it is still a laid back country where a person can relax.
as a tourist, you can relax in any country.
If you work, you're probably more relaxed in northern europe than in Italy.
Public transportation in Italy is a nightmare and commuters and city dwellers are definitely not relaxed and don't like the rush every morning and coming home late because trains get suppressed randomly or have huge delays. They also aren't very strict on daily working hours so employees are sometimes left stuck at work (private sector of course).
As a man travelling alone you won't encounter many problems, but each of my blonde, female colleagues that went there for a congress or customer visit got harrassed the moment they walked out onto the streets. Lega Nord is a facist party with a lot of followers there, the poorer South knows quite a lot of corruption, and in the EU only Greece has a worse debt to GDP ratio (which is of course because the government handled the economy so greatly). Even if the EU can throw Greece out of the Euro we'll still be stuck with the rest of the Southern-European countries.
I'm a bit dumbfounded by that thing about the blonde colleague but I guess it varies regionally.
I've never seen this in the north.
Lega Nord has nowadays caught many votes of ex-fascists but traditionally it wasn't fascist at all, just right-wing. And it's nowhere close to Republicans.
It also has like 10% of the votes or something (now that they pander to pseudofascists and right wingers as well instead of just northern autonomists).
Calling it the land of fascism and sexual assault is simply wrong. They also have too many antifas (communist vandalizers). I'd call it a land of extremes, that combine to form perfect immobility.
Sexual assaults committed by natives do happen but many are committed by foreigners belonging to a different culture regarding respect of women just like in the rest of europe.