OK so, I tell you what, I'll take you hostage, put a gun to your head, we'll release that info the internet, wait for swat to turn up and we'll see if it's a male swat team kicking the door in to save you or if it's a female one.
Weakness in characters in video games generally reflect weakness in real life, what people like Anita fail to do is actually establish that damsels in video games as a ratio of occurrences to non-occurrences is somehow not reflected in real life.
But she's not an intellectual, she's certainly not pro-science, if she wanted to actually conclusively prove this was the case she could look at real life instances of damsels and then look at gaming and see if the trope is overplayed relative to reality or if it's not.
But she doesn't do some wide reaching statisitcal analysis of games, and then reflect that analysis in real life and then compare the two, she just cherry picks every possible damsel game she can, represent it disproportionately (well entirely) in her videos and then ASSERTS there's a problem and ASSERTS it harms women, which again isn't backed with evidence, either of her own original research nor any published and peer reviewed works of science that link negative tropes of women in video games to real world negative treatment of women.
She's extremely intellectually dishonest, she's come at the situation as a feminist firstly and merely cherry picked instances to fit her conclusion, she's not actually done any unique research.