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randay

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Yes we required detailed specs of the entire boob to come to a complete and satisfactory conclusion.
 

Cattlegod

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Dude!!! I just figured the ultimate plan!!!!

Tell her you have to feel some girls who have implants in order to assess if it will be good for you!!! Then you can tell her that they don't feel good and she should get them done!

You accomplish:

1 - touching girls tits and she is OK with it
2 - she might not get tit implants now!

Win Win situation!!!
 

SampSon

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It's her body, so she will have ultimate say.

Though it is a rather selfish decision to only take into account her opinion and not yours. It's also sad that women today lack any kind of confidence or self-esteem to the point where making their breasts bigger "fixes" that problem. There are "extreme " cases like LolaWiz where her breasts were ridiculously small and making them a more average size, but I am willing to bet these types of cases constitute the minority.
I think geekbabe mentioned something about womans clothing trends. I think it's incredibly vain to undergo a surgical procedure in order to better fit into contemporary clothing. Women claim it's "all for them, and how they feel" and I find that very sad and troubling. I'm sure there are many men out there that are not very well endowed, but I don't see a huge increase in the popularity of penis enlargement surgery.

Either way you should be supportive and participate in the process, but you should also voice your concerns. I'm willing to bet she will get her way.
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: SampSon
It's her body, so she will have ultimate say.

Though it is a rather selfish decision to only take into account her opinion and not yours. It's also sad that women today lack any kind of confidence or self-esteem to the point where making their breasts bigger "fixes" that problem. There are "extreme " cases like LolaWiz where her breasts were ridiculously small and making them a more average size, but I am willing to bet these types of cases constitute the minority.
I think geekbabe mentioned something about womans clothing trends. I think it's incredibly vain to undergo a surgical procedure in order to better fit into contemporary clothing. Women claim it's "all for them, and how they feel" and I find that very sad and troubling. I'm sure there are many men out there that are not very well endowed, but I don't see a huge increase in the popularity of penis enlargement surgery.

Either way you should be supportive and participate in the process, but you should also voice your concerns. I'm willing to bet she will get her way.

I don't think there is a reliable procedure to increase rigid penis size...you're stuck with the equipment you have. The is a procedure where a ligament or something is cut so your Johnson looks larger while flaccid....but who cares how big your soft penis is, unless you're looking to impress guys in the gym shower.
 

randay

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Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Originally posted by: randay
Yes we required detailed specs of the entire boob to come to a complete and satisfactory conclusion.



RIIIIIIIIIGHT:roll: :p

Have you ever seen Tara Reids pepperoni nips, did they come out of the factory like that or was it the outcome of a bad job?

 
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Lola

Originally posted by: randay
Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Originally posted by: randay
Yes we required detailed specs of the entire boob to come to a complete and satisfactory conclusion.



RIIIIIIIIIGHT:roll: :p

Have you ever seen Tara Reids pepperoni nips, did they come out of the factory like that or was it the outcome of a bad job?

that was RIGHT after her surgery and she had a periareola incesion. SHe had not healed yet, that is why they were like that.
 

DainBramaged

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Tell her it's fine as long as she doesn't mind you doing the same. I honestly think that fake breasts are as ridiculous as a guy getting a boob job. Just do what is natural.
 

CptObvious

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maybe i'm old-fashioned or insensitive or whatever, but she's 30 and married and has two kids. if she's not doing it for you and only for herself, she sounds emotionally insecure about losing her youth. it seems she has to derive her self-esteem from having other people admire her body. btw i think there's nothing wrong with the way she looks for her age.

i'm not targeting just her b/c there are a LOT of people who don't want to accept the effects of aging and do the same thing. i just think that eventually she'll have to accept it and grow up or keep having surgery done to defy nature.
 

VanTheMan

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Breast augmentation can be a kind of plastic surgery gateway. She'll get her breasts augmented and be happy for a little while. Then maybe she'll start noticing some lines on her face. Eh, what's wrong with a little face lift? Oh, you're not happy with the shape of your nose? It's just a little rhinoplasty. BAM! You're married to Joan Rivers!

I'm not saying that will definitely happen, but it does happen and it's something to consider. I would talk in depth about it and go to the consults with her. If she decides she wants to do it, then definitely support her.
 

iamwiz82

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Originally posted by: VanTheMan
Breast augmentation can be a kind of plastic surgery gateway. She'll get her breasts augmented and be happy for a little while. Then maybe she'll start noticing some lines on her face. Eh, what's wrong with a little face lift? Oh, you're not happy with the shape of your nose? It's just a little rhinoplasty. BAM! You're married to Joan Rivers!

I'm not saying that will definitely happen, but it does happen and it's something to consider. I would talk in depth about it and go to the consults with her. If she decides she wants to do it, then definitely support her.

I think by now he would realize if she has an addictive personality. I'm guessing that if someone got hooked on cosmetic surgery then they would tend to get hooked on lots of other things, as well.
 

Stumps

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oh well could be worse...my missus has a nice set of 16D boobs and she wants to get them reduced:(
 

bennylong

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I would say, make sure it's DD. And get a butt implant while you're there, I'll be waiting at home with the lube and the purple pill
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: SampSon
It's her body, so she will have ultimate say.

Though it is a rather selfish decision to only take into account her opinion and not yours. It's also sad that women today lack any kind of confidence or self-esteem to the point where making their breasts bigger "fixes" that problem. There are "extreme " cases like LolaWiz where her breasts were ridiculously small and making them a more average size, but I am willing to bet these types of cases constitute the minority.
I think geekbabe mentioned something about womans clothing trends. I think it's incredibly vain to undergo a surgical procedure in order to better fit into contemporary clothing. Women claim it's "all for them, and how they feel" and I find that very sad and troubling. I'm sure there are many men out there that are not very well endowed, but I don't see a huge increase in the popularity of penis enlargement surgery.

Either way you should be supportive and participate in the process, but you should also voice your concerns. I'm willing to bet she will get her way.

The general public isnt able to even get a rough idea of your penis size by observing you in clothing not the same thing with breasts.



 

ManyBeers

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Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Her reasoning is that at 30 years old and after nursing 2 kids, she feels 'deflated'. I disagree. I think things are just fine "topside" and I've told her so. I also know that if you were to look at her on the street you'd never have guessed she's ever had a kid. My wife works out alot and has a nice athletic build but for some reason she seems bent on getting implants. For about a year she used to talk about it almost daily but had dropped the topic in the last a couple of months so I though maybe she has moved on and then just yesterday out of nowhere she says she's going in for a consult.

I don't know exactly how to feel about this. I've over and over and over told her that I think she's just right the way she is and I wouldn't change a thing. She has made it blateltly clear that she's doing this primarily for herself and although I'm not entirely opposed to the idea, I just don't want to see her make a decicion she may come to regret later.

I guess I've watched too many horror stories on Discovery Health and I'm concerned about the risks more than anything. I'd just really hate to see something go wrong.

Discuss...

Update - Due to popular demand:

OK, the is the best 'cleavage' pic I have on my computer. She's the brunette on the right.
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Here's another one that's a little better (she's on the left)
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I guess since she wants them for "herself", I would have to ask myself , if it's normal for a grown woman with 2 kids and in a semingly happy marriage to require breast implants . For what possible reason would she need them? For herself, hmmm....maybe she likes looking at herself a little too much. Pretty vain woman if you ask me.
 

KrillBee

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tell your wife that krillbee from ATOT thinks that she is pretty dang hot as is, and that I think implants would make her look worse, so if she is doing it to be more attractive, it might not be worth it.

I'm sure others here probably agree as well.

But as others have said its her tits. As long as there arent any health problems later, its not the end of the world. she wouldnt look bad with implants.

but yeah, itd suck if something went wrong, so constantly remind her of that, and maybe she'll change her mind :)
 

KrillBee

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz

Talk with her about it, but please realize she looks at herself every single day, she sees flaws you never could.

arg! this is the problem you see. Women think its a flaw if their breasts aren't big. But there is nothing wrong with small breasts, as long as they arent like completely flat. Women have skewed perceptions of beauty, and it causes them to spend money and risk health to undergo these operations!

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I hate the fact that most people think grotesquely big "cans" when someone says breast augmentation... THATS NOT IT!!!!!!
most women only want a size or two larger and will look totally natural except when their friends with large natural breasts have theirs down at their knees, hers will still be perfect!! :p
(don't hate me for that reply! :D )

I know they dont mean super big, but I still think that women are usually look best natural. their natural breasts are usually meant to go with the size and shape of their body. there are some exceptions where women have really small breasts and get implants. aesthetically i think that can work at times, but then there are still health risks.
 

LennyZ

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"The general public isnt able to even get a rough idea of your penis size by observing you in clothing not the same thing with breasts. "

Guess you haven't seen me in shorts when it pops out :p