Originally posted by: benchiu
Don't sweat it. This argument is very low on the scale of stupid arguments to have with a woman. Trust me, if this is the stupidest argument that you have ever had with your woman, consider yourself lucky.
Originally posted by: trmiv
Originally posted by: eakers
you never said in your original post that you decided on the time the night before...
What difference does that make? We agreed we were going, leaving at noon to go somewhere is not unreasonable. It's not too hard to use a little logic to figure out what time to leave.
Fish store opens at 11:00am, she works at 4:30pm. Fish store takes 30 minutes to get to. So, that means 1 hour travel time, there and back. So to go to the place, be able to look around for what we need, not have to rush back, and have time to eat lunch, leaving at around 12pm is a great time which allows us time to do the above, as well as giving her time to sleep in a bit. Apparently I was wrong.
It's not like I woke her up early. I've learned to deal with her liking to sleep late, but I gave her pleny of time to sleep. But, eventually she's going to have to get used to getting up early, she'll be a High School English teacher in about 5-6 months.
Originally posted by: eakers
well, you did have all day after she went to work to do it.
Originally posted by: reprobate
You're shacked up with a girl that you didn't make a commitment to marry. You're in this relationship for the sex, what did you expect?
Originally posted by: eakers
the point is that if he wanted to spend time with her he would have waited until after she went to work. by not waiting it showed he didn't want to spend time with her.
i see both sides and i realise men just dont think about stuff like this. he got in his head he was going to go at noon and didn't even stop to consider other options, so he went.
Originally posted by: Mustangrrl
My boyfriend pulls more of this "typical female" drama than any woman I've ever seen.
Originally posted by: trmiv
Originally posted by: eakers
you never said in your original post that you decided on the time the night before...
What difference does that make? We agreed we were going, leaving at noon to go somewhere is not unreasonable. It's not too hard to use a little logic to figure out what time to leave.
Fish store opens at 11:00am, she works at 4:30pm. Fish store takes 30 minutes to get to. So, that means 1 hour travel time, there and back. So to go to the place, be able to look around for what we need, not have to rush back, and have time to eat lunch, leaving at around 12pm is a great time which allows us time to do the above, as well as giving her time to sleep in a bit. Apparently I was wrong.
It's not like I woke her up early. I've learned to deal with her liking to sleep late, but I gave her pleny of time to sleep. But, eventually she's going to have to get used to getting up early, she'll be a High School English teacher in about 5-6 months.
Maybe math teachers, but all of my English teachers were friendly Southern Belles out of the 1800s.Originally posted by: Excelsior
Well there is the problem. I have yet to meet a famale english teacher who isn't either a frigid bitch, ignorant, or selfish.
Originally posted by: Chaotic42
Maybe math teachers, but all of my English teachers were friendly Southern Belles out of the 1800s.Originally posted by: Excelsior
Well there is the problem. I have yet to meet a famale english teacher who isn't either a frigid bitch, ignorant, or selfish.
I'm 21.Originally posted by: Kelvrick
So how old are you, or where did that time warp appear.
Originally posted by: Chaotic42
I'm 21.Originally posted by: Kelvrick
So how old are you, or where did that time warp appear.
I grew up in the rural South where the people still act like it's 1930.
Originally posted by: trmiv
Well she's been home from work a couple of hours, and all is well. She didn't apologize or anything, neither did I, but she has been very nice. I think she realized she wasn't being very logical or nice earlier.
Nah, it's not as bad as the media would like you to think, at least where I lived. There was racism, but I think the problem was that no one tried to bridge the gaps.Originally posted by: KLin
do they still have separate water fountains for.....ahh nevermind
Spend time with her? She doesn't sound like someone a person would want to spend much time with!Originally posted by: trmiv
Yesterday I asked my girlfriend if she wanted to go to this aquarium store with me today to look at some stuff for the reef aquarium we are setting up, she said sure. Knowing that she has to work at 4:30pm (and her job is a 40 minute drive), I'm thinking 11:00am-12:00pm or so is a good time to take off to the store.
So, I wake up around 9:45. I figure I'll let her sleep in until 11:00 or so, and then wake her up so we can leave. 11:15 rolls around, and I decide to wake her up. Immediately she gets pissed at me for trying to wake her, so I ask if she even still wants to go with me, she goes "no, I need to sleep." Whatever, I proceed to get ready to go. At Noon, after getting dressed, and messing around on the computer some more, I again ask if she wants to go, she still says no. I tell her fine, I can't stick around waiting for you to wake up, I have things to do. So I left.
I get home about ten minutes ago, and she's pissed at me for leaving. She's pissed that I took off and didn't spend the day with her. I go, "I gave you two opportunities to come with me, and you said no twice, plus you knew yesterday we were going, not like it was a surprise." I then ask her what she expects me to do, wait around until like 2:00pm when she decides to get out of bed so I can spend time with her? Her answer was that I should have waited for her to wake up, spent time with her, and then gone and done the stuff I needed to do after she left for work. She said she got up like 45 minutes after I left, and we could have spent time together. Well how was I supposed to know that? She was dead to the world at noon, pissed at me for waking her, and I'm supposed to wait around? For I know, she could have slept until like 3:00pm.
I can't believe her, the fact that she would get pissed at this is ridiculous. The fact she would expect me to sit around the house waiting for her to wake up is plain absurd. It's not like I was trying to get her up at 7:00am, it was noon!! And it's not like we never see each other, we live together and see each other every day.
Women sometimes, jeez. All you lonely young geeks on her pining for a girlfriend, give it up, sometimes a relationship can be more trouble than it's worth.
Thanks for listening to my rant, needed to vent.....
Originally posted by: trmiv
Well she's been home from work a couple of hours, and all is well. She didn't apologize or anything, neither did I, but she has been very nice. I think she realized she wasn't being very logical or nice earlier.
Originally posted by: Dr Smooth
trmiv
Spending time with you is important to her. She does not understand why you do not feel the same way.