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Doboji

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Originally posted by: iamwiz82
I was originally against the idea as well, but it's what she wanted and I relented. My advice is the support her in her decision, but explain your issues/fears. I also suggest going to the consultation and asking any questions you have.

But the real question we want to know... and I'm not sure you can really answer is....

How do they FEEL afterwards...??

-Max
 

hans030390

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Originally posted by: archcommus
You say "Fine with me."

Hahaha, while I somewhat agree, I get annoyed with females always complaining about their weight or boobs or something, because generally I hear that from females who I consider to be great as they are.

To the OP, tell her that most people on ATOT think she's just fine, because obviously, your opinion doesn't matter (typical...sadly).
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: hans030390
Originally posted by: archcommus
You say "Fine with me."

Hahaha, while I somewhat agree, I get annoyed with females always complaining about their weight or boobs or something, because generally I hear that from females who I consider to be great as they are.

To the OP, tell her that most people on ATOT think she's just fine, because obviously, your opinion doesn't matter (typical...sadly).

The opinion that really matters in this issue is hers, it is her body !
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: LennyZ
"The general public isnt able to even get a rough idea of your penis size by observing you in clothing not the same thing with breasts. "

Guess you haven't seen me in shorts when it pops out :p

ROTFLMAO, no thank god :D
 

compuwiz1

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: compuwiz1
More than a mouthfull is a waste! ;)

which is one of the oldest lies since "the check is in the mail" size does matter and it matters a lot !

That expains this sudden size increase in women's rumps, that I've been noticing lately. ;)

And, my apologies to the OP. I have not contributed anything to this thread.

I would say be supportive, and if it makes her happy, that's all that matters.

 

WildHorse

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz

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you are exactly right. :thumbsup:
it is not like that at all... and you would be shocked to find out how many "normal" women have had surgery

Do you think most breast implants in the USA are for women who suffered breast cancer & endured mastectomy?

Or are most for healthy women, for purely cosmetic reasons ?

(Note: I've heard a LOT of women in other countries get them for cosmetics.)
 
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I don't know if this will help, but explain to her than she's bigger than Shakira and that Shakira lacks sexuality not in the least.
 

2Dead

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does she want you to pay for them or will her boyfriend:p j/k

seriously though, if you are really opposed to them, why not show her thos discovery channel "When Operations go Wrong (big booming voice in the end...)" shows and then see what she thinks?
 

ATLien247

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When my wife brought up the topic, I told her that I liked her the way she was. She responded that she would be getting them for her, not me. I said I was fine with that, but that since money was tight she would need to get a part-time job to pay for the procedure herself. She agreed and got a part-time job, but she has yet to do anything further, and she has had plenty of opportunity to save enough money. So, I guess we'll see...
 

Dragoon42

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Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Originally posted by: Baked
How big?

She's a B cup and wants to go up to a "full C"

man, I think i look at way too much porn. I could tell they were B from the second picture =(


Hrm....as long as they're perky. I'm not a big fan of plastic surgery. If they had it done before then i'm fine, but I've never pushed for it =/
 

Dragoon42

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: theNEOone
fake boobs aren't nearly as sexy as real boobs. what's this american obsession with size? what about shape, feel, bounce?!?! now, i can appreciate breasts just as much as the next man, but not at the expense of being real.


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i beg to differ.

99% of the time, a woman wants them for HERSELF... not for anyone else.
There are so many wonderful dr's out there that do amazing work you will not even know she has them.
Talk with her about it, but please realize she looks at herself every single day, she sees flaws you never could.

If you have the money, at least go to a few consults with her.

Best of wishes and luck to her.
PS, don't think she will leave you if she gets them either. :p she will be more confident when you are together as well



with all the crazy mental sickness people like to document now and days, there should be one called "women"

doc: "sorry, you're a woman"
woman: "fudge, so that's gonna be 30 crazy pills i need to take a day?"
 

Stuxnet

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Originally posted by: Dragoon42
with all the crazy mental sickness people like to document now and days, there should be one called "women"

doc: "sorry, you're a woman"
woman: "fudge, so that's gonna be 30 crazy pills i need to take a day?"

LMFAO
 

z42

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Originally posted by: SampSon
It's her body, so she will have ultimate say.

Though it is a rather selfish decision to only take into account her opinion and not yours. It's also sad that women today lack any kind of confidence or self-esteem to the point where making their breasts bigger "fixes" that problem. There are "extreme " cases like LolaWiz where her breasts were ridiculously small and making them a more average size, but I am willing to bet these types of cases constitute the minority.
I think geekbabe mentioned something about womans clothing trends. I think it's incredibly vain to undergo a surgical procedure in order to better fit into contemporary clothing. Women claim it's "all for them, and how they feel" and I find that very sad and troubling. I'm sure there are many men out there that are not very well endowed, but I don't see a huge increase in the popularity of penis enlargement surgery.

Either way you should be supportive and participate in the process, but you should also voice your concerns. I'm willing to bet she will get her way.

:thumbsup:
 

Dubb

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I think you should do everything in your power to talk her out of it.

I realize there are cases where it's an issue for small women, but I can't for the life of me ever imagine that it's bad enough to want to mutilate yourself over it. And certainly not with a B cup. seriously...if celebrities and A-list pornstars can't get a decent boob job, what hope do normal people have?
 

DougK62

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She's hot.

My opinion is that if she's so concerned about vanity and having people look at her that she'd go under the knife to try and "fix" it then maybe she should be spending that money on a shrink instead.

 

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they're her tits... she can do with them what she wants. just make sure you're there for her.

if her getting implants would turn you off sexually, let her know that. maybe you can reach a cup size you both agree on.