I think it was in the anti-vaxx thread that we talked about freedom not being the ability to do whatever you want. It's being able to make decisions or say things, but there could be consequences to it.
If you show up to a white nationalist party with tiki torches you can do that. You may lose your job or friends if it's made public you were there.
My wife is a clinical pharmacist and is offered weekly to move over the dark side of drug companies as a med science liaison. She hasn't done it to date because once she does she black lists herself from really ever working as a pharmacist again.
If you want to get a face tattoo that's your choice, but it likely greatly limits your work opportunities.
This is the hardest thing I really have to do as a parent...give enough rope to my kids to let them make some decisions, but being able to teach them that there are possibly negative outcomes based on that.
And that's where I am with this. Moonbeam sort of touched on it. It is a decision to go through a reassignment surgery. And it will have outcomes that alter your life. This is one of them. We don't have a sports infrastructure setup to really address this properly and it just doesn't feel fair to the overwhelming majority of athletes to have to question if their competitors had an advantage because of it. Until there is some kind of formal "open" class or a coed format you are going to continue to have these concerns.
I was born with one kidney. I didn't realize it until a fluke diagnostic test in high school. I was playing football and had to move to non-contact sports. I was working with military recruiters to help pay for college and that ended abruptly. As much as it sucks, there are some natural inequalities and there are just some things that we might have to adjust our lifestyle towards based on them or decisions we make.
I'm all for advocating for transgender protection in employment and general society being accepting. But as I said earlier, sports specifically is a bit of third rail to me because of the doubt it raises in the other athletes.
First of all, I agree with the majority here that mtf tg's shouldn't be competing in women's sports, especially at high levels. It isn't fair to biologically female athletes.
That aside, some of your analogies are flawed. No one is born predisposed to want a face tattoo. But people are born gay, and some at least seem to be born with a predisposition to identify with the gender to which they were not assigned at birth. So it isn't that simple as being a choice for people in that category. In the old days, people born gay made a choice to live as straight people, but it wasn't really a fair dilemma to impose on them. So it isn't just a matter of personal choice. It's also a question of the tolerance of others.
So people make choices in part based on how others will react. That employers prefer employees without face tattoos is one thing. That they may prefer someone who is straight, or white, or male, or non-TG, is another. Because people are predisposed to belong to those categories and in the case of gays and TG's, their only "choice" is to pretend to be someone they are not.