Originally posted by: frankgomez75
Originally posted by: michaelpatrick33
Originally posted by: frankgomez75
Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: frankgomez75
See, here is my issue with millionaires... they can quit any time they want and leave the country and go somewhere in seclusion. They chose that lifestyle. They don't like it quit and do something else. How hard is it really to quit and do something else with your life. You have the money to do lots of other things with your life. No sympathy from me.
they can quit and live in hiding. great option.
all i'm saying is that i find it humorous that people make these statements without knowing even slightly what it's like to be famous and in the public eye.
i'm not saying our hearts should be bleeding for TO or other athletes/celebrities, but is it that hard to try and imagine how difficult that life could be?
Um.... yeah it is! 3 words.... DAVE ****** CHAPPELLE... nuff said
They guy walked away from $50 million dollars, fame, stress and all the crap celebreties gotta deal with. If he can do it so can T.O.
That's right because everyone is Dave Chappelle :roll: . Honestly, the egocentrism in this thread is astounding. Everyone is different and has different psychological constructs that makes them react differently in every situation. Last I checked Dave Chappelle is not TO. Why does anyone do the crazy things they do? Do you really believe that if TO went into hiding or to Africa he wouldn't be hounded? Get real. Until you have walked in another's shoes and lived their pain you have no business soapboxing their lives predicated on your fantasies or what you would do in their place.
Edit: And for the record, I have never "liked" TO as a football player because of his apparent locker room division but most definitely don't give a sh@t about football in comparison to his health as a human being.
All I have to do is look at others who have suffered much more than him and have been able to go on and lead normal lives without having to try and off themselves to give me a reason to say T.O. is a crying little selfish bitch. That's right... bitch as in COWARD.
I stated before, the only way to change my mind is if some professional unbiased psychiatrist diagnoses him with a serious mental illness that has been undiagnosed and will require medication and therapy for years... not some 2 month vacation and I'm o.k. crap.
Hell, I've know I've had a harder life than T.O.
1) Never knew my father
2) Moved over 20 times in my childhood from one project to another
3) Had friends murdered
4) Lived in dirt poor poverty... sleeping on the floor, no food at times, no electricity or heat on many occassions, etc...
5) Didn't finish high school because of the ridiculous amount of times we moved since we were always getting evicted.
6) Lived in a garage and a van as a teenager... since we had no place to sleep
7) Brother locked up in prison
8) Mother diagnosed with leukemia
9) Other brother getting HIV
10) Having to take care of my brothers while mother worked in the immigrant fields picking oranges
I could go on.... but you know what, I don't need no sympathy from anyone. I'm here doing my best and don't need to off myself. Boo hoo... poor T.O.!
Now if he is really mentally ill, I WILL sympathize for him as that would make sense why he has been the way he's been over the years. If not too bad T.O. Man up and stop attention whoring. You got a kid... be a man and be there for him.
Terrell Eldorado Owens was born December 7, 1973, in Alexander City, Alabama. Terrell was the first son to his mother, Marilyn Heard. Only 17 at the time, she was the product of a dysfunctional family herself. Most of Marilyn's childhood was spent in fear and silence. Marilyn's mother, Alice, was cruel to her children, raising them in a confined environment with little love or support. Marilyn wasn't allowed to play with other children, and had to come home directly after school. If she didn't, she would pay the price in welts and bruises.
A man named L.C. Russell lived across the street with his wife and kids. Russell was 14 years older than Marilyn, but that didn't matter to either. She craved love and human contact, and he became the father of Terrell. Despite the awkward situation, Russell stayed in the neighborhood with his family.
Marilyn tried to keep her pregnancy a secret from her mother and stepfather, but could only do so for only so long. One night Marilyn's younger sister ran away to live with an aunt. She remained at home with Terrell, who was just a baby.
After Terrell, Marilyn had a girl named Latasha. She was married to the infant's father for a brief time. Then in the early 80's came two more babies?Sharmaine and Victor?fathered by another man.
Terrell often stayed with his grandmother Alice. She was as hard on him as she was on Marilyn. Alice gave him a bike but he could only ride it in the yard. Terrell was permitted no spare time with his friends and couldn't watch TV. He was also whipped regularly. For all the abuse, however, Terrell loved Alice, viewing her as a second mother.
When Terrell was young, Alice's marriage fell apart and she began drinking heavily. The youngster often had to take care of her until she sobered up. One time Alice was so intoxicated, she put her purse in the oven and burned up all her money. Ironically, Alice seemed to lighten up as her alcohol problem worsened. She even bought Terrell a go-cart, which they would drive on the highway.
When Terrell turned 12, he befriended a girl across the street. Her father noticed and confronted him, warning Terrell that the girl was actually his half-sister. Thus the youngster learned who his father was.
To escape his tortured home life, Terrell became immersed in sports. Basketball, baseball and swimming were his favorites. He also loved football, idolizing San Francisco star Jerry Rice. He played despite stark opposition from Alice. Marilyn, by contrast, supported her son completely, knowing sports made him happy.
Marilyn bounced from job to job, and often found herself back in Alice?s house with Terrell. Her other children hated it there, however, so she eventually moved with them into a beat-up two-bedroom home. Terrell stayed with Alice because there simply wasn?t room for him in the cramped dwelling.
Terrell?s athletic career began to blossom when he entered Benjamin Russell High School in the fall of 1988. During his career, he lettered four times in football and track. Plus he accumulated three letters in basketball and one in baseball. Terrell actually didn't start for the football team until his senior year. He even thought about quitting the sport, but his coaches talked him out of it. They say great talent in him, even if he didn?t yet.
Tall, lanky and exceedingly fast, Terrell had the skills to play Division I football. But recruiters were slow to scout him. In fact, many got their first look at him only because they were watching teammates who were also excellent prospects. Few schools pursued Terrell as aggressively as the University of Tennessee at Chattanooga. The coaches there had no problem with Terrell becoming a multi-sport star. For the teenager, the opportunity to compete in more than one sport at the college level was a major selling point.
Source:
http://www.jockbio.com/Bios/Owens/Owens_bio.html
He may be an a$$hat, but you are being just as bad as him trying to play the one up game. The guy obviously has something wrong in the head. He needs help, and he needs to admit it, and he needs everyone to back off from him. All this attention is what can/will exacerbate a mental illness.