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This drives me nuts. Why do asian people )))STARE(((?!

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xEDIT, I think we cancel out all #s 1-4. My gf isn't THAT attractive though. New York City has to be the most diverse area so that's not it.

Yea man, some of the 16-25 year old Korean dudes are the worst. They just look like they're ready to kick ass for no particular reason. Even when we pass by fully, I can tell some are still staring from behind. Crazy bastards. I can't say all of them but a damn good obvious majority of them do. Maybe there's a banana stuck through my head?
 
Nah, calling myself a jap isn't offensive at all. Now if I were from another country and called someone Jap or Ch!nk or anything like that, that would be offensive I think.

edit: now I wonder why AT thinks jap is not offensive while ch!nk is? hmmmmm (I get a warning on the top of the page when I post)
 
Originally posted by: deathkoba
xEDIT, I think we cancel out all #s 1-4. My gf isn't THAT attractive though. New York City has to be the most diverse area so that's not it.

Yea man, some of the 16-25 year old Korean dudes are the worst. They just look like they're ready to kick ass for no particular reason. Even when we pass by fully, I can tell some are still staring from behind. Crazy bastards. I can't say all of them but a damn good obvious majority of them do. Maybe there's a banana stuck through my head?

Hmm...
All I havta say is as they pass by, just be like

"By the time I hit the door
I saw hoes on the flo'
ni99as dressed in suits
Tricking all dey hoes
Me imma pimp
I aint paying for no sex
Man I'd rather buy a car
Or a new rolex"
 
I'm being very serious actually. Even when I'm walking alone, I get the stares. It bugs me so much now that I end up staring at them too! UGHGH
 
are you sure its only asians that stare? i mean, i live in a area with like 30% asians so i see them quite often.... and they dont seem out of the ordinary. no staring... strange.
 
Originally posted by: deathkoba
I'm being very serious actually. Even when I'm walking alone, I get the stares. It bugs me so much now that I end up staring at them too! UGHGH

can you tell if they stare at others?
 
Maddog - Damn straight I did after I noticed them glaring at me heh. Well if they don't like it when people stare at them, they shouldn't stare to begin with.

dighn, LongCool - I don't know if they stare only at asians but as far as I can tell, they sure aren't staring at anyone else when I notice it.
 
Originally posted by: deathkoba
xEDIT, I think we cancel out all #s 1-4. My gf isn't THAT attractive though. New York City has to be the most diverse area so that's not it.

Yea man, some of the 16-25 year old Korean dudes are the worst. They just look like they're ready to kick ass for no particular reason. Even when we pass by fully, I can tell some are still staring from behind. Crazy bastards. I can't say all of them but a damn good obvious majority of them do. Maybe there's a banana stuck through my head?

Staring from behind??

Has your girlfriend got some kind of smokin' hot bod? Maybe they are checking the booty action that you are tapping.

OR

Maybe the guys are gay, and want to tap your smokin' hot booty.
 
Originally posted by: Mo0o
Don't know, but I know for a fact a lot of Mexican guys like to blantantly stare at women.

So true. They just don't stare and look away, they just stare and keep at it making it so obvious, they gives the worst stares like a damn pervert. Especially the ones at the staten island trains.

I live in the city and everytime i come down to open the door for my gf, i see these guys always staring at my gf and am there standing looking at them and they still keep at it.
 
Originally posted by: Desslok
Don't the Korean's and the Japenses have a hate hate relationship?

not today...

I'm korean and i have nothing against japanese whatsoever. In fact, I really like their culture and sushi is actually my favorite food lol


a friend of mine has a japanese bf (she's korean)

and both countries have some sort of friendly competition going on (samsung vs sony, korean soccer team vs japan soccer team, animation, movies, etc etc)

but being a young korean....yes, young koreans always have that "pissed off" look..i have no idea why..i'm not part of that "in group" of young koreans who buy too much clothes and image is everything (i can count how many korean friends i have w/ one hand)

I really dislike my own korean generation due to this.. what's to be mad about? what's there to show off? sigh...if you live in LA you know what I mean. I hate doing to ktown...

damn gooks

yes i insulted myself as well, the world's gonna implode!!!!!11!
 
I will not post a picture of her as she has little to do with the main point of the post. Now if my thread title was something like "look at my girlfriend's new bikini line," I would feel compelled to do so. Besides, there are plenty of women out there that would be more eye candy for you than my gf although she herself ain't bad either. (otherwise I doubt I'd date her)
 
Maybe just a stereotype. I've often felt that asians would not make eye contact in public ...sometimes in a closed space like an elevator or a hallway, typically looking downward, a sign of meekness or passivity. Maybe because of respect or deference ...I felt that this behavior would make themselves the targets of crime in that the predator instinct in a criminal looking for prey, looks for this lack of eye contact, looking downward and not being aware of their surroundings and indicative of a lack of command and power. Perhaps, resorting to staring is a result of having been previously fallen victim to a crime or altercation.

Sometimes when someone stares at you it's because you stand out, whether it be that you're strikingly good-looking, appallingly ugly or because you embody the epitome of normalcy. Maybe, you look like someone who would inflict harm or injury to them and they don't want to appear meek, timid or weak. Maybe, they have some sort of eye disease ...why don't you attempt some form of "friendly" communication with them, be it in body language or verbal conversation and ask them why they are staring? Do this with every person of whatever nationality that may "stare" at you and poll the results. If you notice someone "staring" at you, it may be that you're "staring" at them and they're curious too.

I thought this was an extremely racist or bigoted observation at first, but there's a level of ignorance in regard to you're not being able to draw your own seemingly "common sense" conclusions. Thus, I offer you my insight. Ignorance is bliss in that upon realizing one's ignorance you explore avenues and try to do something about it, which I feel you've done here, by posting this. Ignorance, erroneously has this negative conotation, but in fact it can be a real positive thing. I'm 45 yrs. old and I've lived in several countries growing up in both North America and South America and I've done alot of travel in Europe and Asia. I'm married to a Korean woman who "stares" holes in me everytime I piss her off, but I'm not going there. There maybe a level of immaturity in not being able to regard your post as innocently inquisitive. I'm not doing that.

Regards,
 
I don't try to avoid eye contact, but I don't stare. Although I do stare back - a good way to get my ass beat. 😉
 
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