Ugh, absurd argument with my girlfriend.

[Dulanic]

Ah don't you love women? This crap drives me crazy, infact at this very moment I am sitting in the living room while shes laying down in the bedroom not wanting to be near me. And you want to know why? This morning she decides she wants eggs, but we are out of eggs. She asks me if I know WHY we are out of eggs... of corse I answered truthfully, because we ate them? She calls me a smart ass and tells me because I didn't buy any.... of corse she's unemployed and she does the shopping while I am at work. So she continues making comments about this and she's the one who does the shopping. Then since she's upset at me because SHE forgot to buy eggs, she decides she'll make herself some waffles, soooo I ask her what she's making (I didn't know waffles yet) and she tells me she's making waffles for HERSELF and not me... okkkkkk then. So I procede to get up and make myself some pancakes. And wouldn't you know it... that's just what she wanted! So now she's even more pissed because I made myself pancakes and didn't make her any.... women.

 

[kenshorin]

Originally posted by: trmiv

I again ask if she wants to go, she still says no. I tell her fine, I can't stick around waiting for you to wake up, I have things to do. So I left.

See here's the thing... you probably said this calmly, like a rational human being. A lot of women don't understand calm rational speak. You shoulda flipped out here like she would do to you. Sometimes thats the only language they understand.

 

[trmiv]

Originally posted by: kenshorin

Originally posted by: trmiv

I again ask if she wants to go, she still says no. I tell her fine, I can't stick around waiting for you to wake up, I have things to do. So I left.

See here's the thing... you probably said this calmly, like a rational human being. A lot of women don't understand calm rational speak. You shoulda flipped out here like she would do to you. Sometimes thats the only language they understand.

Wow, if you only knew how true that was! lol

At least we don't have plans until late today. It's 10:18 and I've been up for a bit, but she's snoozing away.

 

[kenshorin]

Originally posted by: trmiv

Originally posted by: kenshorin
See here's the thing... you probably said this calmly, like a rational human being. A lot of women don't understand calm rational speak. You shoulda flipped out here like she would do to you. Sometimes thats the only language they understand.

Wow, if you only knew how true that was! lol

At least we don't have plans until late today. It's 10:18 and I've been up for a bit, but she's snoozing away.

Nah, I know the type... that BS is the same type of stuff my ex woulda pulled. I know that it sounds contradictory, but I learned that my freaking out and yelling first actually AVOIDED fights. Go figure. Doesn't make a lot of sense, but it is what it is.

 

Wow, if you only knew how true that was! lol

At least we don't have plans until late today. It's 10:18 and I've been up for a bit, but she's snoozing away.

You keep wearing her out with your massive penis and tremendous sex drive.

 

Originally posted by: ndee
haha, women, 'nuff said 🙂

 

[Anubis]

Originally posted by: Dulanic
Ah don't you love women? This crap drives me crazy, infact at this very moment I am sitting in the living room while shes laying down in the bedroom not wanting to be near me. And you want to know why? This morning she decides she wants eggs, but we are out of eggs. She asks me if I know WHY we are out of eggs... of corse I answered truthfully, because we ate them? She calls me a smart ass and tells me because I didn't buy any.... of corse she's unemployed and she does the shopping while I am at work. So she continues making comments about this and she's the one who does the shopping. Then since she's upset at me because SHE forgot to buy eggs, she decides she'll make herself some waffles, soooo I ask her what she's making (I didn't know waffles yet) and she tells me she's making waffles for HERSELF and not me... okkkkkk then. So I procede to get up and make myself some pancakes. And wouldn't you know it... that's just what she wanted! So now she's even more pissed because I made myself pancakes and didn't make her any.... women.

pancakes and waffles require eggs

how did you pull that off without eggs?

 

[Ciber]

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: Dulanic
Ah don't you love women? This crap drives me crazy, infact at this very moment I am sitting in the living room while shes laying down in the bedroom not wanting to be near me. And you want to know why? This morning she decides she wants eggs, but we are out of eggs. She asks me if I know WHY we are out of eggs... of corse I answered truthfully, because we ate them? She calls me a smart ass and tells me because I didn't buy any.... of corse she's unemployed and she does the shopping while I am at work. So she continues making comments about this and she's the one who does the shopping. Then since she's upset at me because SHE forgot to buy eggs, she decides she'll make herself some waffles, soooo I ask her what she's making (I didn't know waffles yet) and she tells me she's making waffles for HERSELF and not me... okkkkkk then. So I procede to get up and make myself some pancakes. And wouldn't you know it... that's just what she wanted! So now she's even more pissed because I made myself pancakes and didn't make her any.... women.

pancakes and waffles require eggs

how did you pull that off without eggs?

She probably had RTE waffles and he probably had the JAW pancakes.

 

[Anubis]

Originally posted by: Ciber

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: Dulanic
Ah don't you love women? This crap drives me crazy, infact at this very moment I am sitting in the living room while shes laying down in the bedroom not wanting to be near me. And you want to know why? This morning she decides she wants eggs, but we are out of eggs. She asks me if I know WHY we are out of eggs... of corse I answered truthfully, because we ate them? She calls me a smart ass and tells me because I didn't buy any.... of corse she's unemployed and she does the shopping while I am at work. So she continues making comments about this and she's the one who does the shopping. Then since she's upset at me because SHE forgot to buy eggs, she decides she'll make herself some waffles, soooo I ask her what she's making (I didn't know waffles yet) and she tells me she's making waffles for HERSELF and not me... okkkkkk then. So I procede to get up and make myself some pancakes. And wouldn't you know it... that's just what she wanted! So now she's even more pissed because I made myself pancakes and didn't make her any.... women.

pancakes and waffles require eggs

how did you pull that off without eggs?

She probably had RTE waffles and he probably had the JAW pancakes.

thoes tastes like cardboard, shoudl have gotten eggs made real pancakes

 

[Dulanic]

Originally posted by: Ciber

Originally posted by: Anubis

Originally posted by: Dulanic
Ah don't you love women? This crap drives me crazy, infact at this very moment I am sitting in the living room while shes laying down in the bedroom not wanting to be near me. And you want to know why? This morning she decides she wants eggs, but we are out of eggs. She asks me if I know WHY we are out of eggs... of corse I answered truthfully, because we ate them? She calls me a smart ass and tells me because I didn't buy any.... of corse she's unemployed and she does the shopping while I am at work. So she continues making comments about this and she's the one who does the shopping. Then since she's upset at me because SHE forgot to buy eggs, she decides she'll make herself some waffles, soooo I ask her what she's making (I didn't know waffles yet) and she tells me she's making waffles for HERSELF and not me... okkkkkk then. So I procede to get up and make myself some pancakes. And wouldn't you know it... that's just what she wanted! So now she's even more pissed because I made myself pancakes and didn't make her any.... women.

pancakes and waffles require eggs

how did you pull that off without eggs?

She probably had RTE waffles and he probably had the JAW pancakes.

Eggo's and we did have 1 egg, which was enough for a small batch of pancacke batter.

 

[Balthazar]

Originally posted by: Chrono
Look, if he wanted to spend time with her, then he would've just stayed and waited for her till she woke up. If she wanted to be considerate and spend time with him, then she would've woken up. This is what a relationship is about, giving and taking, right? So in truth it is both of their faults!
Lacking consideration on both ends. He and she is purely in it for physical means!

I'm sorry, but your a dolt....seriously....I don't know what you missed here to make you think hes onlyin it for that, but, again, complete lack of logic....

 

[Anubis]

Originally posted by: Balthazar

Originally posted by: Chrono
Look, if he wanted to spend time with her, then he would've just stayed and waited for her till she woke up. If she wanted to be considerate and spend time with him, then she would've woken up. This is what a relationship is about, giving and taking, right? So in truth it is both of their faults!
Lacking consideration on both ends. He and she is purely in it for physical means!

I'm sorry, but your a dolt....seriously....I don't know what you missed here to make you think hes onlyin it for that, but, again, complete lack of logic....

wow that?s a dumb statement "Balthazar"

if my GF refused to get out of bed after i tried to get her out for an hour to do something we had planed. i would leave her ass there. And that would be the end of it, she wouldn?t argue because i wouldn?t let her.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Dulanic
Ah don't you love women? This crap drives me crazy, infact at this very moment I am sitting in the living room while shes laying down in the bedroom not wanting to be near me. And you want to know why? This morning she decides she wants eggs, but we are out of eggs. She asks me if I know WHY we are out of eggs... of corse I answered truthfully, because we ate them? She calls me a smart ass and tells me because I didn't buy any.... of corse she's unemployed and she does the shopping while I am at work. So she continues making comments about this and she's the one who does the shopping. Then since she's upset at me because SHE forgot to buy eggs, she decides she'll make herself some waffles, soooo I ask her what she's making (I didn't know waffles yet) and she tells me she's making waffles for HERSELF and not me... okkkkkk then. So I procede to get up and make myself some pancakes. And wouldn't you know it... that's just what she wanted! So now she's even more pissed because I made myself pancakes and didn't make her any.... women.

/me waits for eakers to post in this thread again to explain how all that is really somehow your fault. 😕

 

[FrustratedUser]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Dulanic
Ah don't you love women? This crap drives me crazy, infact at this very moment I am sitting in the living room while shes laying down in the bedroom not wanting to be near me. And you want to know why? This morning she decides she wants eggs, but we are out of eggs. She asks me if I know WHY we are out of eggs... of corse I answered truthfully, because we ate them? She calls me a smart ass and tells me because I didn't buy any.... of corse she's unemployed and she does the shopping while I am at work. So she continues making comments about this and she's the one who does the shopping. Then since she's upset at me because SHE forgot to buy eggs, she decides she'll make herself some waffles, soooo I ask her what she's making (I didn't know waffles yet) and she tells me she's making waffles for HERSELF and not me... okkkkkk then. So I procede to get up and make myself some pancakes. And wouldn't you know it... that's just what she wanted! So now she's even more pissed because I made myself pancakes and didn't make her any.... women.

/me waits for eakers to post in this thread again to explain how all that is really somehow your fault. 😕

Hahaha.

I'll give it a shot. You should have known she wanted pancakes before you woke up. You should have bought the eggs while sleep walking.
You should have offered her pancakes because with some simple math you could figure out she wanted it because she was pissed you didn't have eggs so she had to make waffles instead.

Or something like that.....

 

[tk149]

Too needy/domineering/psychotic. Rethink this whole relationship thing.

 

[kenshorin]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Dulanic
Ah don't you love women? This crap drives me crazy, infact at this very moment I am sitting in the living room while shes laying down in the bedroom not wanting to be near me. And you want to know why? This morning she decides she wants eggs, but we are out of eggs. She asks me if I know WHY we are out of eggs... of corse I answered truthfully, because we ate them? She calls me a smart ass and tells me because I didn't buy any.... of corse she's unemployed and she does the shopping while I am at work. So she continues making comments about this and she's the one who does the shopping. Then since she's upset at me because SHE forgot to buy eggs, she decides she'll make herself some waffles, soooo I ask her what she's making (I didn't know waffles yet) and she tells me she's making waffles for HERSELF and not me... okkkkkk then. So I procede to get up and make myself some pancakes. And wouldn't you know it... that's just what she wanted! So now she's even more pissed because I made myself pancakes and didn't make her any.... women.

/me waits for eakers to post in this thread again to explain how all that is really somehow your fault. 😕

She may as well say "You have a penis, therefore it is your fault!"
:disgust:

 

[dakotus]

Just talk about the situation right away. Dont let little stuff like this pile up, cause it will blow up one day. It doesnt seem like anything much right now, but believe me it will come back in another form. Im learning this the hard way right now. 🙁

 

[sxr7171]

Originally posted by: trmiv

Originally posted by: Mwilding If spending time with you is important to her and your plans to go to the fish store are known, she shoiuld have gotten up earlier. This is just her uniquely female way of trying to establish dominance over you.

Yea no kidding. Well it won't work with me, because I'm not about to sit around the house while she sleeps, I have things to do. If she doesn't like it, tough, she can leave. I have a problem with the fact she like to sleep until 1:00-2:00pm on non-school days, but I've learned to live with it. I figured a good compromise for doing what we wanted to do today before she had to work, and her getting some sleep was to wait until noon to leave, but apparently that wasn't good enough.

This is what I like to hear coming out of a fellow man. Tell her to go find someone else that will put up with her bull$hit.

 

[busmaster11]

Originally posted by: trmiv
Yesterday I asked my girlfriend if she wanted to go to this aquarium store with me today to look at some stuff for the reef aquarium we are setting up, she said sure. Knowing that she has to work at 4:30pm (and her job is a 40 minute drive), I'm thinking 11:00am-12:00pm or so is a good time to take off to the store.

So, I wake up around 9:45. I figure I'll let her sleep in until 11:00 or so, and then wake her up so we can leave. 11:15 rolls around, and I decide to wake her up. Immediately she gets pissed at me for trying to wake her, so I ask if she even still wants to go with me, she goes "no, I need to sleep." Whatever, I proceed to get ready to go. At Noon, after getting dressed, and messing around on the computer some more, I again ask if she wants to go, she still says no. I tell her fine, I can't stick around waiting for you to wake up, I have things to do. So I left.

This used to happen to me a lot. But no way would I let her think she has the right to get mad at me if I left without her. We set each other straight and make each other accountable to their words.