If you read through this thread perhaps you've noticed I have a different take on God than either literal religionists or Atheists, a take which prompts me to want to explore your comment further, if you will indulge me:
In my opinion, as you probably know, I regard your opinion far more highly than I do the opinion of most others, and for the reasons that I feel that logic and reason lead ineluctably to the same place. In short, in my opinion, some opinions are much better than others, and I also share your opinion that a God as you described above would be a monster.
But what if my opinion was that it was OK to murder innocent children because God will take them to heaven and they will be in a better place. This in not a terribly unknown opinion espoused by many a father who executes his family to save them from life's misery. Is such an opinion equally valid as yours. You know it's not but how do you know? I am pretty sure nobody will ever be able to convince you that the two opinions are equal.
I don't know if buckshot was going to the same place as I am trying to, but I have a feeling he was. At any rate, I do not agree that evil is a matter of opinion but if you admit to that fact you step off the rational bus into well, a place with no name.
buckshot won't argue opinions, but I will. I just can't use logic to do so. I know without a doubt of any kind that if a loving God exists He does not approve of the murder of children. I believe this to be truth and not opinion. There is truth and then there is opinion and the distinction is based on whether the mind is unified by love or sintered by hate. It is by this means, here actually useless words about a state that can't be had via words, that lies at the root of inalienable rights and truth that are self evident.