Understanding Lesbianism

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BudAshes

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Yet another poor emasculated eunuch, who just can't come to terms with his loss. Or he's just not noticed he lost it yet.

It's kind of ironic that a gay would have to be the one to tell a straight man he's probably emasculated, but that's a sign of the times of the crazy world we live in now.

Ok, I'll bite, what makes me emasculated? I've honestly felt pretty masculine this week, I drove my 4x4 with my pretty girlfriend into a snowstorm. Hung out with my awesome ski bum friends and drank beers all night. Then snowboarded in 5 feet of fresh snow and dropped some cliffs that were big enough to make me question my sanity and lack of a helmet. Honestly I think you are projecting your own insecurities on others. Does being gay make you feel emasculated? It shouldn't, I know some pretty badass gay dudes. Try doing some manly things, it might build your confidence and change your perspective.

As for lesbians, I'm a fan. Softball, subaru's, 3 legged blind "rescue" dogs and more softball. I'm in. So what if they hate men in general? I hate people in general, men and women. Humans are a bunch of asshole's with bodies attached to them.
 

SlickSnake

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Especially since the second group he described weren't lesbians. So to summarise his post, he thinks all lesbians hate men.

That's not what I said, but you might have inferred that. The second group WERE considered lesbians, BUT ALSO OCCASIONALLY BISEXUAL. But please, do go on.

If you were trying to come across as not being ignorant, you failed, resorting to unsubstantiated ad hominem points about Atomic Playboy.


Yet, when he made unsubstantiated ad hominem points about ME, he was magically elevated beyond troll status just because he has 2 moms, and thus butt loads of observations and anecdotes to the contrary. Which then somehow trumps all my personal experiences with my *** sister and her catty girlfriends.


As for "he's only aware of part of the personalities that lesbians have shown him", which seems pretty unlikely because someone who lives with someone for (probably) double-digit years is likely to know them very well because keeping up such a façade is difficult at home for such a length of time.

Not at all, because even straight parents may also try to keep up a false facade to their children all the time. They might leave the room to argue, or stop arguing when the kids wanders in the room. Why would you expect it to be more difficult for a lesbian couple to do the same thing? And his 2 mom's lesbian friends and relatives won't exactly be sharing their many little flings and fights with him, either, and if they did, that would be just plain weird because it is none of his business.

I was going to then point out that you seem to be a closet homophobe as you talk about "lesbians" showing him that side of their "personality" as if they have some sort of hive mind, but then you pretty much showed that you had left the homophobia closet some time ago in your later posts.


If you read all my posts a little closer next time, you would see just how stupid your homophobe comments really are about me, Sigmund. And since I'm not Jesus, I also don't have to love all my lesbian neighbors, especially when some of them act like misandrous Femnazi's. And I could also add a lot of irrationally hateful men into that defective gene pool I dislike, too, just so you don't have to feel all left out.


Congratulations. You found some women who hate men. If someone cites a source that shows there are men who hate women, have they proven that all men are like that? Or just the ones who, as part of becoming aware of their non-hetero sexual orientation have taken up the mandatory pledge of allegiance to the relevant organisation that tells them what they have to think?


No, I intimately know of a large group of militant Femnazi's who label themselves as lesbians who hate men. And my radical *** sister and all her wacky girlfriends never let me or my gay friends hear the end of it. What you and others might consider to be some weird aberration of lesbians who claim to never sleep with men, I found to be more the status quo among the diehard *** lesbians. Which is why
I placed most of them in 2 distinct categories.

And no matter how many times I say it, I will say it ONCE AGAIN in case you missed it the last few times, YOUR MILEAGE MAY VARY. As in, YOUR EXPERIENCES MAY NOT MATCH MINE.
 

Dari

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Honestly, why hasn't this already been moved into Love and Relationships where it belongs? I mean seriously.

This website claims to have the largest user base of misandrous women, over a quarter million users. Which might not sound like many, unless you consider the fact they probably get a lot more than that just lurking around there on a regular basis.

http://www.ihatemen.org/

Obviously, it's a real thing, and I am not just making this all up.

Not interested in jealous women. Not interested in butches. Not interested in where this thread is going.
 

MagickMan

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Doesn't that blow the whole "born that way" and "its not a choice" out of the water?

I think there are strong natural inclinations, but it isn't like, "you're born gay, that's just what you are". Nothing is ever so simple.
 

Paratus

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Doesn't that blow the whole "born that way" and "its not a choice" out of the water?

Absolutely not. In a population, sexuality is a continuum not a binary choice. Some will be born hetero, some homo, and some bi. Individuals however are not going to suddenly find the same sex attractive if they are hetero or the opposite sex if homo.

If they do find both sexes attractive then they are bi, not making a choice to be homosexual or heterosexual.
 

Agent11

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I am sad to say you are certainly emasculated because you have been radically feminized, whether you understand that reality, and how it applies to you, or not.

You may also be straight as an arrow, too. Which just means you will have no problems actually getting along with most women, because you tend to relate to them on an unnatural level, for a typical male.

Suffice it to say, you only know the one side of lesbians that they want to share with you and they want you and the rest of the "straight" world to know about. And because I grew up mostly gay with a crazy *** sister and all her looney lesbo friends, I know much more about the dark sides of those superficially friendly "strictly lesbians" you harp on about.

I may go into more details, later. I already typed something else up, but decided this would suffice, for now.

If I became an acquaintance of your crazy *** friends and gave them some shit in a friendly way you think that wouldn't fly? I think it would open doors. You just need to know how to be cool, dude.

People are more complex than their stereotypes.

Whats the worst that could happen, getting punched by a lesbian?
 

Jaepheth

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Maybe it's not your penis they have a problem with; just the stupid attached to it.
 

mikeymikec

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That's not what I said, but you might have inferred that. The second group WERE considered lesbians, BUT ALSO OCCASIONALLY BISEXUAL. But please, do go on.

Any self-proclaimed lesbian who has sexual relations with men is not a lesbian. No ifs, no buts. A person who has sex with members of both genders (no matter how occasionally) is bisexual, regardless of whether they mainly have sex with those of their own gender.


Yet, when he made unsubstantiated ad hominem points about ME, he was magically elevated beyond troll status
You attempted to make an informative statement which made you look foolish. He said it made you look foolish. You think it was unsubstantiated, I don't because the evidence was there. You however said that he was... off the top of my head... feminised, for example? What was your basis for that?

Which then somehow trumps all my personal experiences with my *** sister and her catty girlfriends.
Foolish statements tend to devalue anything else you have to say, as do the use of terms that are generally considered to be derogatory, such as '***'.

Not at all, because even straight parents may also try to keep up a false facade to their children all the time. They might leave the room to argue, or stop arguing when the kids wanders in the room. Why would you expect it to be more difficult for a lesbian couple to do the same thing? And his 2 mom's lesbian friends and relatives won't exactly be sharing their many little flings
and fights with him, either, and if they did, that would be just plain weird because it is none of his business.
Bear in mind that your point was that there were "two types of lesbian", the lesbian type of lesbian being the man hating type. I think a boy might spot that, or at least, you know, 'get a vibe'.

If you read all my posts a little closer next time, you would see just how stupid your homophobe comments really are about me, Sigmund.
"You're stupid!" "No, you're stupid!" "You!" "You!". You're not really making a point here. Either you've got something useful to say, couple it with an insult if you feel that it helps get your point across (hint: It very likely doesn't), or don't. An insult without any justification just makes you look a bit... foolish. If I infer from your comment regarding 'your gay friends' that you are gay, I don't know whether homophobe is still the right word, I'll stand corrected if someone points out that there is a more correct word regarding people who treat lesbians in any way as second class.

And I could also add a lot of irrationally hateful men into that defective gene pool I dislike, too, just so you don't have to feel all left out.
Unsubstantiated ad hominem again, unless you'd care to point out what shows me to be an irrational hateful man, or what might be defective about my genes...?

As in, YOUR EXPERIENCES MAY NOT MATCH MINE.
Insightful stuff. Considering that you chose to share it with others, you must think that it has some value. Why did you share it? If the only confirmed lesbians I had met had blonde hair, would that be a useful contribution to a discussion on the topic? How about if they had chronic cases of halitosis, or wonderful singing voices?

And why did you choose to write everything in bold?
 
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SlickSnake

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Not interested in jealous women. Not interested in butches. Not interested in where this thread is going.

Your hot lesbians just wanted to emasculate you and put you in a lesbian haunted house as an exhibit, and I see nothing wrong with that in your case.
 

SlickSnake

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Doesn't that blow the whole "born that way" and "its not a choice" out of the water?

I believe everyone is essentially bisexual when born, then what we experience as we grow up, partly later determines what sex we relate better to. Yes, there is obviously a biological mechanism in place as well, such as hormones, that also determine gender identification and sexual preferences. But the effects of religion, politics, society, parent and peer pressure can also not be underestimated. And some of these environmental effects may be so profound that some people may eventually not be able to relate to any sex at all, as far as sexual preferences go.
 

ImpulsE69

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So my wife asked me last night who my celebrity man crush was. I consider myself to be pretty open minded and comfortable in my sexuality, but even then sat there and was like...why would you ask me that? :mad:
 

SlickSnake

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Absolutely not. In a population, sexuality is a continuum not a binary choice. Some will be born hetero, some homo, and some bi. Individuals however are not going to suddenly find the same sex attractive if they are hetero or the opposite sex if homo.

If they do find both sexes attractive then they are bi, not making a choice to be homosexual or heterosexual.

Essentially true. And the hormonal balance (or imbalances) will play a large part in this sexual determination.
 

Exophase

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Honestly, why hasn't this already been moved into Love and Relationships where it belongs? I mean seriously.

This website claims to have the largest user base of misandrous women, over a quarter million users. Which might not sound like many, unless you consider the fact they probably get a lot more than that just lurking around there on a regular basis.

http://www.ihatemen.org/

Obviously, it's a real thing, and I am not just making this all up.

I never heard of this website before, but on going there I noticed that the comments to the posts are full of people criticizing them. It turns out in order to post in the comments you have to register for an account. Seems like that quarter million number is inflated by their own opponents...

No one's going to deny that there are women who hate men, and probably a large percentage of them are lesbians. That doesn't mean all lesbians are either man haters or not really serious about being a lesbian.
 

Dari

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Maybe it's not your penis they have a problem with; just the stupid attached to it.

My girlfriend at the time may also have been an impediment. So was "Hans", the butch that came to all the parties. I think she was Hans's bitch. But she had this other hot friend. I plowed that before leaving that place.