The hidden violence of the socialistic mindset

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mikeymikec

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This is what I mean.

If his arguments were wrong, explain how they are wrong. You don't need to try and ad hominem his character.

Here's an example of why many people don't take Blue_Max seriously:

Hey, I'm not the one who wants to subjugate, sterilize, and/or euthanize the other gender. Not all feminists may want this, but some of their biggest leaders sure do.

That's just aside from the fact that he went into a thread talking about socialism and derailed it by comparing female so-called SJWs to something he read in 1984 and how he thinks it's "more relevant now than ever".

IMO most people who have read 1984 could point out a couple of similarities between elements of the story and the culture one is living in. I'm fully convinced that when/if BM is reading it, he's thinking, "My God! This is just like my life, I'm Winston!", because his opinions on topics like feminism scream "persecution complex".

Quite a few people here, myself included, have attempted to engage him in discussion on such topics, but frankly what's the point in trying to change someone's mind on a topic when all they're interested in believing and entertaining the notions of are things that they already agree with, and any notion of applying critical analysis to their own beliefs and those that conflict with them is one that has long since sailed.
 

realibrad

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Here's an example of why many people don't take Blue_Max seriously:



That's just aside from the fact that he went into a thread talking about socialism and derailed it by comparing female so-called SJWs to something he read in 1984 and how he thinks it's "more relevant now than ever".

IMO most people who have read 1984 could point out a couple of similarities between elements of the story and the culture one is living in. I'm fully convinced that when/if BM is reading it, he's thinking, "My God! This is just like my life, I'm Winston!", because his opinions on topics like feminism scream "persecution complex".

Quite a few people here, myself included, have attempted to engage him in discussion on such topics, but frankly what's the point in trying to change someone's mind on a topic when all they're interested in believing and entertaining the notions of are things that they already agree with, and any notion of applying critical analysis to their own beliefs and those that conflict with them is one that has long since sailed.

He can be stupid and make a point. I dont know that he has made a point, but its possible. If you want to say why he is stupid, fine. If you want to show how his point is wrong, fine. Who he is has nothing to do with his logic being right or wrong.

Also, if you feel like you are not getting anywhere, then ignore him. Nothing says you have to engage him. Its how I have decided to react to Moonbeam. When he makes a point, I challenge it. When he goes off to nowhere land, I stop responding to him.

There are genuine things that are a problem with modern feminist and SJW types and the world they want to create. When someone says my rights end when their feelings end, they want a very scary world. If you think there is something to be talked about, then talk about it. If dumb people respond, ignore them. There are a few people out there who do want to talk, and I consider myself one of them.
 

JSt0rm

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he didnt make a point. You even said so yourself. If you want to defend his special brand of retardation then fine but a thread on socialism?

The whole anti-feminist thing is hilarious anyhow. Like what news streams are you subjecting yourselves to to even see a issue here? Like how is my life impacted by women protesting rape? wtf is wrong with you?
 

realibrad

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he didnt make a point. You even said so yourself.
I never said he did or did not. What I said was that attacking who he is does nothing to discredit his claims.

If you want to defend his special brand of retardation then fine but a thread on socialism?

This is P&N where treads are allowed to wander around. I think we got here because in a socialist system, the SJW could get into power and force their ideals and morals upon society which would be dangerous.

QUOTE=JSt0rm;37694634]The whole anti-feminist thing is hilarious anyhow. Like what news streams are you subjecting yourselves to to even see a issue here? Like how is my life impacted by women protesting rape? wtf is wrong with you?[/QUOTE]

Was this directed at me, or BM (lol)? I am an egalitarian and think women should have equal rights. There are many people that consider themselves feminist that I do not think are for egalitarian ideas and rules.

If you are talking about the "your rights end where my feelings begin" feminism, then I am against that. If you are talking about the "women should be allowed to be or do anything based on the same qualifications as a man" feminism then I am pro-feminism.
 

JSt0rm

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"your rights end where my feelings begin" feminism


^^^ where does this come from?
 

JSt0rm

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and let me add that line of reasoning ""your rights end where my feelings begin" i exactly how le blu max is responding to anyone who responds to him so yeah. What a maroon.
 

realibrad

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"your rights end where my feelings begin" feminism


^^^ where does this come from?

A quick google search says a college comic called Space Moose.

Most people have an idea of feminism that I think is an older style. That is the feminism of equality. There is a very popular movement of people who are pushing a new type of feminism though. There was a video called "My family raped me" or something to that effect by Pooja Relan. She expands rape to be to be, and I am not kidding...

I got raped when my brother teased someone else’s sister

Again, I am for equality and old school feminism through egalitarianism. There is a big group of people out there that are pushing a new type of feminism though. Its the tumbler we are unicorns and dragons type.

I think its hard for people to believe that a brother teasing a girl is a type of rape would be a popular idea. I think most assume that line of thinking must be a few people out there, but it does seem to be growing. I don't go as far as Blue and make it seem like its everywhere, but it is around a lot on line.
 

JSt0rm

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Why would you even care what she says? The world is full of foolish people.
 

mikeymikec

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A quick google search says a college comic called Space Moose.

Most people have an idea of feminism that I think is an older style. That is the feminism of equality. There is a very popular movement of people who are pushing a new type of feminism though. There was a video called "My family raped me" or something to that effect by Pooja Relan. She expands rape to be to be, and I am not kidding...



Again, I am for equality and old school feminism through egalitarianism. There is a big group of people out there that are pushing a new type of feminism though. Its the tumbler we are unicorns and dragons type.

I think its hard for people to believe that a brother teasing a girl is a type of rape would be a popular idea. I think most assume that line of thinking must be a few people out there, but it does seem to be growing. I don't go as far as Blue and make it seem like its everywhere, but it is around a lot on line.

So some people are complete loons. However, where most political discussions fall apart (especially on P&N) is when people decide that they're on one side and their objective is to beat what they consider to be the opposition (in general / as a collective); instead of debating with the person whom they're conversing with, they assume that everyone who has advocated a similar-ish position holds exactly the same opinions on every topic as they person they're replying to and it descends into, for example, "conservatard" / "librul" bollocks.

I bet that for any opinion that you hold, you can find plenty of idiots online who have a very similar opinion yet push elements of it to idiotic extremes. We live in a world where some black people consider themselves to be pro-Nazi, or that some girls from 'the West' would actually join up with ISIS. If opinions are judged in collectives and the lowest common denominator, everyone who holds an opinion on anything is a complete idiot.
 
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MongGrel

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Has this thread went on long enough now we can start making fun of it ?

*edit* reads up a bit, I guess so.
 

realibrad

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So some people are complete loons. However, where most political discussions fall apart (especially on P&N) is when people decide that they're on one side and their objective is to beat what they consider to be the opposition (in general / as a collective); instead of debating with the person whom they're conversing with, they assume that everyone who has advocated a similar-ish position holds exactly the same opinions on every topic as they person they're replying to and it descends into, for example, "conservatard" / "librul" bollocks.

I bet that for any opinion that you hold, you can find plenty of idiots online who have a very similar opinion yet push elements of it to idiotic extremes. We live in a world where some black people consider themselves to be pro-Nazi, or that some girls from 'the West' would actually join up with ISIS. If opinions are judged in collectives and the lowest common denominator, everyone who holds an opinion on anything is a complete idiot.

As populations grow, the number of dumb people will grow. Even if the per capital ratio of dumb people goes down, the total number if dumb people can go up. This would mean that groups that consider themselves "otherkin" aka idiots, could be a very small representation of the population, and still grow in numbers. That being said, take a look at what some people say and do now.

Many comedians will not do college shows anymore because they feel the crowds are too PC and cannot take a joke. I don't know of anyone that would consider Jerry Seinfeld to be edgy, yet even he feels colleges are too PC. His stance to me is indicative of a much wider problem.

In the context that there are those out there that try and promote stupid ideas like otherkin and the redefining of rape, I agree with Blue. I also understand that the ideas I am against are not close to being a majority view. That being said I do feel like its a growing view that is part of a much wider problem of people feeling their ideas cannot be challenged. If a feminist who claims that men make more money because patriarchy, I disagree and they claim abuse. When a religious person says there is a war on Christmas because a store says happy holidays, I disagree and get called anti-religious. In both cases the discussion gets shut down.

I think this might be where Blue and I really split, because I still think society on the whole simply does not see how dumb some groups are, and if people did, they would speak out. The war against Christmas is a great example where people are starting to make it a joke. Its accepted to make fun of it as a topic. Right now, I dont get the sense that making fun of modern feminism is accepted yet.
 

mikeymikec

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I wonder whether many/most stand-up comedians have engaged in a "race to the bottom", after hearing on the radio recently how a father felt that a particular comedian (one in the UK who used to be popular in the eighties and nineties) was a refreshing change from the rest as he could take his son to see this comedian without worrying about what the content was going to be like.

Don't get me wrong, I love more than a bit of crass comedy - Frankie Boyle, Jimmy Carr and Tim Minchin for example, but if many stand-up comedians really believe that their audiences can't take a joke any more, there's a simpler reason than thinking that society has gone to pot in a PC sort of way, perhaps the mine of humour they've been digging for a while has been exhausted.

On the other hand, perhaps comedians who believe what you're saying have become a bit jaded by "those who shout loudest". At the end of the day, if I go to watch Frankie Boyle, I know what to expect. If I'm about to see a stand-up performance from someone I've never heard of, I expect to be surprised, not to listen to a sermon. Comedians often make comedy by holding a mirror to society plus a bit of their own personality, however if they're still trading with well-worn stereotypes then it's time to retire or come up with some new material.
 

kage69

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"your rights end where my feelings begin" feminism


^^^ where does this come from?

Yeah, that's odd. That's way more appropriate for the butthurt christians who howl about people they don't approve of being entitled to the same kind of rights and freedoms as they are.

Sounds like more projection from those suffering the christian persecution complex.
 

Jhhnn

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As populations grow, the number of dumb people will grow. Even if the per capital ratio of dumb people goes down, the total number if dumb people can go up. This would mean that groups that consider themselves "otherkin" aka idiots, could be a very small representation of the population, and still grow in numbers. That being said, take a look at what some people say and do now.

Many comedians will not do college shows anymore because they feel the crowds are too PC and cannot take a joke. I don't know of anyone that would consider Jerry Seinfeld to be edgy, yet even he feels colleges are too PC. His stance to me is indicative of a much wider problem.

In the context that there are those out there that try and promote stupid ideas like otherkin and the redefining of rape, I agree with Blue. I also understand that the ideas I am against are not close to being a majority view. That being said I do feel like its a growing view that is part of a much wider problem of people feeling their ideas cannot be challenged. If a feminist who claims that men make more money because patriarchy, I disagree and they claim abuse. When a religious person says there is a war on Christmas because a store says happy holidays, I disagree and get called anti-religious. In both cases the discussion gets shut down.

I think this might be where Blue and I really split, because I still think society on the whole simply does not see how dumb some groups are, and if people did, they would speak out. The war against Christmas is a great example where people are starting to make it a joke. Its accepted to make fun of it as a topic. Right now, I dont get the sense that making fun of modern feminism is accepted yet.

Please. I laughed out loud the first time I heard "War on Christmas". It's an absurd proposition that has no basis in observable reality. That can't be said for issues of gender equality.
 

realibrad

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Please. I laughed out loud the first time I heard "War on Christmas". It's an absurd proposition that has no basis in observable reality. That can't be said for issues of gender equality.

That is the issue. I personally do not know a single person who advocates for gender inequality unless its based off of something biological. I think there should be standards based on ability, and anyone who meets them should be good to go. If a woman can meet the standards for a military position, then I say good, we need more qualified people. Same thing goes for any position. If its about egalitarian feminism, then count me 100% in.

The issue happens when you get into things like the gender pay gap.

http://www.consad.com/content/reports/Gender Wage Gap Final Report.pdf

There are observable differences in the attributes of men and women that account for most of the
wage gap. Statistical analysis that includes those variables has produced results that collectively
account for between 65.1 and 76.4 percent of a raw gender wage gap of 20.4 percent, and
thereby leave an adjusted gender wage gap that is between 4.8 and 7.1 percent

When adjusted, the gap looks more like 4.8-7.1. Further, when you dig deeper, you realize its impossible to currently tell what makes up the last gap.

Could there be social issues that drive women into life choices that make the pay gap bigger? Well likely yes. If people find it worth their time to dig and find out what is happening, good for them as we would likely all benefit. Instead we get policies that target helping women that create outcomes that are way over reactive.

We get things like this.

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That does not seem like equality. Is the sky falling? God no. This can't be a healthy trend though.
 

JSt0rm

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you think women outpacing men in college is because of some government program?
 

realibrad

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you think women outpacing men in college is because of some government program?

I don't remember saying it was all government, or even bringing up government. I think you took me saying policies as government policies, but I meant policies in terms of private and public.

http://www.nerdwallet.com/blog/nerd...hip-study-5000-private-scholarships-analyzed/

Historically, females have had to face more social challenges and restrictions in order to obtain an education. However, women are now passing men in number of college degrees earned. The fact that females have more scholarships available to them may still reflect the historical social barriers they had to face to attend college in the past.

The government is all over education, so it would get really tricky to try and pick out a "government" action vs non. I will say that there are programs that target women in helping them get into and pay for college. If you want to go down that road, I guess we can but its going to take me longer to get data.

The point is that women for a long time were seen as not getting equal treatment in society. That perception was valid in my opinion. So in our attempt to correct that, it looks as though we have gone too far in some areas.

The US has always had issues with over correcting. WWII, we are at war with Japan, so we put all the Japanese on the west coast into internment caps. We want to pollute less, so we turn corn into fuel which turns out on net to put out more carbon into the atmosphere.

The point is that I feel there are valid issues to be looked out. Blue seems to have trouble expressing himself in a way that would generate a productive discussion. The issue I have is that people then dismiss the topic because of who Blue is considered to be.

I mean hell, this whole time I have been logical and providing explanations as to what I mean, and I get the sense you are waiting for me to say some crazy shit like men are better than women, so kill all the women. Really, there are issues about inequality that we seem to miss as a society because taking away help for a group is considered bigoted.
 

mikeymikec

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That is the issue. I personally do not know a single person who advocates for gender inequality unless its based off of something biological.

Last time I checked, gender had something to do with biology. Please elaborate.

Most people won't explicitly advocate gender inequality (just like most racists these days don't advocate stringing up non-whites), however there are plenty of ways that people take such a position that is pro inequality.

Texashiker for example has said that women don't deserve to be treated equally in other respects because they haven't (first) campaigned to be eligible for the draft. On other occasions he has claimed to be a defender of womens' rights.

There was a recent thread on the AT social forums about women serving on the front line (military). There were all kinds of excuses why women shouldn't be allowed to serve in that capacity that don't stand up even to minimal critical analysis, stupid shit like "men might be distracted by them".

I once had a discussion on these forums about the portrayal of female body armour in games and other works of fiction like comics, how it's generally designed to appeal in a sexual context to males rather than showing the slightest attempt of realism, while common portrayals of male body armour are not designed with that in mind, and that this is part of a general picture that women receive from the media about how they're supposed to look yet made to feel guilty about it whenever it suits their detractors. The sheer amount of crap this guy spewed in opposition to my argument, for example how in medieval times women wouldn't have been doing that kind of work (yet 1: why then is there a female character dressed like that and 2: what do fantasy works have to do with how things were in medieval times?) therefore it's appropriate. Many people will actually come up with the flimsiest excuses to keep things the way they like them (e.g. as much T&A as possible) rather than concede very obvious facts.
 

Jaskalas

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Is the OP a sovereign citizen?

Look man, Liberty is freedom.
Liberal / Libertarian means to push for the maximum extent possible.

Possible is a key word there. Our social structure has changed since the founding days when there was untold and "unlimited" land out there in the great frontier. The world has changed... it has gotten smaller, more confined. No man is an island and space and resources are at a premium. Today the world is locked down and under tight controls.

Liberty does not mean Anarchy. Our country has land and territory and under that we govern our people through a long standing Democratic and Republic institution. Through that government we try to achieve the goal of maximum liberty possible. Sometimes we fall short of providing that.

Challenges include social mandates that we provide for and protect those who have fallen under hard times. Those who our economy has left behind and deprived of basic needs. The American people decided during the Great Depression that a New Deal was required and that being a citizen of the United States meant more than fending for yourself in a world where that just wasn't possible anymore.

The modern standard should NOT be that we live in isolation, it should be that in our society we are able to enjoy life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness without being trampled on by tyranny. That people in our country enjoy upward mobility and a fair chance at a better life. That even if they miss that opportunity that they will still enjoy a better life than the rest of the world can provide. That we are all treated equally and fairly.

Anarchy has no place here as we strive for a better future... together.
 

realibrad

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Last time I checked, gender had something to do with biology. Please elaborate.

Sorry if I was not clear. What I mean is that men and women are different, and sometimes need to be treated differently. If I went into a doctors office and they wanted to do a pap smear to be "equal" that would be stupid. I also as a man don't expect that my insurance company should give me the pill because they give it to my girlfriend.

Most people won't explicitly advocate gender inequality (just like most racists these days don't advocate stringing up non-whites), however there are plenty of ways that people take such a position that is pro inequality.

Very true. Having said that, I have not met a person who even seems to want inequality. I don't think standards should be lower for women either. If you look at the military, they had standards for a long time for physical fitness. They had to lower them because women could not pass them. Its not that the women did not try hard enough, its that their bodies are built differently.

Our bodies are built differently and there is nothing wrong with admitting that.

As a side note, it turns out that many women are better able to handle gforce better then men.

Texashiker for example has said that women don't deserve to be treated equally in other respects because they haven't (first) campaigned to be eligible for the draft. On other occasions he has claimed to be a defender of womens' rights.

This goes deeper into the military issue. The reason the draft does not include women is partly due to women not being as able to fight front line like most men can. Combat is changing, and there are many uses for women on the battlefield now, but again, our bodies are different.

AS for Texas, we know what he is usually about. Not much to say there. If he makes an argument that is logical, ill debate it.

There was a recent thread on the AT social forums about women serving on the front line (military). There were all kinds of excuses why women shouldn't be allowed to serve in that capacity that don't stand up even to minimal critical analysis, stupid shit like "men might be distracted by them".

Distraction is not really a valid concern to me either. But, lets not mistake that there are differences. Why we see differences could be up for debate, but many of those differences is due to men and women being different.

http://www.latimes.com/nation/la-na-marines-women-20150912-story.html

All-male units performed better than mixed-gender units on 93 of 134 tasks, or 69%; gender-integrated units performed better than all-male units on two tasks, which were not identified.

All-male infantry squads were faster in each tactical movement, with differences more pronounced when "crew-served" weapons such as machine guns had to be carried in addition to the standard assault load.

All-male infantry rifleman squads were more accurate shots, with notable differences in all weapons except the M4 rifle.

Men in the provisional infantry platoon who had not attended the infantry course were more accurate marksmen than women who had, hitting 44% of targets with the M4 rifle versus 28% among women trained at the infantry school.

You are likely to see this popup more in the news, or at least I hope.

I once had a discussion on these forums about the portrayal of female body armour in games and other works of fiction like comics, how it's generally designed to appeal in a sexual context to males rather than showing the slightest attempt of realism, while common portrayals of male body armour are not designed with that in mind, and that this is part of a general picture that women receive from the media about how they're supposed to look yet made to feel guilty about it whenever it suits their detractors.

First you need to put things into context. Not all female armor appeal to sex. I'm sure even you can think of many female characters that were not dressed sexy. But, lets not forget that games are entertainment. Men are far more entertained by visual things then women. Study after study shows that men's brains light up when given visual stimulus vs women. For a long time, the gaming world was dominated by men gamers. Its logical that the creators would thus appeal to males. Games are not really about being realistic, so the sexy armor is just for entertainment.

Also, don't forget that the "media" is made up of people. People like clear boundaries because its easier to deal with. Its not that the "media" is shaming women, so much as individuals. It also helps that people want to fit in, so when someone says you are doing it wrong, you are likely to listen. Shitty part of human nature.

The sheer amount of crap this guy spewed in opposition to my argument, for example how in medieval times women wouldn't have been doing that kind of work (yet 1: why then is there a female character dressed like that and 2: what do fantasy works have to do with how things were in medieval times?) therefore it's appropriate. Many people will actually come up with the flimsiest excuses to keep things the way they like them (e.g. as much T&A as possible) rather than concede very obvious facts.

Well, I hope my previous explanation is better than the arguments you got before. Fantasy games can be very fun to play. I have no problem playing a female warrior who is stronger than most of the male characters, because its a fantasy and not reality. In reality though, women are not typically as strong as men because of biological differences. There are always exceptions, but its far from the norm.

As for games being about T&A, they often are, but that is not a bad. Sexualizing a man or a woman is not inherently bad. Finding someone attractive is a biological drive. No doubt that social norms can sway people, but you cannot really decide what you find attractive. The thing I would advocate is how you react to what you find attractive.
 

mikeymikec

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I don't think standards should be lower for women either. If you look at the military, they had standards for a long time for physical fitness. They had to lower them because women could not pass them. Its not that the women did not try hard enough, its that their bodies are built differently.

At face value, that sounds like the US military did something stupid. However, it might have been found that the fitness standards had been pushed way beyond what a US soldier might expect even in gruelling 'real life' circumstances, so therefore standards were lowered, and it was when women were being assessed that this problem came to the fore, or perhaps even that too few applicants of either gender were passing, so standards were lowered. The SAS is reviewing its fitness tests for applicants since a few died (last spring IIRC) on the Brecon Beacons. I'm not suggesting that one possibility is more likely than the other, I think it's perfectly possible that some people made an idiotic decision, just like I think it's silly to assume that just because any given profession has more of one gender than the other that sexism must be afoot.

AS for Texas, we know what he is usually about. Not much to say there. If he makes an argument that is logical, ill debate it.
You were saying you didn't know people who advocate inequality. BM for example treats "the feminists" as a collective and then dismisses all opinions held by "feminists" due the craziest shit he's ever heard, or that one "radical feminist" who ended up in an asylum is representative of all who hold "feminist" opinions. If one has a viewpoint like that, it makes it extremely unlikely that one would ever entertain the notion that (respectively) inequality exists at all, and one probably will actively take up a contrary position to anything that opposes their belief.

Furthermore, many people hear a basic idea such as #BlackLivesMatter or "I believe in equal rights for women" and seemingly automatically take a contrary view such as "you're saving black lives matter so you must believe that white lives don't matter" or "you want women to have more rights so that must mean you want men to have less rights". The most innocent reason I can think of for this is that some people suck hard at logic, and that may play a part, however I think the more likely/common reason for it is that many people build up a view that they appreciate that the society they live in is reasonably fair and that they get along in life because they're reasonably fair with other people and play by the rules, and when something comes along to challenge their view of society, they react in a contrary manner (taking it personally because a criticism of the system that they are part of and implicitly condone is somehow a criticism of them), in a similar way to how difficult it is to be called out on your own problematic behaviour and to react to that criticism in a logical and mature way.

Another example is what you mentioned about some people who want to redefine rape to include just about anything negative that ever occurred to them, it's very likely down to similar sorts of problems, like starting with a perception because of whatever reason, then only seeking out or taking seriously the material that agrees with that starting perception.

You know, there is a really simple explanation for this scenario: if team building was really easy then there wouldn't be billions paid to managers and consultants in all professions in order to promote it. A newly-formed team is very likely to perform less well than a team that has been managed properly for some time. It's also quite reasonable to assume that motivating a mixed-gender or all-female team might require different tactics than a typical all-male team. As the article says, they started experimenting with this last autumn, so people who are used to motivating men their entire careers are now being asked to do something new in a setting where an organisation has existed for shall we say centuries is now being asked to do it a bit differently, and they're expecting ideal results straight away? Hum.

Furthermore, having more diverse gender representation in other fields is known to be a benefit (for example, male primary school teachers in the UK are more sought after because they're in a minority and better gender representation is generally believed to result in a more chilled out staff room), why on earth it would be different in the military is anyone's guess, but coming back to my original point, people will argue based on really stupid stereotypes that women shouldn't be in the front line for reasons like "they're not as strong as men" - come on, when I was in my twenties, I could have trained hard enough to go for basic infantry, and my firearm skills were good enough even with minimal training, I could have become a basic soldier. There would always be men who were better with firearms or more physically capable than I, but I'm equally damn sure that there would be women around who could have achieved to a greater degree in the relevant fields than I could. Using a firearm does not require distinctly male traits; you have to carry it long distances and you have to be able to hold it steadily and look down the sight(s) the right way and keep calm while firing. I'm sure that you can think of several professions that require some or all of those traits (or something quite similar). Also, martial arts have quite a few established moves that involve using your opponent's strengths against them and using your own flexibility to your advantage. It would be just as bone-headed to argue that guys can't do the splits when some quite clearly can, or to try and train all guys to do the splits in the same way that women might be trained, and to assume that there's something inescapably inferior/unsuitable about guys who don't respond as well to the same training regimen that women might receive.

First you need to put things into context. Not all female armor appeal to sex. I'm sure even you can think of many female characters that were not dressed sexy.
<raises eyebrow> "Not all", "I can think of some that aren't" = a valid beginning to your argument? I wouldn't be surprised that for say every five examples that are dressed sexy, one isn't. Would you say that this estimate is a reasonable one?

But, lets not forget that games are entertainment. Men are far more entertained by visual things then women. Study after study shows that men's brains light up when given visual stimulus vs women. For a long time, the gaming world was dominated by men gamers. Its logical that the creators would thus appeal to males. Games are not really about being realistic, so the sexy armor is just for entertainment.
Video gaming was a successful industry in its infancy even before the days of semi-realistic graphics that were good enough to start showing a bit of human form, the fact that everyone has been complaining about for ages is that the industry simply got lazy once it started finding game types and elements that were real money spinners. Diversity in gaming (and I'm not specifically talking about gender-related diversity) in general took a nose-dive after the birth of the FPS. The idea that games are mostly for males is all part and parcel of that, and while there will be a few prats who will complain that they don't want to control a character who is black or gay, the game makers stick to the idea that their audience always will be white males and one of the results of that is sexy female body armour.

My point was originally about peoples' attitudes towards these topics though, which is why I gave these examples. Take a look at the GG thread, or some Anita Sarkeesian threads on the AT forums. While I've agreed that some of her points have been inaccurate or off-base in my opinion, she has also made some pretty basic points that can't really be denied. There has been a serious bias in video game production (which may be steadily coming back around as video game makers discover that a bit more depth goes a long way), yet people like BM will deny that anything that AS has said has any merit whatsoever.

Also, don't forget that the "media" is made up of people. People like clear boundaries because its easier to deal with. Its not that the "media" is shaming women, so much as individuals. It also helps that people want to fit in, so when someone says you are doing it wrong, you are likely to listen. Shitty part of human nature.
Using the term 'shaming' suggests that you're trying to shape this discussion in the same way as you were talking about not encountering people who 'openly advocate inequality'. If examples of women portrayed in media are predominately a) white, b) good-looking, c) thin, d) dressed in an 'appealing' manner, that is clearly going to have an effect on how women feel that they want to fit in, how men are going to perceive women and what they're attracted to, and how women are treated (by other men and women) if they don't fit in to that implied concept of the ideal woman. If female characters in gaming generally fit the same criteria while adding a few more points to that (such as 'sexy female body armour'), that clearly is going to have an effect on gamers who consume such entertainment and also reduce the likelihood of female gamers getting involved.

As for games being about T&A, they often are, but that is not a bad. Sexualizing a man or a woman is not inherently bad. Finding someone attractive is a biological drive. No doubt that social norms can sway people, but you cannot really decide what you find attractive. The thing I would advocate is how you react to what you find attractive.
While I agree with everything in this quote as far as it goes, it's what happens when there isn't a balance. If most of my taste in films were mostly about "boy things" and T&A, most of my friends would wonder what is wrong with me. I'm 35, not 15 and even for a teen that would be adhering to a pretty rigid stereotype, and while I liked placing TR games for hours at that age, I played plenty (probably mostly) of other stuff that didn't fall into that category.
 
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At face value, that sounds like the US military did something stupid. However, it might have been found that the fitness standards had been pushed way beyond what a US soldier might expect even in gruelling 'real life' circumstances, so therefore standards were lowered, and it was when women were being assessed that this problem came to the fore, or perhaps even that too few applicants of either gender were passing, so standards were lowered. The SAS is reviewing its fitness tests for applicants since a few died (last spring IIRC) on the Brecon Beacons. I'm not suggesting that one possibility is more likely than the other, I think it's perfectly possible that some people made an idiotic decision, just like I think it's silly to assume that just because any given profession has more of one gender than the other that sexism must be afoot.
My point was not really about the validity of the standard. The system may have very well set its standards unnecessarily high. The point was to establish that our gender’s dimorphism has created different abilities. We are not equal in a biological sense, and that will lead to inequality in a social sense when ability plays a role. A man’s upper body is built for hand to hand combat which would give a man a physical advantage in things like MMA. If people want to watch the best MMA fighters, then they are more likely to watch male MMA fighters. If the best people get paid the most, then men will make more money based on just that. If pay goes to something else than ability, then that is different, but men will be the better fighters. I think you agree with this, but I wanted to be clear.
You were saying you didn't know people who advocate inequality. BM for example treats "the feminists" as a collective and then dismisses all opinions held by "feminists" due the craziest shit he's ever heard, or that one "radical feminist" who ended up in an asylum is representative of all who hold "feminist" opinions. If one has a viewpoint like that, it makes it extremely unlikely that one would ever entertain the notion that (respectively) inequality exists at all, and one probably will actively take up a contrary position to anything that opposes their belief.
True, and it might be the case for BM. I honestly don’t know enough about him to have an opinion, but your logic is reasonable.
Furthermore, many people hear a basic idea such as #BlackLivesMatter or "I believe in equal rights for women" and seemingly automatically take a contrary view such as "you're saving black lives matter so you must believe that white lives don't matter" or "you want women to have more rights so that must mean you want men to have less rights". The most innocent reason I can think of for this is that some people suck hard at logic, and that may play a part, however I think the more likely/common reason for it is that many people build up a view that they appreciate that the society they live in is reasonably fair and that they get along in life because they're reasonably fair with other people and play by the rules, and when something comes along to challenge their view of society, they react in a contrary manner (taking it personally because a criticism of the system that they are part of and implicitly condone is somehow a criticism of them), in a similar way to how difficult it is to be called out on your own problematic behaviour and to react to that criticism in a logical and mature way.
I disagree with you here. I personally am not a fan of BLM. I advocate for equal rights and distain racism, but I still do not like BLM. We live in a resource constrained world, and time most definitely is a resource. If people are choosing to promote the message that Black people need to have their issues resolved, it will mean that resourced should be directed to them and not others. I don’t have an issue with diversion of resources inherently, but it establishes the context of value. By promoting the idea that Black issues must be resolved, you inherently say that other issues are not as important, and/or have a misunderstanding of a resource constrained society. Further, our society has a nasty problem of focusing on one group, “fixing” their issue, which then leads to the idea that if the fix was not applied to others, then the others did not warrant the fix. We saw this with marriage recently.

Feel free to PM me if this is something you want to go deeper into, or maybe start a thread, because this is a big big issue and I left out a lot
Another example is what you mentioned about some people who want to redefine rape to include just about anything negative that ever occurred to them, it's very likely down to similar sorts of problems, like starting with a perception because of whatever reason, then only seeking out or taking seriously the material that agrees with that starting perception.
You know, there is a really simple explanation for this scenario: if team building was really easy then there wouldn't be billions paid to managers and consultants in all professions in order to promote it. A newly-formed team is very likely to perform less well than a team that has been managed properly for some time. It's also quite reasonable to assume that motivating a mixed-gender or all-female team might require different tactics than a typical all-male team. As the article says, they started experimenting with this last autumn, so people who are used to motivating men their entire careers are now being asked to do something new in a setting where an organisation has existed for shall we say centuries is now being asked to do it a bit differently, and they're expecting ideal results straight away? Hum.
If the issue were limited to motivation, then I would agree. A big factor for why the women were not able to keep up was physical ability.
Furthermore, having more diverse gender representation in other fields is known to be a benefit (for example, male primary school teachers in the UK are more sought after because they're in a minority and better gender representation is generally believed to result in a more chilled out staff room), why on earth it would be different in the military is anyone's guess, but coming back to my original point, people will argue based on really stupid stereotypes that women shouldn't be in the front line for reasons like "they're not as strong as men" - come on, when I was in my twenties, I could have trained hard enough to go for basic infantry, and my firearm skills were good enough even with minimal training, I could have become a basic soldier. There would always be men who were better with firearms or more physically capable than I, but I'm equally damn sure that there would be women around who could have achieved to a greater degree in the relevant fields than I could. Using a firearm does not require distinctly male traits; you have to carry it long distances and you have to be able to hold it steadily and look down the sight(s) the right way and keep calm while firing. I'm sure that you can think of several professions that require some or all of those traits (or something quite similar). Also, martial arts have quite a few established moves that involve using your opponent's strengths against them and using your own flexibility to your advantage. It would be just as bone-headed to argue that guys can't do the splits when some quite clearly can, or to try and train all guys to do the splits in the same way that women might be trained, and to assume that there's something inescapably inferior/unsuitable about guys who don't respond as well to the same training regimen that women might receive.
Women and their mental ability to withstand war is not an issue to me. I don’t see anything that would suggest it’s a problem. What I would say is that because women are not as physically strong as me, there is an issue there. The battlefield is changing, and in the future physical strength may not be as much of an issue or one at all. At this point in time, physical ability is still a major factor on the front line.
Two primary factors are associated with successful movement carrying heavy loads — lean body mass and peak oxygen uptake. Women scored lower in both areas. The men had an average of 20% body fat, compared with 24% among women. Women had an average of 10% lower peak oxygen uptake than men.
<raises eyebrow> "Not all", "I can think of some that aren't" = a valid beginning to your argument? I wouldn't be surprised that for say every five examples that are dressed sexy, one isn't. Would you say that this estimate is a reasonable one?
It’s possible, but I honestly cannot say what the ratio is.
Video gaming was a successful industry in its infancy even before the days of semi-realistic graphics that were good enough to start showing a bit of human form, the fact that everyone has been complaining about for ages is that the industry simply got lazy once it started finding game types and elements that were real money spinners. Diversity in gaming (and I'm not specifically talking about gender-related diversity) in general took a nose-dive after the birth of the FPS. The idea that games are mostly for males is all part and parcel of that, and while there will be a few prats who will complain that they don't want to control a character who is black or gay, the game makers stick to the idea that their audience always will be white males and one of the results of that is sexy female body armour.
I’m not huge into FPS, so yes it has been quite annoying to me personally. But, lets not forget.
just like I think it's silly to assume that just because any given profession has more of one gender than the other that sexism must be afoot.
My point was originally about peoples' attitudes towards these topics though, which is why I gave these examples. Take a look at the GG thread, or some Anita Sarkeesian threads on the AT forums. While I've agreed that some of her points have been inaccurate or off-base in my opinion, she has also made some pretty basic points that can't really be denied. There has been a serious bias in video game production (which may be steadily coming back around as video game makers discover that a bit more depth goes a long way), yet people like BM will deny that anything that AS has said has any merit whatsoever.
You say that as if saying there is bias, and that nothing should be done are mutually exclusive. Remember, the typical gamer is male. There have been shifting demographics as more women play games, and as the way we define gaming changes. It would be most logical to build a game that would appeal to men and their desires over women, because men are more likely to play games. AS has been saying that the fact that games cater to men is an inherent problem that I personally disagree with, not including many other things she has said.
Using the term 'shaming' suggests that you're trying to shape this discussion in the same way as you were talking about not encountering people who 'openly advocate inequality'. If examples of women portrayed in media are predominately a) white, b) good-looking, c) thin, d) dressed in an 'appealing' manner, that is clearly going to have an effect on how women feel that they want to fit in, how men are going to perceive women and what they're attracted to, and how women are treated (by other men and women) if they don't fit in to that implied concept of the ideal woman. If female characters in gaming generally fit the same criteria while adding a few more points to that (such as 'sexy female body armour'), that clearly is going to have an effect on gamers who consume such entertainment and also reduce the likelihood of female gamers getting involved.
Who am I to tell society what they should or should not find attractive? If people want to watch a sexy weather woman, then so be it. I address this at the end of my post.
Again, games are about fantasy and doing things you don’t do in real life for whatever reason. Why be an ugly out of shape person, when you can be a better looking avatar in a game?
As for characters being mainly white, that again has to do with the history of games. For a long time, it was mainly the western world that had the wealth to spend on things like video games. That demographic is mainly white. As global wealth has increased, you see more races being added to games. Hell, most of the MMOs I now play all have Asian looking characters. Now that the west is no longer the main consumer of games, you are seeing more race.
Thin is typically more healthy then not thin. Who, if given the choice, who would not choose to be thin? I don’t see a problem there.
Now, if your worry is that you think people won’t be able to achieve fantasy, then you are right. But, that is not mean we need to make characters less of anything. We don’t tell women they need to be less attractive so that others don’t feel bad about their level attractiveness. Its genetically impossible for me to have the body of Dwayne Johnson, but I have no problem with his appearance. If anything should be done, its that we need to help people accept that some people will be better than others.
While I agree with everything in this quote as far as it goes, it's what happens when there isn't a balance. If most of my taste in films were mostly about "boy things" and T&A, most of my friends would wonder what is wrong with me. I'm 35, not 15 and even for a teen that would be adhering to a pretty rigid stereotype, and while I liked placing TR games for hours at that age, I played plenty (probably mostly) of other stuff that didn't fall into that category.
Sure, but I bet you played games that allowed you to do or be something that you had no chance of doing in real life. You probably leaped buildings, defeated monsters, drove cars you could never afford, and had a body type that is impossible in real life. Do you think that its harmed you in any way being able to play out a fantasy that can probably never be a reality?
The biggest thing I think I disagree with in terms of modern feminism is this idea that fantasy hurts individuals because it impossible or almost impossible for most. This is life. I will never be as rich as Bill Gates. I won’t sleep with super models like Dicaprio. I won’t be a professional sports player. It seems like people used to understand this but that its been forgotten. It really feels like we are getting into the Harrison Bergeron world where we have to level the field so nobody feels left out.
 

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The point was to establish that our gender&#8217;s dimorphism has created different abilities. We are not equal in a biological sense, and that will lead to inequality in a social sense when ability plays a role.

While I agree with this, the original point of yours I was responding was that you were saying that you don't think people generally advocate gender inequality. I responded with various examples, and in this case how people automatically just say "women shouldn't be on the front line" and let forth a stream of reasons that don't really stand up to even minimal scrutiny.

My feeling on this particular point is that in life it happens a heck of a lot more often that not that one convinces ones self or someone else that they're not capable of doing something, 99 times out of 100 they're wrong. I'm not saying therefore anyone is capable of anything, just that most people have a habit of naysaying in some situations for a multitude of irrelevant reasons. I'm sure for example that you've convinced yourself that there's no point in trying to achieve x without any real evidence. What's generally true for ones self is bound to be more likely when one attempts to apply the same statement to groups of people; in the context of this particular topic there are and always will be some women who could kick a soldier's ass in many physical tests (including the ones used for determining whether a soldier is up to the required standards of their job).

I disagree with you here. I personally am not a fan of BLM. I advocate for equal rights and distain racism, but I still do not like BLM. We live in a resource constrained world, and time most definitely is a resource. If people are choosing to promote the message that Black people need to have their issues resolved, it will mean that resourced should be directed to them and not others. I don&#8217;t have an issue with diversion of resources inherently, but it establishes the context of value. By promoting the idea that Black issues must be resolved, you inherently say that other issues are not as important, and/or have a misunderstanding of a resource constrained society. Further, our society has a nasty problem of focusing on one group, &#8220;fixing&#8221; their issue, which then leads to the idea that if the fix was not applied to others, then the others did not warrant the fix. We saw this with marriage recently.
I don't really to go deeper into this, the response is quite simple - if one is going to campaign for something, one needs to choose something to campaign for. That focus means that other topics - possibly even more worthwhile ones - don't have that focus, but the alternative is that one does nothing because one simply cannot campaign for "let's fix every societal problem simultaneously".

No civil rights movement, no suffrage, nothing.

Women and their mental ability to withstand war is not an issue to me. I don&#8217;t see anything that would suggest it&#8217;s a problem.
I didn't even vaguely mention this...

You say that as if saying there is bias, and that nothing should be done are mutually exclusive.
Actually what I was saying was that a very common reaction is to deny that there is any bias; they can't even get over that hurdle. What to do about it comes afterwards. Again however I think that those with such an attitude make the sort of illogical assumptions about what acknowledging an issue actually could mean.

AS has been saying that the fact that games cater to men is an inherent problem that I personally disagree with, not including many other things she has said.
If that is something she's said, I would disagree with that statement as well, as I've said before, I don't agree with everything she has said.

Who am I to tell society what they should or should not find attractive?
This strays so far from the points I was making that I'm not even sure where to begin.

I haven't responded to the rest of your points on that particular topic as they're digressing somewhat from the point I was originally responding to, the fact that we disagree on certain points just gets deeper and deeper the further we go yet it doesn't really help to try and flesh all of those out.
 
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While I agree with this, the original point of yours I was responding was that you were saying that you don't think people generally advocate gender inequality. I responded with various examples, and in this case how people automatically just say "women shouldn't be on the front line" and let forth a stream of reasons that don't really stand up to even minimal scrutiny.

My feeling on this particular point is that in life it happens a heck of a lot more often that not that one convinces ones self or someone else that they're not capable of doing something, 99 times out of 100 they're wrong. I'm not saying therefore anyone is capable of anything, just that most people have a habit of naysaying in some situations for a multitude of irrelevant reasons. I'm sure for example that you've convinced yourself that there's no point in trying to achieve x without any real evidence. What's generally true for ones self is bound to be more likely when one attempts to apply the same statement to groups of people; in the context of this particular topic there are and always will be some women who could kick a soldier's ass in many physical tests (including the ones used for determining whether a soldier is up to the required standards of their job).

I don't really to go deeper into this, the response is quite simple - if one is going to campaign for something, one needs to choose something to campaign for. That focus means that other topics - possibly even more worthwhile ones - don't have that focus, but the alternative is that one does nothing because one simply cannot campaign for "let's fix every societal problem simultaneously".

No civil rights movement, no suffrage, nothing.

I didn't even vaguely mention this...

Actually what I was saying was that a very common reaction is to deny that there is any bias; they can't even get over that hurdle. What to do about it comes afterwards. Again however I think that those with such an attitude make the sort of illogical assumptions about what acknowledging an issue actually could mean.

If that is something she's said, I would disagree with that statement as well, as I've said before, I don't agree with everything she has said.

This strays so far from the points I was making that I'm not even sure where to begin.

I haven't responded to the rest of your points on that particular topic as they're digressing somewhat from the point I was originally responding to, the fact that we disagree on certain points just gets deeper and deeper the further we go yet it doesn't really help to try and flesh all of those out.

My women on the front line comment was in terms of how strong they are. I wanted to make sure I was clear that I was talking about physical and not mental strength.

For solving race issues, we have to pick and choose which we do first and which we do next, and which are not worth solving. Again, we live in a resource constrained world, so you should pick the thing that gives the most return. If you are using resources to solve a social issue, then you would want to go after the thing that gives you the largest fix relative to the investment, then go to the next. The context should be that we are as a society trying to solve our problems, and are doing 1 thing at a time. Many have said that BLM matter is a way of saying black lives matter too, but many examples have shown that large parts of the movement do not feel that way. Ill leave this be though because its very long.

I think people dont like the word bias, because it has a bias in its meaning:awe: All products and services have a bias, as they are catered to a group of function.

Our society can do some pretty dumb things. It can both help and hurt women and men in different areas. Our society can over invest in things like breast cancer, and under invest in Lung cancer.

Cancer (Deaths) N.C.I. Funding per Death
Lung (162,460) $1,630
Colon (55,170) $4,566
Breast (41,430) $13,452
Pancreas (32,300) $2,297
Prostate (27,350) $11,298

BM seems to touch on things I personally find to be a problem. I think the issues he raises are dismissed because of his perception. There is still inequality on our society that is not necessary and I would like to see that change. The problem is that when you say things like there is not really a gender pay gap issue, you get labeled as a misogynist even if you have data. There are real things effecting women, but its almost impossible to talk about.