Originally posted by: Jfur
Again, to be taken with a grain of salt, since I've never dated...but I would suggest, Confidence rather than Arrogance. Being really self-concious and totally lacking in self-esteem is not attractive, and I can see where Arrogance would be preferable to that. But Confidence I think, would be better than either.
I think the most attractive men are humble even though they can blow anyone else out of the water. They just are secure enough to not constantly flaunt it, they realize they are not the center of the universe. People that boast and brag are usually either greatly exaggerating/lying or so full of themselves that they borderline on sociopathic.
Originally posted by: weezergirl
Originally posted by: Jfur
Again, to be taken with a grain of salt, since I've never dated...but I would suggest, Confidence rather than Arrogance. Being really self-concious and totally lacking in self-esteem is not attractive, and I can see where Arrogance would be preferable to that. But Confidence I think, would be better than either.
I think the most attractive men are humble even though they can blow anyone else out of the water. They just are secure enough to not constantly flaunt it, they realize they are not the center of the universe. People that boast and brag are usually either greatly exaggerating/lying or so full of themselves that they borderline on sociopathic.
this is SO SO true. even on the internet. people who brag too much are "greatly exaggerating/lying or so full of themselves that they borderline on sociopathic". at least thats' the impression i get. so lame if you are bragging on the internet hehe.
Originally posted by: Jfur
Originally posted by: weezergirl
Originally posted by: Jfur
Again, to be taken with a grain of salt, since I've never dated...but I would suggest, Confidence rather than Arrogance. Being really self-concious and totally lacking in self-esteem is not attractive, and I can see where Arrogance would be preferable to that. But Confidence I think, would be better than either.
I think the most attractive men are humble even though they can blow anyone else out of the water. They just are secure enough to not constantly flaunt it, they realize they are not the center of the universe. People that boast and brag are usually either greatly exaggerating/lying or so full of themselves that they borderline on sociopathic.
this is SO SO true. even on the internet. people who brag too much are "greatly exaggerating/lying or so full of themselves that they borderline on sociopathic". at least thats' the impression i get. so lame if you are bragging on the internet hehe.
Well, you know that the *average* ATer has an IQ of 140 (tested while tired and performing seven other tasks simulataneously), is in the top .0005% of computer knowledge, and has a bodyfat of 3%, right?
Well, you know that the *average* ATer has an IQ of 140 (tested while tired and performing seven other tasks simulataneously), is in the top .0005% of computer knowledge, and has a bodyfat of 3%, right?
Originally posted by: Jfur
Well, you know that the *average* ATer has an IQ of 140 (tested while tired and performing seven other tasks simulataneously), is in the top .0005% of computer knowledge, and has a bodyfat of 3%, right?
Darnit! You mean I am only average?
This is the reason Girl think Geeks are creepy
Originally posted by: Noriaki
This is the reason Girl think Geeks are creepy
j/k dude.
Originally posted by: Noriaki
This is the reason Girl think Geeks are creepy
j/k dude.
Originally posted by: Noriaki
Never quite could figure out why that is. Someone care to explain why you are suppose to do this?you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi."
Originally posted by: dfi
Originally posted by: Noriaki
Never quite could figure out why that is. Someone care to explain why you are suppose to do this?you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi."
I'll give this a shot.
People don't value things that are easily obtainable. This applies to guys and gals. Actually, I'm sure someone could find an example where something easily obtainable is also highly valued. I mean, we all get oxygen pretty easily, and we highly value it. But I can't recall the last time I held a party in honor of oxygen.
dfi
Originally posted by: Jfur
Again, to be taken with a grain of salt, since I've never dated...but I would suggest, Confidence rather than Arrogance. Being really self-concious and totally lacking in self-esteem is not attractive, and I can see where Arrogance would be preferable to that. But Confidence I think, would be better than either.
I think the most attractive men are humble even though they can blow anyone else out of the water. They just are secure enough to not constantly flaunt it, they realize they are not the center of the universe. People that boast and brag are usually either greatly exaggerating/lying or so full of themselves that they borderline on sociopathic.
Originally posted by: gotsmack
first dates are easy, but what do you talk about on dates 2 & 3 when you already run out of good conversation?
Originally posted by: sandorski
Mention "hooters" lots, women like hearing poetic things!