even talking about "tips" anymore. You used to get a tip because you were performed excellent service, but now they are trying to tell us you get a tip because the manager cuts your paycheck.

When was "used" to? It has always been a standard that if you are waited on, you tip that person. The exceptions were those that owned their business. Many places now in the 'service' biz say no to tipping, but pay their employees a little better (sometimes).

When you are served food by wait staff a tip is not about exceptional service, it's about being served. That is what the tip is for. Now the standard is 15%, you can adjust either way depending on if the service was non-average. A standard tip is for standard service.

If you cannot afford to tip, or do not wish too...take your food to go so I can have the table, you are obviously living beyond your means and trying to justify not tipping as if you are oppressed.

In countries where there is no tipping fir waitstaff, eating out is a lot more expensive.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Aug 15, 2000
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Originally posted by: Savij
So basically Nik knows it's expected that he tip certain people (delivery guys and waiters, won't get into cable guy, plumber, dentist, surgeon, carnie, school teacher, etc.. debate) at least a small amount, and yet he choses not to. He is instead choosing to take advantage of an understood practice that allows the food price to be fixed while the service price is decided by the customer to steal service. He does not adjust the price he pays for food acordingly, he takes advantage of the understanding between restaurants and customers to get cheaper food. He is allowing every other customer to susidize his meal price.

Way to go, Nik. You're not even trying to debate what a standard tip percentage is; I could at least respect that position. You're not paying extra for the meal to cover the cost since you know you're not tipping, you're not getting your own drinks and taking your own plates to the kitchen sink, you're not telling the waiter/waitress that you won't be tipping, you're taking advantage of a common law payment system to get a cheaper meal. That person took that job with the understanding that they are tipped for the service they provide. If you aren't going to tip, at least have the decency to tell the person before instead of walking out without paying for service. I mean come on, you aren't even trying to argue about what is decent service, what is a decent amount to tip, or who gets tipped (The "Does the cable guy/plumber/ tooth fairy get a tip" debate).

Basically, Nik, you understand that, at the least, waiters and waitresses get some sort of tip for their service and you choose to ignore it. You make no excuses about not tipping, you simply expect the rest of us, who choose to tip, to pay for a percentage of every meal you eat at a restaurant and to pay for part of every pizza you eat at home. I find it incredibly ironic that you claim that people who take a job with the understanding that tipping is expected hold a "fvcking lazy, ungreatful, stupid, self-destructive ideology" and yet you see noting wrong with taking advantage of that ideology to get a cheaper meal. Why can't you write letters, why cant you organize a march, a sit-in, or some other protest? Why is the only thing that you are doing, not tipping, the one thing that saves you money?

Quite frankly you're cheap and trying to avoid saying it. If you want to organize a march on D.C, if you want to write to your congressman, if you want to boycott, be my guest. However, if you choose to pay for food but not for the service that comes with it, if you choose to take advantageof the other customers who actually leave a tip to get a percentage off each meal, I hope that someone else gets annoyed at having to subsidize your meal and chooses to employ Aimster's preferred form of protest and puts a brick through your windshield.

You have ignored everything I've said in this thread.
 

Robor

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Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Robor
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe
Again the job is only woth so much. Do you feel I should have been making more than most college educated people for suggesting a wine , opening it, bringing your dinner, blah, blah, blah.

I think people in the customer service industry deserve quite a bit more than $2.50 per hour. However, I also believe that their employer should respect them enough to pay them that without them turning the burden onto the customer directly. It's the employer who's abusing the "voluntary" tipping system by requiring it in order to compensate for their choice to undercut their employee wages.

Yeah, you need to receive more money, but it's not going to be from me if it's "forced" in any way.

OMFG... You just clearly stated the argument against your own ranting. If the employer paid their wait staff more money rather than relying on tips from customers the employer would have to raise the prices of food and drink on the menu to compensate. In other words, you'd be forced to pay higher prices for food and drink. With the tip system at least you can leave an amount based on service. Geez... :roll:

Like I said, read the thread. Paying employees more doesn't necessarily guarantee higher prices for the customer.

Jesus christ.

READ THE FVCKING THREAD.

I read the fvcking thread and I don't agree with your opinion or reasoning. The simple truth is you're just a cheap dickwad. If you don't like to tip go eat fast food or stay home.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: czech09
I usually do as you do 10-20% based on service. I know one place locally had a 20% tip built in I was like wtf as well but since my order was like $7 total I said what the hell and paid it. I don't like that system at all either.

I just read more of the threads, I agree if the service is really horrible I'd leave no tip. But I usually tip a minimum of 10%.

Nik some of your claims are bs you're just being a cheaparse...

You have also not read the thread.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: Robor
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Robor
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe
Again the job is only woth so much. Do you feel I should have been making more than most college educated people for suggesting a wine , opening it, bringing your dinner, blah, blah, blah.

I think people in the customer service industry deserve quite a bit more than $2.50 per hour. However, I also believe that their employer should respect them enough to pay them that without them turning the burden onto the customer directly. It's the employer who's abusing the "voluntary" tipping system by requiring it in order to compensate for their choice to undercut their employee wages.

Yeah, you need to receive more money, but it's not going to be from me if it's "forced" in any way.

OMFG... You just clearly stated the argument against your own ranting. If the employer paid their wait staff more money rather than relying on tips from customers the employer would have to raise the prices of food and drink on the menu to compensate. In other words, you'd be forced to pay higher prices for food and drink. With the tip system at least you can leave an amount based on service. Geez... :roll:

Like I said, read the thread. Paying employees more doesn't necessarily guarantee higher prices for the customer.

Jesus christ.

READ THE FVCKING THREAD.

I read the fvcking thread and I don't agree with your opinion or reasoning. The simple truth is you're just a cheap dickwad. If you don't like to tip go eat fast food or stay home.

Where did I say I don't like to tip? You obviously haven't read the thread if you think I don't like to tip.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Trevelyan
We're not even talking about "tips" anymore. You used to get a tip because you were performed excellent service, but now they are trying to tell us you get a tip because the manager cuts your paycheck.

When was "used" to? It has always been a standard that if you are waited on, you tip that person. The exceptions were those that owned their business. Many places now in the 'service' biz say no to tipping, but pay their employees a little better (sometimes).

When you are served food by wait staff a tip is not about exceptional service, it's about being served. That is what the tip is for. Now the standard is 15%, you can adjust either way depending on if the service was non-average. A standard tip is for standard service.

If you cannot afford to tip, or do not wish too...take your food to go so I can have the table, you are obviously living beyond your means and trying to justify not tipping as if you are oppressed.

In countries where there is no tipping fir waitstaff, eating out is a lot more expensive.

If that were true, the half dozen or 8 states that don't allow employers to pay less than minimum wage in the food industry would be prohibitively expensive to eat out at. Again, this line of thinking is incorrect because it's obviously not.
 

MustangSVT

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Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: Nik
I do not ever tip anyone who demands it or expects it. Bitch, you get a goddamn paycheck. Need more money? GET A DIFFERENT JOB. :|

grr...

</rant>

Most waiters/waitresses get less than $2.50 an hour. They depend on the gratuity to actually get money at their job.

That said, I'd probably get pissed if someone specifically asked me for a tip or automatically added it to the bill, which would result in me giving a nice fat tip of $0.

BOO FVCKIN HOO. :roll: I'm so sick of that sh|tty ass argument. They chose to take the job. Don't like it? Get a different job or a second one. Or a third one. I don't give a fvck. You don't *deserve* anything more from me than what's on the ticket.

Who poured sand in your vagina?


that's what he does, bitchin about everything. boohooo :)
 

Robor

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Originally posted by: DonVito
Originally posted by: Halin
Originally posted by: Nik
I do not ever tip anyone who demands it or expects it. Bitch, you get a goddamn paycheck. Need more money? GET A DIFFERENT JOB. :|

grr...

</rant>

they get paid like $3 dollars an hour, tips are really important

You're talking to a brick wall. Don't waste your time, even though you're 100% right.

Yeah, I was going to read further and reply again but what's the point? There's always going to be guys like this Prick, I mean Nik, in the world and no amount of reasoning is going to change them.
 

DainBramaged

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Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: MustangSVT
that's what he does, bitchin about everything. boohooo :)

Way to exaggerate. :thumbsup: Good job.

Nik, is it true that you have a vagina? LordMaul said so and TheLonelyPhoenix said so too. Does that make it true?
 

Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Trevelyan
We're not even talking about "tips" anymore. You used to get a tip because you were performed excellent service, but now they are trying to tell us you get a tip because the manager cuts your paycheck.

When was "used" to? It has always been a standard that if you are waited on, you tip that person. The exceptions were those that owned their business. Many places now in the 'service' biz say no to tipping, but pay their employees a little better (sometimes).

When you are served food by wait staff a tip is not about exceptional service, it's about being served. That is what the tip is for. Now the standard is 15%, you can adjust either way depending on if the service was non-average. A standard tip is for standard service.

If you cannot afford to tip, or do not wish too...take your food to go so I can have the table, you are obviously living beyond your means and trying to justify not tipping as if you are oppressed.

In countries where there is no tipping fir waitstaff, eating out is a lot more expensive.

If that were true, the half dozen or 8 states that don't allow employers to pay less than minimum wage in the food industry would be prohibitively expensive to eat out at. Again, this line of thinking is incorrect because it's obviously not.

Its for more than the food industry.
 

Excelsior

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Originally posted by: brigden
Look, people; if you eat at a restaurant and you get acceptable levels of service, you should tip your wait staff. If you get great service, you should tip big. If you get lousy service, you should withhold any tip. It isn't rocket science.

Should the restaurant add a gratuity to your bill, pay it, and if you're that upset, don't come back. If the service was that bad, then ask to speak to the manager.

I tip well where ever I go, and especially at places I frequent. I always get better service. I tip a minimum of 20% in restaurants, a couple of bucks per drink in bars, twenty bucks for valet and/or room service, and 40% for my hair stylist.

In countries where tipping is not common practice I instead "bribe" the barstaff. I always sort the bartender with a generous amount to look after me and my party. I hate waiting for drinks.

EXACTLY. If someone doesn't do what I put I bold, then they shouldn't bother eating out.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: MustangSVT
that's what he does, bitchin about everything. boohooo :)

Way to exaggerate. :thumbsup: Good job.

hmmm apparently you are the only one here that understands yourself, Nik. I am even 8 pints to the wind and understand the others point of view(s).

way to go boy! :thumbsup: Good job! :beer:
 

brigden

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Nik, let's say you're eating out at decent restaurant. There are seven other people in your party. Let's assume the service was good, as was the food. Let's also assume you get one bill for the entire party. Everyone is expected to pay for their share of the bill and a tip.

What would you do?
 

neonerd

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Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix
Originally posted by: Nik
I do not ever tip anyone who demands it or expects it. Bitch, you get a goddamn paycheck. Need more money? GET A DIFFERENT JOB. :|

grr...

</rant>

Most waiters/waitresses get less than $2.50 an hour. They depend on the gratuity to actually get money at their job.

That said, I'd probably get pissed if someone specifically asked me for a tip or automatically added it to the bill, which would result in me giving a nice fat tip of $0.

bullshit....ever heard of minimum wage?