Originally posted by: CycloWizard
The Church's purpose isn't to set social standards for floozies, it's to represent the gold standard of behavior. You say people will have sex no matter what, and I'm not going to disagree. However, if people are going to disregard the Church in this regard, why then is the Church culpable for them not using contraception?
Note: I was married in the Catholic church. I went through all the tests, the classes, the priest discussions, etc.
I also would disagree that
all people will have sex no matter what. All, no. Some, yes. In fact, for most the answer is yes they will have sex. That is a sad state, but it is beyond the goal of this discussion.
The church is indirectly culpable, since they currently attempt to prevent their members from understanding and using contraception. Lets try this example. Two companies hire pizza delivery drivers:
Company (A) tells their drivers not to speed, not to drink and drive, etc. Company (A) then INSISTS that all drivers have seat belts, airbags, and alcohol detection car starters. Heck, lets go so far as to say company (A) provides equipment so that the car won't operate without the seat belt latched, or it won't operate without the airbags on, it won't operate with a drunk driver, and there are speed governors in the vehicles. Some drivers will get in accidents, some of those accidents will be their own fault. Some of those will be speed or alcohol related. But in most cases, the drivers have some form of protection and the company did all it reasonably could to protect their drivers.
Company (B) tells their drivers not to speed, not to drink and drive, etc. Then company (B) sends the drivers off on thier own at their own risk. Some drivers will get in accidents, some of those accidents will be their own fault. Some of those will be speed or alcohol related. None of the drivers have advanced protection equipment (alcohol detectors, cars that don't run without seatbelts, etc).
Company (B) did the minimum needed. Company (A) went much further. Thus, indirectly, company (B) leads to more dangerous situations. Is it solely company (B)'s fault? Of course not. But they could do so much more. Installing a speed governor DOES NOT promote speeding behavior.
The Catholic church can teach their members to use contraception when married. The Catholic church can help provide contraception methods to their members. If a teenager could go to his/her priest for a condom, that is one last chance that the priest has to convince the teenager not to have sex. As it is, that teenager avoids the priest at all costs (and thus loses the final opportunity to be convinced not to have sex). The Catholic church can provide education on STDs, various forms of sex, etc. The Catholic church could give their engaged couple classes/tests/priest sessions to people who are dating but not yet engaged. The Catholic church could provide safe havens for those who did get pregant. But they don't.
Thus this lack of action and lack of education causes those who sin to sin in much worse ways. Those who have sex out of wedlock don't have condoms in their dressor. So they have sex without condoms instead. If the church had accepted condom usage, maybe there may have been a condom around. Result: one less abortion for these sinners.