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Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
If you are against the prophet's teachings you are not really a Muslims cleric. What everyone is pretty much saying is what I am saying in my post above, which is that the beatings are not for inflicting pain, but it's for communicational reasons. See my post above for my full perspective.

This has to be one of the dumbest, most reaching posts I've ever read in this forum.

Don't try to justify the Koran's very straightforward allowance of violence towards women. It is wrong to do so, and that is that. Even a "tap" to get the message across (one wonders what message that is) is absolutely unacceptable.

Keep your opinion to yourself if you are not going to read the whole thread, I am saving my keyboard some wear and reposting what I already did.

I read it, and it's still a load of bull.

Islam is wrong to justify violence against women, even "metaphorically". Spin all you'd like, people will see straight through it.

Those who live in glass houses...
 
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
If you are against the prophet's teachings you are not really a Muslims cleric. What everyone is pretty much saying is what I am saying in my post above, which is that the beatings are not for inflicting pain, but it's for communicational reasons. See my post above for my full perspective.

This has to be one of the dumbest, most reaching posts I've ever read in this forum.

Don't try to justify the Koran's very straightforward allowance of violence towards women. It is wrong to do so, and that is that. Even a "tap" to get the message across (one wonders what message that is) is absolutely unacceptable.

Keep your opinion to yourself if you are not going to read the whole thread, I am saving my keyboard some wear and reposting what I already did.

I read it, and it's still a load of bull.

Islam is wrong to justify violence against women, even "metaphorically". Spin all you'd like, people will see straight through it.

I'm having trouble trying to see the justification. AFAIC, it doesn't condone it at all. If it doesn't- its about as much as the "Go get a second wife...if you can stay within these criteria....which you can't - so don't bother 😀 "
That doesn't prevent MANY people in the past from still engaging in that because the cultures around them still accepted it. People, imo, seem to make the best examples of hypocrites (note: I'm not excusing myself 😉 )

While I don't like discussing how one religion is "superior" to another since I all believe that most religions originated from God and its simply a circle jerk - I believe he was directly comparing portions of the Bible to the Quran. I honestly don't have (perhaps 1prophet can comment on this?) enough of an education in the Bible to analyze anything, but the Quran makes it clear over and over that man and woman are equals. Whether it is through the fact that "both" eat from the tree, "both" are immediately forgiven, etc etc.
For its time, and even for a reading today - it emphasizes this equality often. (Of course as a quick note, IMO, equals doesn't imply that if one can do something - the other easily can. In terms of birth, there is no way a man is equal with a woman. And there are still physiological differences - men don't have to "Rest" every few weeks for a period, etc. But looking outside a physical boundry - they'd be pretty dayum equal)

Originally posted by: 1prophet

Try communicating that way in the United States and see how fast you can be arrested and a restraining order be placed against you.

Good point - and not that I'm disagreeing with you , but domestic violence towards women is a HUGE issue. And I wouldn't be suprsied to find various levels of "Christians" who engage in this - but that doesn't mean one goes and erroneously states the Bible is all for this.
 
Originally posted by: Narmer
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
If you are against the prophet's teachings you are not really a Muslims cleric. What everyone is pretty much saying is what I am saying in my post above, which is that the beatings are not for inflicting pain, but it's for communicational reasons. See my post above for my full perspective.

This has to be one of the dumbest, most reaching posts I've ever read in this forum.

Don't try to justify the Koran's very straightforward allowance of violence towards women. It is wrong to do so, and that is that. Even a "tap" to get the message across (one wonders what message that is) is absolutely unacceptable.

Spare us the elitest, politically correct bullshit. Perhaps you should turn your sights to the verses in the old testament that on how they homosexuals and other vagrants should be treated. Or how about the one on adulterers, or children, or those who go against their god?

AFAIK he isn't religious at all...

Just because someone may take any stance against what the Quran says doesn't mean they are Christians 😛
 
Originally posted by: magomago
Originally posted by: Narmer
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
If you are against the prophet's teachings you are not really a Muslims cleric. What everyone is pretty much saying is what I am saying in my post above, which is that the beatings are not for inflicting pain, but it's for communicational reasons. See my post above for my full perspective.

This has to be one of the dumbest, most reaching posts I've ever read in this forum.

Don't try to justify the Koran's very straightforward allowance of violence towards women. It is wrong to do so, and that is that. Even a "tap" to get the message across (one wonders what message that is) is absolutely unacceptable.

Spare us the elitest, politically correct bullshit. Perhaps you should turn your sights to the verses in the old testament that on how they homosexuals and other vagrants should be treated. Or how about the one on adulterers, or children, or those who go against their god?

AFAIK he isn't religious at all...

Just because someone may take any stance against what the Quran says doesn't mean they are Christians 😛

Well, he has to stand for something. Perhaps he should inform us of where he stand so we can view him from is own position, rather than from some ivory tower.
 
Originally posted by: Aimster
This shouldn't be linked to Islam ...

In Saudi Arabia women wear towels over their face and they only show their eyes. They also do not drive and basically have no political roles except for being the wife of a king or a prince.
They can't even walk without being escorted by a male.

I have no problem with a headscarf... but whenever I see a Saudi woman covering everything but her eyes I am just like W T F.
My stepson was stationed in Bahrain for a year. He'd tell us that on the weekend (BTW their weekend encompasses different days than ours) the Saudi women would come over to Bahrain and wear western clothes, drive and carry on worse than western women. Drinking and carrying on and so forth.

There is a lot of hypocrisy over there.
 
As long as there's people like Narmer and Darkthinker, modern Islam will get a pass for being so regressive, and conflict and strife will continue. When I made the topic I'm not caring about what certain prophets said or what certain books said or comparing certain religions... I care about how a lot of people practice a religion today, and the problems it brings with modern civilization.

Someday, when those like the two stated above stop defending the indefensible, there'll be change for the better and less hostility.
 
Originally posted by: yllus
Don't try to justify the Koran's very straightforward allowance of violence towards women. It is wrong to do so, and that is that. Even a "tap" to get the message across (one wonders what message that is) is absolutely unacceptable.

QFT. :thumbsup:
 
His rules are all wrong. I go by the rule of thumb and mine is made big through synthol injections like Gregg Valentin's biceps.
 
Originally posted by: cwjerome
As long as there's people like Narmer and Darkthinker, modern Islam will get a pass for being so regressive, and conflict and strife will continue. When I made the topic I'm not caring about what certain prophets said or what certain books said or comparing certain religions... I care about how a lot of people practice a religion today, and the problems it brings with modern civilization.

Someday, when those like the two stated above stop defending the indefensible, there'll be change for the better and less hostility.

You are confusing religion with laws. Before you criticize one religion over certain acts, make sure yours is free of such acts as well. The truth is other religion are far worse when it comes to these things but you focus on Islam because it is the modern whipping boy.
 
Originally posted by: cwjerome
As long as there's people like Narmer and Darkthinker, modern Islam will get a pass for being so regressive, and conflict and strife will continue. When I made the topic I'm not caring about what certain prophets said or what certain books said or comparing certain religions... I care about how a lot of people practice a religion today, and the problems it brings with modern civilization.

Someday, when those like the two stated above stop defending the indefensible, there'll be change for the better and less hostility.

And as long as there's people like you around, "modern Islam" will be crammed into some little stereotypical box to fit a political agenda. Violence against women is a HUGE problem in our society as well, yet I don't hear anyone saying it's a problem with "modern Christianity". It is (correctly) viewed as a problem involving those people who hit their wives. Yet when it comes to Islam, you idiots are falling all over each other to cast it as a problem for the entire religion and everyone who practices that religion. Let's control for culture, and survey a sample of American Muslims and American Christians and see which groups has more domestic violence. I don't know about you, but I wouldn't make any wagers on the outcome of that study.

The problem that no one seems to understand is that trying to come to some judgement, either way, about an entire religion practiced by hundreds of millions of people is STUPID. The conflict should be with the people who do bad things, regardless of what religion they say they are. Trying to frame it as a judgement of Islam is just dumb, and counter-productive if you agree that the ideal solution is to get rid of the idiots.
 
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
If you are against the prophet's teachings you are not really a Muslims cleric. What everyone is pretty much saying is what I am saying in my post above, which is that the beatings are not for inflicting pain, but it's for communicational reasons. See my post above for my full perspective.

Wow talk about making excuses... what a pathetic and (as yllus pointed out) far reaching comment.
 
Originally posted by: cwjerome
As long as there's people like Narmer and Darkthinker, modern Islam will get a pass for being so regressive, and conflict and strife will continue. When I made the topic I'm not caring about what certain prophets said or what certain books said or comparing certain religions... I care about how a lot of people practice a religion today, and the problems it brings with modern civilization.

Someday, when those like the two stated above stop defending the indefensible, there'll be change for the better and less hostility.

DUDE HOLY CRAP!!

Let's review what happened here:

1- I do not condone violence against women nor advocate it in any way shape or form, neither does my religion if you truly watched your own videos you would have known better.

2- Saudi Arabia is one of the most hardcore extremist countries on the planet (which is filled to the brim with hypocrites who say something in Saudi Arabia and do something else elsewhere), few countries in the ME and the Muslim world can even be compared to it. Just visit my country for 3 days and you'll see what I am talking about.

3- If by this categorization Islam is violent, then God help the Christians of this country, oh I forgot they are the majority so they can claim that their religion is peaceful and get away with it I guess like what is happening in here.

4- I am a Muslim regressive extremist? Dude fck that you know what you are saying is bullshit, you have no proof to back it up and I dare you to bring just one post that would show me as being of such a nature.

Let's face it, you created this thread not to inform and not to dialog, you hate the fact that what you thought was the jackpot to lash against the Muslim members of this forum, turned out to be much simpler than you ever thought it was and now you are disappointed that you and your lackeys didn't score. Well in the word's of Coca Cola's lids "Better luck next time!"
 
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: cwjerome
As long as there's people like Narmer and Darkthinker, modern Islam will get a pass for being so regressive, and conflict and strife will continue. When I made the topic I'm not caring about what certain prophets said or what certain books said or comparing certain religions... I care about how a lot of people practice a religion today, and the problems it brings with modern civilization.

Someday, when those like the two stated above stop defending the indefensible, there'll be change for the better and less hostility.

And as long as there's people like you around, "modern Islam" will be crammed into some little stereotypical box to fit a political agenda. Violence against women is a HUGE problem in our society as well, yet I don't hear anyone saying it's a problem with "modern Christianity". It is (correctly) viewed as a problem involving those people who hit their wives. Yet when it comes to Islam, you idiots are falling all over each other to cast it as a problem for the entire religion and everyone who practices that religion. Let's control for culture, and survey a sample of American Muslims and American Christians and see which groups has more domestic violence. I don't know about you, but I wouldn't make any wagers on the outcome of that study.

The problem that no one seems to understand is that trying to come to some judgement, either way, about an entire religion practiced by hundreds of millions of people is STUPID. The conflict should be with the people who do bad things, regardless of what religion they say they are. Trying to frame it as a judgement of Islam is just dumb, and counter-productive if you agree that the ideal solution is to get rid of the idiots.

There's nothing wrong with what I'm saying, you're just being a big baby. Suck it up. We talk about "America" or "Europe" or "Blacks" or "Whites" or "Christians" or "Muslims." All of those have problems. We talk about large entities or groups when we want to make generalizations or look at the bigger picture or look at a problem within that construct. Quit being so anal retentive and please, please stop the mock victimization.

Modern Islam, especially in the Middle East, has serious problems with a great many civilized norms. It's an ugly fact you want to evade, make excuses for, and twist into an argument about evil political agendas. It's like you'd rather have conflict and wars instead of reasonable reform. Because despite what you say, there is a problem with the religion as it's practiced by tens of millions of people.

The dominant cultures in the Middle East are fundamentally attached to Islam. Islam needs needed reform. Quit being a politically correct apologist. It may be trendy to pretend this FACT should be ignored because "we have our own problems" but it's a stupid trend nonetheless. Make a thread on our own problems. There's already lots of them. I participate in them. So spare me the "glass houses" drama.
 
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Modern Islam, especially in the Middle East, has serious problems with a great many civilized norms. It's an ugly fact you want to evade, make excuses for, and twist into an argument about evil political agendas. It's like you'd rather have conflict and wars instead of reasonable reform. Because despite what you say, there is a problem with the religion as it's practiced by tens of millions of people.

QFT. :thumbsup:
 
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: cwjerome
As long as there's people like Narmer and Darkthinker, modern Islam will get a pass for being so regressive, and conflict and strife will continue. When I made the topic I'm not caring about what certain prophets said or what certain books said or comparing certain religions... I care about how a lot of people practice a religion today, and the problems it brings with modern civilization.

Someday, when those like the two stated above stop defending the indefensible, there'll be change for the better and less hostility.

And as long as there's people like you around, "modern Islam" will be crammed into some little stereotypical box to fit a political agenda. Violence against women is a HUGE problem in our society as well, yet I don't hear anyone saying it's a problem with "modern Christianity". It is (correctly) viewed as a problem involving those people who hit their wives. Yet when it comes to Islam, you idiots are falling all over each other to cast it as a problem for the entire religion and everyone who practices that religion. Let's control for culture, and survey a sample of American Muslims and American Christians and see which groups has more domestic violence. I don't know about you, but I wouldn't make any wagers on the outcome of that study.

The problem that no one seems to understand is that trying to come to some judgement, either way, about an entire religion practiced by hundreds of millions of people is STUPID. The conflict should be with the people who do bad things, regardless of what religion they say they are. Trying to frame it as a judgement of Islam is just dumb, and counter-productive if you agree that the ideal solution is to get rid of the idiots.

There's nothing wrong with what I'm saying, you're just being a big baby. Suck it up. We talk about "America" or "Europe" or "Blacks" or "Whites" or "Christians" or "Muslims." All of those have problems. We talk about large entities or groups when we want to make generalizations or look at the bigger picture or look at a problem within that construct. Quit being so anal retentive and please, please stop the mock victimization.

Modern Islam, especially in the Middle East, has serious problems with a great many civilized norms. It's an ugly fact you want to evade, make excuses for, and twist into an argument about evil political agendas. It's like you'd rather have conflict and wars instead of reasonable reform. Because despite what you say, there is a problem with the religion as it's practiced by tens of millions of people.

The dominant cultures in the Middle East are fundamentally attached to Islam. Islam needs needed reform. Quit being a politically correct apologist. It may be trendy to pretend this FACT should be ignored because "we have our own problems" but it's a stupid trend nonetheless. Make a thread on our own problems. There's already lots of them. I participate in them. So spare me the "glass houses" drama.

Wow, that's certainly an impressive list of liberal stereotypes you've managed to cram in there, so I'll offer a conservative stereotype for you. I don't think you have an evil political agenda, I think you're just being stupid. My point is extremely straight forward, and while I don't think you're any danger to the local Mensa membership, I think you're smart enough to get it...if you weren't so blinded by political angst and attempting to cram me into some ridiculous stereotype because that makes your argument easier.

Despite what you might think, "Americans", "Europeans", "Blacks", "Whites", "Christians" and "Muslims" don't do anything. They don't have conflicts and they don't have problems. They are huge groups of individuals with a lot of differences between them, so much so that attempting to categorize them by such broad labels is a waste of time. Individuals who may BE black, white, European, American, Christian or Muslim might have problems...and I'm saying we deal with those problems in whatever way possible. But I'm also saying that those problems are problems of individuals or particular groups, not problems with hugely broad cultural divisions.

You dismiss this as being brainlessly PC, probably because doing so is a reflex for folks on the right, but what I'm saying has nothing to do with being politically correct, it's just common sense. If we define a problem as a "Muslim" problem, that diffuses our responsibility to actually go after the individuals who have the problem. It means that Muslim terrorism is as much the responsibility of the Muslim mechanic at my local auto repair shop as it is the responsibility of Osama bin Laden. And, more importantly, that intelligently dealing with the problem of Muslim terrorism means we need to "deal" with the Muslim mechanic just as much as we need to deal with Osama bin Laden. Now call me crazy, but that doesn't seem like a good approach to me.

Personally I think the problem here is being too "anti-PC". Conservatives have it so ingrained that certain cultures or skin colors or religions or whatever are so inherently inferior that you can't accept a solution to a problem WITHOUT treating it as primarily a problem with one of those traits. I don't know if it's a reaction to overly PC feelings on the other side or what, but it's not smart and it's not a good approach. And while I don't endorse the idea that being PC for the sake of being PC is the best solution to all problems, I also think this reflexive reaction of being anti-PC just for the sake of being anti-PC is a poor solution.

I think the best approach to terrorism is to figure out who's doing it, and then find them and arrest them if possible, and shoot them in the head if that proves too difficult. Entering religion or skin color or favorite genre of movie into the picture is pointless, and strikes me as just a feeble excuse to persue a political agenda.
 
Originally posted by: Pabster
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Modern Islam, especially in the Middle East, has serious problems with a great many civilized norms. It's an ugly fact you want to evade, make excuses for, and twist into an argument about evil political agendas. It's like you'd rather have conflict and wars instead of reasonable reform. Because despite what you say, there is a problem with the religion as it's practiced by tens of millions of people.

QFT. :thumbsup:

And just how many people has "Islam" killed? Religions don't "do" anything, it's all about the people who wield it. I would imagine that a group of people who make that argument with firearms all the time would have a better appreciation of this concept.
 
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: Pabster
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Modern Islam, especially in the Middle East, has serious problems with a great many civilized norms. It's an ugly fact you want to evade, make excuses for, and twist into an argument about evil political agendas. It's like you'd rather have conflict and wars instead of reasonable reform. Because despite what you say, there is a problem with the religion as it's practiced by tens of millions of people.

QFT. :thumbsup:

And just how many people has "Islam" killed? Religions don't "do" anything, it's all about the people who wield it. I would imagine that a group of people who make that argument with firearms all the time would have a better appreciation of this concept.

The funny thing we do target the ideas and behaviors that lead to gun violence. Why can't you target the ideas the behaviors that lead to violence on behalf of Islam?
 
Originally posted by: Rainsford
And just how many people has "Islam" killed? Religions don't "do" anything, it's all about the people who wield it. I would imagine that a group of people who make that argument with firearms all the time would have a better appreciation of this concept.

This is a discussion we've had probably a hundred times, in various threads. The argument is really the same here; The problem with Islam is that the vast majority (roughly 80%) who stick to the Quran and its principles are not speaking out against, denouncing, and condemning the radical extremist sect which is perverting Islam to their twisted goals. At this point, the question becomes why? Do the majority support this perversion by their silence? Every religion has a faithful group of extremist nutjobs. No question about it. But Islam seems to have a frighteningly large (estimates I've seen say 20% or thereabout) radical extremist fringe.

And let me end by saying what I've said from day one here. All religions are cults, period. You can look back at the various conflicts and wars through generations and - almost always - religion is at the center of the problem. Islam perhaps more so as that entire region has been locked in religious conflict for centuries.
 
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: Pabster
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Modern Islam, especially in the Middle East, has serious problems with a great many civilized norms. It's an ugly fact you want to evade, make excuses for, and twist into an argument about evil political agendas. It's like you'd rather have conflict and wars instead of reasonable reform. Because despite what you say, there is a problem with the religion as it's practiced by tens of millions of people.

QFT. :thumbsup:

And just how many people has "Islam" killed? Religions don't "do" anything, it's all about the people who wield it. I would imagine that a group of people who make that argument with firearms all the time would have a better appreciation of this concept.

The funny thing we do target the ideas and behaviors that lead to gun violence. Why can't you target the ideas the behaviors that lead to violence on behalf of Islam?

Why do you keep focusing on Islam? You act as if all muslims have this disease or something? Simple question, how many people have muslims killed within the past 100 years? What's the number for Christians? Now, whichever one has a bigger kill count, isn't that the one with the issue?
 
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: Pabster
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Modern Islam, especially in the Middle East, has serious problems with a great many civilized norms. It's an ugly fact you want to evade, make excuses for, and twist into an argument about evil political agendas. It's like you'd rather have conflict and wars instead of reasonable reform. Because despite what you say, there is a problem with the religion as it's practiced by tens of millions of people.

QFT. :thumbsup:

And just how many people has "Islam" killed? Religions don't "do" anything, it's all about the people who wield it. I would imagine that a group of people who make that argument with firearms all the time would have a better appreciation of this concept.

The funny thing we do target the ideas and behaviors that lead to gun violence. Why can't you target the ideas the behaviors that lead to violence on behalf of Islam?

I have no problem with doing that, but that's not what you're doing. If "being Muslim" is the primary motivator, it's a pretty poor one, given how few Muslims are actually terrorists. Personally I think there are a lot more specific beliefs and behaviors that are being ignored in favor of this crusade against Islam.
 
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Wow, that's certainly an impressive list of liberal stereotypes you've managed to cram in there, so I'll offer a conservative stereotype for you. I don't think you have an evil political agenda, I think you're just being stupid. My point is extremely straight forward, and while I don't think you're any danger to the local Mensa membership, I think you're smart enough to get it...if you weren't so blinded by political angst and attempting to cram me into some ridiculous stereotype because that makes your argument easier.

Despite what you might think, "Americans", "Europeans", "Blacks", "Whites", "Christians" and "Muslims" don't do anything. They don't have conflicts and they don't have problems. They are huge groups of individuals with a lot of differences between them, so much so that attempting to categorize them by such broad labels is a waste of time. Individuals who may BE black, white, European, American, Christian or Muslim might have problems...and I'm saying we deal with those problems in whatever way possible. But I'm also saying that those problems are problems of individuals or particular groups, not problems with hugely broad cultural divisions.

You dismiss this as being brainlessly PC, probably because doing so is a reflex for folks on the right, but what I'm saying has nothing to do with being politically correct, it's just common sense. If we define a problem as a "Muslim" problem, that diffuses our responsibility to actually go after the individuals who have the problem. It means that Muslim terrorism is as much the responsibility of the Muslim mechanic at my local auto repair shop as it is the responsibility of Osama bin Laden. And, more importantly, that intelligently dealing with the problem of Muslim terrorism means we need to "deal" with the Muslim mechanic just as much as we need to deal with Osama bin Laden. Now call me crazy, but that doesn't seem like a good approach to me.

Personally I think the problem here is being too "anti-PC". Conservatives have it so ingrained that certain cultures or skin colors or religions or whatever are so inherently inferior that you can't accept a solution to a problem WITHOUT treating it as primarily a problem with one of those traits. I don't know if it's a reaction to overly PC feelings on the other side or what, but it's not smart and it's not a good approach. And while I don't endorse the idea that being PC for the sake of being PC is the best solution to all problems, I also think this reflexive reaction of being anti-PC just for the sake of being anti-PC is a poor solution.

I think the best approach to terrorism is to figure out who's doing it, and then find them and arrest them if possible, and shoot them in the head if that proves too difficult. Entering religion or skin color or favorite genre of movie into the picture is pointless, and strikes me as just a feeble excuse to persue a political agenda.

Cliffs: repeated same thing; added extra insults.

For whatever reason that I'm not even going to try and figure out, you cannot seem to grasp the big picture. You want to run around and arrest or shoot those people that do certain things while having a tantrum with the notion that we look into cultural reasons the behaviors exist. That's why I call you PC, because in my mind, people who call ideas, concepts, principles, and beliefs off-limits to debate are being politically correct. In other words, moral cowards.

OMG it's a religion!!!

Who f-in cares?
 
Originally posted by: Narmer
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: Pabster
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Modern Islam, especially in the Middle East, has serious problems with a great many civilized norms. It's an ugly fact you want to evade, make excuses for, and twist into an argument about evil political agendas. It's like you'd rather have conflict and wars instead of reasonable reform. Because despite what you say, there is a problem with the religion as it's practiced by tens of millions of people.

QFT. :thumbsup:

And just how many people has "Islam" killed? Religions don't "do" anything, it's all about the people who wield it. I would imagine that a group of people who make that argument with firearms all the time would have a better appreciation of this concept.

The funny thing we do target the ideas and behaviors that lead to gun violence. Why can't you target the ideas the behaviors that lead to violence on behalf of Islam?

Why do you keep focusing on Islam? You act as if all muslims have this disease or something? Simple question, how many people have muslims killed within the past 100 years? What's the number for Christians? Now, whichever one has a bigger kill count, isn't that the one with the issue?

Wow, bogus argument. Why focus on anything?

Maybe we should wait until Muslims kill a lot more people, then when the numbers are more even, we'll have this debate :roll:
 
Originally posted by: Pabster
Originally posted by: Rainsford
And just how many people has "Islam" killed? Religions don't "do" anything, it's all about the people who wield it. I would imagine that a group of people who make that argument with firearms all the time would have a better appreciation of this concept.

This is a discussion we've had probably a hundred times, in various threads. The argument is really the same here; The problem with Islam is that the vast majority (roughly 80%) who stick to the Quran and its principles are not speaking out against, denouncing, and condemning the radical extremist sect which is perverting Islam to their twisted goals. At this point, the question becomes why? Do the majority support this perversion by their silence? Every religion has a faithful group of extremist nutjobs. No question about it. But Islam seems to have a frighteningly large (estimates I've seen say 20% or thereabout) radical extremist fringe.
Well since we have this discussion all the time, just how exactly is this supposed to work? How do average people "speak out" against something in a way that reaches such a wide audience? For that matter, why is this their responsibility?
And let me end by saying what I've said from day one here. All religions are cults, period. You can look back at the various conflicts and wars through generations and - almost always - religion is at the center of the problem. Islam perhaps more so as that entire region has been locked in religious conflict for centuries.

I think you are confusing correlation with causation. Religion may be at the center of a lot of conflicts, but it's not the cause, it's the excuse. And it's a good one, which might explain it's long popularity, but the problem is the people behind the conflict. If religion didn't work, they would use (and have used) something else. I see no evidence that religion takes otherwise perfectly normal people and turns them into violent lunatics, I just think violent lunatics tend to gravitate to certain aspects of religion.

Your cult example proves this perfectly. All the crazy cults out there seem to attract a lot of people, but I'd argue that those people weren't perfectly normal before they joined the cult...I'd say most of them were screwed up for some other reason, which is why the cult appealed to them. Fighting one particular attractor for the crazy people doesn't seem helpful. Even if you can change or eradicate it, the lunatics will just move on to the next thing.
 
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Originally posted by: Narmer
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: Pabster
Originally posted by: cwjerome
Modern Islam, especially in the Middle East, has serious problems with a great many civilized norms. It's an ugly fact you want to evade, make excuses for, and twist into an argument about evil political agendas. It's like you'd rather have conflict and wars instead of reasonable reform. Because despite what you say, there is a problem with the religion as it's practiced by tens of millions of people.

QFT. :thumbsup:

And just how many people has "Islam" killed? Religions don't "do" anything, it's all about the people who wield it. I would imagine that a group of people who make that argument with firearms all the time would have a better appreciation of this concept.

The funny thing we do target the ideas and behaviors that lead to gun violence. Why can't you target the ideas the behaviors that lead to violence on behalf of Islam?

Why do you keep focusing on Islam? You act as if all muslims have this disease or something? Simple question, how many people have muslims killed within the past 100 years? What's the number for Christians? Now, whichever one has a bigger kill count, isn't that the one with the issue?

Wow, bogus argument. Why focus on anything?

Maybe we should wait until Muslims kill a lot more people, then when the numbers are more even, we'll have this debate :roll:

Well, I can see that you implicitely admitted to Christians killing many more people within the last 100 years. Well then, why don't you focus on your problem? George Bush, the hypocritical Christian leader, is killing scores of Muslims on Muslim land. That is fuelling the problem you want to discuss here. Why don't you do something about it?
 
Originally posted by: magomago
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
If you are against the prophet's teachings you are not really a Muslims cleric. What everyone is pretty much saying is what I am saying in my post above, which is that the beatings are not for inflicting pain, but it's for communicational reasons. See my post above for my full perspective.

This has to be one of the dumbest, most reaching posts I've ever read in this forum.

Don't try to justify the Koran's very straightforward allowance of violence towards women. It is wrong to do so, and that is that. Even a "tap" to get the message across (one wonders what message that is) is absolutely unacceptable.

Keep your opinion to yourself if you are not going to read the whole thread, I am saving my keyboard some wear and reposting what I already did.

I read it, and it's still a load of bull.

Islam is wrong to justify violence against women, even "metaphorically". Spin all you'd like, people will see straight through it.

I'm having trouble trying to see the justification. AFAIC, it doesn't condone it at all. If it doesn't- its about as much as the "Go get a second wife...if you can stay within these criteria....which you can't - so don't bother 😀 "

That doesn't prevent MANY people in the past from still engaging in that because the cultures around them still accepted it. People, imo, seem to make the best examples of hypocrites (note: I'm not excusing myself 😉 )

While I don't like discussing how one religion is "superior" to another since I all believe that most religions originated from God and its simply a circle jerk - I believe he was directly comparing portions of the Bible to the Quran. I honestly don't have (perhaps 1prophet can comment on this?) enough of an education in the Bible to analyze anything, but the Quran makes it clear over and over that man and woman are equals. Whether it is through the fact that "both" eat from the tree, "both" are immediately forgiven, etc etc.

For its time, and even for a reading today - it emphasizes this equality often. (Of course as a quick note, IMO, equals doesn't imply that if one can do something - the other easily can. In terms of birth, there is no way a man is equal with a woman. And there are still physiological differences - men don't have to "Rest" every few weeks for a period, etc. But looking outside a physical boundry - they'd be pretty dayum equal)

I'm probably the fiercest person on these forums when it comes to correcting mistranslated quotations from the Koran. What verse 4-34 says, I've found, is entirely accurate:

Six translations of Qur'an 4:34:

1. "Men are superior to women on account of the qualities with which God has gifted the one above the other, and on account of the outlay they make from their substance for them. Virtuous women are obedient, careful, during the husband's absence, because God has of them been careful. But chide those for whose refractoriness you have cause to fear; remove them into beds apart, and scourge them: but if they are obedient to you, then seek not occasion against them: verily, God is High, Great!" (Rodwell's version of the Koran, Quran, 4:34)

2. "Men have authority over women because God has made the one superior to the other, and because they spend their wealth to maintain them. Good women are obedient. They guard their unseen parts because God has guarded them. As for those from whom you fear disobedience, admonish them and send them to beds apart and beat them. Then if they obey you, take no further action against them. Surely God is high, supreme." (Dawood's version of the Koran, Quran, 4:34)

3. "Men are in charge of women, because Allah has made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah has guarded. As for those from whom you fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High Exalted, Great." (Pickthall's version of the Koran, Quran, 4:34)

4. "Men are the managers of the affairs of women for that God has preferred in bounty one of them over another, and for that they have expended of their property. Righteous women are therefore obedient, guarding the secret for God's guarding. And those you fear may be rebellious admonish; banish them to their couches, and beat them. If they then obey you, look not for any way against them; God is All high, All great." (Arberry's version of the Koran, Quran, 4:34)

5. "Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in their sleeping places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great. (Shakir's version of the Koran, Quran, 4:34)

6. "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whom part you fear disloyalty and ill conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance) for Allah is Most High, Great (above you all). (Ali's version of the Koran, Quran, 4:34)

And finally, the Koran sitting on my bookshelf says "scourge them".

This is something I consider entirely unacceptable in a religion. I draw no comparison to Judaism, Christianity, Buddhism... I don't care about what's better or what's worse. Taken on its own - an absolutely unacceptable statement. I am disgusted by the people who would spin this into pretending that means something other than it very clearly does.

Simply: Yes, you are allowed to beat your wife by the principles of Islam. First speak to them, then send them away, but if those measures fail, according to the Koran you are allowed to lay a hand on your wife.
 
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