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Lola

Originally posted by: theNEOone
fake boobs aren't nearly as sexy as real boobs. what's this american obsession with size? what about shape, feel, bounce?!?! now, i can appreciate breasts just as much as the next man, but not at the expense of being real.


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i beg to differ.

99% of the time, a woman wants them for HERSELF... not for anyone else.
There are so many wonderful dr's out there that do amazing work you will not even know she has them.
Talk with her about it, but please realize she looks at herself every single day, she sees flaws you never could.

If you have the money, at least go to a few consults with her.

Best of wishes and luck to her.
PS, don't think she will leave you if she gets them either. :p she will be more confident when you are together as well
 

JoLLyRoGer

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Update - Due to popular demand:

OK, the is the best 'cleavage' pic I have on my computer. She's the brunette on the right.
Pic
 

archcommus

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: theNEOone
fake boobs aren't nearly as sexy as real boobs. what's this american obsession with size? what about shape, feel, bounce?!?! now, i can appreciate breasts just as much as the next man, but not at the expense of being real.


=|

i beg to differ.

99% of the time, a woman wants them for HERSELF... not for anyone else.
There are so many wonderful dr's out there that do amazing work you will not even know she has them.
Talk with her about it, but please realize she looks at herself every single day, she sees flaws you never could.

If you have the money, at least go to a few consults with her.

Best of wishes and luck to her.
PS, don't think she will leave you if she gets them either. :p she will be more confident when you are together as well
If you don't mind my asking what was your cup size before your implants? My previous girlfriend was an A cup which of course disappointed her, but she wanted to take pills which I outright disagreed with.
 

Geekbabe

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since it's obviously bothered her for a really long time I'm guessing she's thought it over carefully and is going in for a consult to hear what her options are in order to make a final choice.

I'd say be supportive of her choice.
 

Demo24

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Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Update - Due to popular demand:

OK, the is the best 'cleavage' pic I have on my computer. She's the brunette on the right.
Pic

props for pic!

however i'd say they look big enough, cant imagine why she wants larger
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: DEMO24
Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Update - Due to popular demand:

OK, the is the best 'cleavage' pic I have on my computer. She's the brunette on the right.
Pic

props for pic!

however i'd say they look big enough, cant imagine why she wants larger

Probably because they're her ta-tas and that's what she wants? :)
 

dmcowen674

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Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Her reasoning is that at 30 years old and after nursing 2 kids, she feels 'deflated'. I disagree. I think things are just fine "topside" and I've told her so. I also know that if you were to look at her on the street you'd never have guessed she's ever had a kid. My wife works out alot and has a nice athletic build but for some reason she seems bent on getting implants. For about a year she used to talk about it almost daily but had dropped the topic in the last a couple of months so I though maybe she has moved on and then just yesterday out of nowhere she says she's going in for a consult.

I don't know exactly how to feel about this. I've over and over and over told her that I think she's just right the way she is and I wouldn't change a thing. She has made it blateltly clear that she's doing this primarily for herself and although I'm not entirely opposed to the idea, I just don't want to see her make a decicion she may come to regret later.

I guess I've watched too many horror stories on Discovery Health and I'm concerned about the risks more than anything. I'd just really hate to see something go wrong.

Discuss...

Update - Due to popular demand:

OK, the is the best 'cleavage' pic I have on my computer. She's the brunette on the right.
Pic

Here's another one that's a little better (she's on the left)
Pic 2

Too bad - they look fine

Good luck
 

randay

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They look fine, an implant wouldnt put her into the realm of zomg balloon boobs though, I also will have to vote support her.
 

JoLLyRoGer

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
since it's obviously bothered her for a really long time I'm guessing she's thought it over carefully and is going in for a consult to hear what her options are in order to make a final choice.

I'd say be supportive of her choice.

That kinda the angle I've decided to take. She know my concerns well and we've discussed them at length in the past. It still doesn't stop me from being aprehensive about the whole ordeal.


On an unrealted note, yes we have the money and yes the kid's college is already being taken care of ;)
 
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Lola

Originally posted by: archcommus
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: theNEOone
fake boobs aren't nearly as sexy as real boobs. what's this american obsession with size? what about shape, feel, bounce?!?! now, i can appreciate breasts just as much as the next man, but not at the expense of being real.


=|

i beg to differ.

99% of the time, a woman wants them for HERSELF... not for anyone else.
There are so many wonderful dr's out there that do amazing work you will not even know she has them.
Talk with her about it, but please realize she looks at herself every single day, she sees flaws you never could.

If you have the money, at least go to a few consults with her.

Best of wishes and luck to her.
PS, don't think she will leave you if she gets them either. :p she will be more confident when you are together as well
If you don't mind my asking what was your cup size before your implants? My previous girlfriend was an A cup which of course disappointed her, but she wanted to take pills which I outright disagreed with.

I did not even fill out an A cup bra at Victorias Secret (which would make me an AA) now, I am a big C/small D but you could not tell that size on my body. :)

PS, no pills really work, neither do creams!
 

ITJunkie

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: theNEOone
fake boobs aren't nearly as sexy as real boobs. what's this american obsession with size? what about shape, feel, bounce?!?! now, i can appreciate breasts just as much as the next man, but not at the expense of being real.


=|

i beg to differ.

99% of the time, a woman wants them for HERSELF... not for anyone else.
There are so many wonderful dr's out there that do amazing work you will not even know she has them.
Talk with her about it, but please realize she looks at herself every single day, she sees flaws you never could.

If you have the money, at least go to a few consults with her.

Best of wishes and luck to her.
PS, don't think she will leave you if she gets them either. :p she will be more confident when you are together as well
Listen to Lola buddy, she knows what she's talking about. Just be supportive (pardon the pun) and be there with her.
And then enjoy :p
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: Feldenak
Originally posted by: DEMO24
Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Update - Due to popular demand:

OK, the is the best 'cleavage' pic I have on my computer. She's the brunette on the right.
Pic

props for pic!

however i'd say they look big enough, cant imagine why she wants larger

Probably because they're her ta-tas and that's what she wants? :)

are they her breasts or are they barely B cup breasts encased in a bra that's so padded that it could serve as a floatation device on an airplane ?

clothing for the past several years demands that a woman have really deep cleavage and that's difficult to pull off if you're small.


 

JoLLyRoGer

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Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Her reasoning is that at 30 years old and after nursing 2 kids, she feels 'deflated'. I disagree. I think things are just fine "topside" and I've told her so. I also know that if you were to look at her on the street you'd never have guessed she's ever had a kid. My wife works out alot and has a nice athletic build but for some reason she seems bent on getting implants. For about a year she used to talk about it almost daily but had dropped the topic in the last a couple of months so I though maybe she has moved on and then just yesterday out of nowhere she says she's going in for a consult.

I don't know exactly how to feel about this. I've over and over and over told her that I think she's just right the way she is and I wouldn't change a thing. She has made it blateltly clear that she's doing this primarily for herself and although I'm not entirely opposed to the idea, I just don't want to see her make a decicion she may come to regret later.

I guess I've watched too many horror stories on Discovery Health and I'm concerned about the risks more than anything. I'd just really hate to see something go wrong.

Discuss...

Update - Due to popular demand:

OK, the is the best 'cleavage' pic I have on my computer. She's the brunette on the right.
Pic

Here's another one that's a little better (she's on the left)
Pic 2

Too bad - they look fine

Good luck

And that's exactly what I think too.. I've said that until I'm blue in the face, but for whatever reason, she either doesn't buy it, or... if she does buy it she's still not satisfied.
 

Conky

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My gf wants them too although I don't think she needs them. But if it makes her more confident and happy then I will just have to suffer with those oversized fun bags. :laugh:
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Originally posted by: dmcowen674
Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Her reasoning is that at 30 years old and after nursing 2 kids, she feels 'deflated'. I disagree. I think things are just fine "topside" and I've told her so. I also know that if you were to look at her on the street you'd never have guessed she's ever had a kid. My wife works out alot and has a nice athletic build but for some reason she seems bent on getting implants. For about a year she used to talk about it almost daily but had dropped the topic in the last a couple of months so I though maybe she has moved on and then just yesterday out of nowhere she says she's going in for a consult.

I don't know exactly how to feel about this. I've over and over and over told her that I think she's just right the way she is and I wouldn't change a thing. She has made it blateltly clear that she's doing this primarily for herself and although I'm not entirely opposed to the idea, I just don't want to see her make a decicion she may come to regret later.

I guess I've watched too many horror stories on Discovery Health and I'm concerned about the risks more than anything. I'd just really hate to see something go wrong.

Discuss...

Update - Due to popular demand:

OK, the is the best 'cleavage' pic I have on my computer. She's the brunette on the right.
Pic

Here's another one that's a little better (she's on the left)
Pic 2

Too bad - they look fine

Good luck

And that's exactly what I think too.. I've said that until I'm blue in the face, but for whatever reason, she either doesn't buy it, or... if she does buy it she's still not satisfied.

If she's happy then you get "happy time". :)
 
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Lola

I hate the fact that most people think grotesquely big "cans" when someone says breast augmentation... THATS NOT IT!!!!!!
most women only want a size or two larger and will look totally natural except when their friends with large natural breasts have theirs down at their knees, hers will still be perfect!! :p
(don't hate me for that reply! :D )
 

JoLLyRoGer

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Feldenak
Originally posted by: DEMO24
Originally posted by: JoLLyRoGer
Update - Due to popular demand:

OK, the is the best 'cleavage' pic I have on my computer. She's the brunette on the right.
Pic

props for pic!

however i'd say they look big enough, cant imagine why she wants larger

Probably because they're her ta-tas and that's what she wants? :)

are they her breasts or are they barely B cup breasts encased in a bra that's so padded that it could serve as a floatation device on an airplane ?

clothing for the past several years demands that a woman have really deep cleavage and that's difficult to pull off if you're small.


Based on your two descrptions, she's somewhere in between...