What do you say to your wife when...

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I hate the fact that most people think grotesquely big "cans" when someone says breast augmentation... THATS NOT IT!!!!!!
most women only want a size or two larger and will look totally natural except when their friends with large natural breasts have theirs down at their knees, hers will still be perfect!!
(don't hate me for that reply! )

It's because breast augmentation has gotten a bad rap from porn stars and strippers.

 

[Lola]

Originally posted by: Feldenak

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I hate the fact that most people think grotesquely big "cans" when someone says breast augmentation... THATS NOT IT!!!!!!
most women only want a size or two larger and will look totally natural except when their friends with large natural breasts have theirs down at their knees, hers will still be perfect!!
(don't hate me for that reply! )

It's because breast augmentation has gotten a bad rap from porn stars and strippers.

you are exactly right. :thumbsup:
it is not like that at all... and you would be shocked to find out how many "normal" women have had surgery

 

[Cattlegod]

dude, fake tits suck man. they are nice to look at but they feel like crap. I know from first hand experience.

 

[FeuerFrei]

I would tell her to go for the smallest implants. It's easy to overdo this from what I've noticed.

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz

Originally posted by: Feldenak

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I hate the fact that most people think grotesquely big "cans" when someone says breast augmentation... THATS NOT IT!!!!!!
most women only want a size or two larger and will look totally natural except when their friends with large natural breasts have theirs down at their knees, hers will still be perfect!!
(don't hate me for that reply! )

It's because breast augmentation has gotten a bad rap from porn stars and strippers.

you are exactly right. :thumbsup:
it is not like that at all... and you would be shocked to find out how many "normal" women have had surgery

You have to admit that there is a point that you get too much of a good thing. If the boobs are larger than my head....we've got a problem. A full C-cup is just about perfect.

 

[lokiju]

How about suggesting a breast lift if she feels "deflated"? Seems that would be the logical choice if that's really the case but if she just wants bigger breast then I guess she'd want implants.

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: Cattlegod
dude, fake tits suck man. they are nice to look at but they feel like crap. I know from first hand experience.

It's amazing how many guys here have "first hand experience" with fake breasts when those "Are you a virgin" polls are always a landslide for yes.

For the most part, the only fake breasts that are bad are the ones done by bad doctors.

 

[ruffilb]

Originally posted by: theNEOone
fake boobs aren't nearly as sexy as real boobs. what's this american obsession with size? what about shape, feel, bounce?!?! now, i can appreciate breasts just as much as the next man, but not at the expense of being real.


=|

Exactly.

Fake FTL.

 

[randay]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz

Originally posted by: archcommus

Originally posted by: LolaWiz

Originally posted by: theNEOone
fake boobs aren't nearly as sexy as real boobs. what's this american obsession with size? what about shape, feel, bounce?!?! now, i can appreciate breasts just as much as the next man, but not at the expense of being real.


=|

i beg to differ.

99% of the time, a woman wants them for HERSELF... not for anyone else.
There are so many wonderful dr's out there that do amazing work you will not even know she has them.
Talk with her about it, but please realize she looks at herself every single day, she sees flaws you never could.

If you have the money, at least go to a few consults with her.

Best of wishes and luck to her.
PS, don't think she will leave you if she gets them either. she will be more confident when you are together as well

If you don't mind my asking what was your cup size before your implants? My previous girlfriend was an A cup which of course disappointed her, but she wanted to take pills which I outright disagreed with.

I did not even fill out an A cup bra at Victorias Secret (which would make me an AA) now, I am a big C/small D but you could not tell that size on my body.

PS, no pills really work, neither do creams!

:camera:s? maybe they will help out Jollyroger... yeah thats it... help Jolly

 

[rh71]

let the woman decide for herself... they stick out of her chest and it's noticeable so esteem plays a part here no matter what internet people like to say.

 

[dsfunk]

I agree with you, but they are her tits. Support her and go to the consultations with her. Spend a few extra dollars for a good doctor. Encourage her to shop around. There's nothing wrong with bigger boobs if they are done right. Seriously, don't make it an issue if your wife wants tits. There are far, far, far worse things going on in this world

 

[habib89]

you just nod and say "yes dear"

in all seriousness though, she's not doing it for you, or anyone else, she's doing it for herself.. she wants to feel better about herself, so let her

 

[JoLLyRoGer]

Lots of different opinons and some good advice... It seems like the general concensus is to be supportive and let her go through with it (which I had pretty much resolved myself to doing at this point). It still doesn't stop me from being uneasy about the whole thing.

Oh well, like dsfunk said... "There are far, far, far worse things going on in this world"

 

[The Stigenator]

if she wants it, she should earn the money to pay for it.

 

[oddyager]

Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Lots of different opinons and some good advice... It seems like the general concensus is to be supportive and let her go through with it (which I had pretty much resolved myself to doing at this point). It still doesn't stop me from being uneasy about the whole thing.

Oh well, like dsfunk said... "There are far, far, far worse things going on in this world"

Pretty much. I'm also with the consensus that she doesn't need one (looks perfectly fine to me) but if this is what she wants, I'd also vote to be supportive. From what you're saying anyway she isn't looking to up the size by several magnitudes.

 

[JS80]

Originally posted by: Feldenak

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I hate the fact that most people think grotesquely big "cans" when someone says breast augmentation... THATS NOT IT!!!!!!
most women only want a size or two larger and will look totally natural except when their friends with large natural breasts have theirs down at their knees, hers will still be perfect!!
(don't hate me for that reply! )

It's because breast augmentation has gotten a bad rap from Pamela Anderson.

Fixed

 

[BW86]

I'd say go for it

 

[RichardE]

bah..wifey will be pissed as hell if she ever finds out you posted pics of her clevage on a nerd site

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: TheGoodGuy
if she wants it, she should earn the money to pay for it.

They're married...splitting money up like that is asking for headaches down the road.

 

[JoLLyRoGer]

Originally posted by: TheGoodGuy
if she wants it, she should earn the money to pay for it.

Money is not really too much of an object. I work on a well-paid DoD contract and she's an RN.

 

[randay]

Originally posted by: RichardE
bah..wifey will be pissed as hell if she ever finds out you posted pics of her clevage on a nerd site

I posted this with one hand.

 

[JoLLyRoGer]

Originally posted by: RichardE
bah..wifey will be pissed as hell if she ever finds out you posted pics of her clevage on a nerd site

Wifey lurks... No worries

 

[Bryan]

"Honey, my ex girlfriend's boobs were way bigger than yours, but they weren't THAT much better. I like your small boobs just fine."

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer

Originally posted by: RichardE
bah..wifey will be pissed as hell if she ever finds out you posted pics of her clevage on a nerd site

Wifey lurks... No worries

In that case...


better pics! :beer:

 

[nakedfrog]

"Can I post plenty of pics for the horny nerds on ATOT to ogle?"