For most cities we booked Marriot's, Sheratons, Hyatt's or Hilton's so it was one of those. Only a few cities we used alternate hotels like in Palm Springs, San Diego and NYC and maybe San Fran. I spent 4 days at most cities. Friday I got to each destination as early as I could purely so I could spend most of the day checking out the area. Besides checking in with the hotel event staff, making sure all my stuff arrived safely, getting a lay of the land, I had the day to myself. I was working Saturday all day and half of Sunday. So Saturday night was going out, and Sunday afternoon and evening too. I would fly out as late as possible Monday so I could have more time. West Coast cities I took Thursday night red-eyes so I could have my Friday there. I think only Orlando was a city I did not try to get to early nor leave late. Had no interest in spending an extra minute there. But every other city I went to with an open mind. There were other people working the event with me, we'd go out to dinner together as well, and sometimes I'd hang out with some of the locals that I hired to help with the event. I hired about 8-14 people on average per event to help with basic stuff. Obviously they were all locals.
So Atlanta I was in/near the downtown area at one of those major nicer chains. It was one of the few cities that I walked out of my nice hotel and walked many blocks and it felt and looked shitty. I gave you a list of the cities I went to, and Atlanta had one of the worst downtown areas I've ever seen. It was just uninviting and ugly and a turn off. Maybe it's gotten better. City's do have renaissances. NYC had one. I had no idea Atlanta was known for strip clubs. My goal was to get good food, check out sites, and maybe even meet a local girl and hook up, which happened about 1 in 4 trips. Usually with one of the local girls I hired to help us out. Now Baltimore I did a bunch of walking there too, and that got pretty shitty pretty fast too, but the harbor area, while small, was a really nice little oasis, so that was a redeeming quality.
At the time I was traveling, I was a far more optimistic and less jaded person about the state of the American public. I would say to the point of almost being naive. But I did go into every city with an excited attitude about exploring a new place, and no bias, wherever it was in the country. As I stated, Nashville was a fantastic place to visit, and that is also deep South. I don't remember too many specifics there just that we went to some great restaurants, walking along the river, checking out the strip, and just the overall ambience was very very nice. To me any of these cities was just a new adventure. I seized the opportunity to check out a new place.
A decade later, now that I am far more acutely aware of how shitty so many people are, and the simple fact is, the more in the South you are, the ratio of these shitty people to less shitty people is far higher than anywhere else in the country. Save maybe the Dakotas. And the further you get out of a city the faster the ratio gets worse and worse. So I have no mental problems, I am just more aware now and have more knowledge. Southern hospitality to me at this point is a joke now that I know what a majority of them think, feel and support.