The Financial Disasters That Comes With Divorce: Mortgage & Equity

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BarkingGhostar

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Sorry for the delay in response. Spent a week in the hospital, half of it unconscious. Missing about 48 hours of my memory (9th-11th). Not exactly sure what it takes to kill my heart but apparently I can alarm an ER and ICU class heart monitor every hour for two days straight and still survive. Chest xrays, brain CT, bouncing O2 stats and like that friggen Energizer rabbit I kept going.
 

brianmanahan

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wow what the heck happened?
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ultimatebob

Lifer
Jul 1, 2001
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So where did you stay downtown? Where did you go and what did you do? Did you visit Midtown? Virginia Highland? Little Five Points? Lenox Park Buckhead? I'm pretty sure answer to all my questions are NO. Like I said, you walked block or two after work near the hotel you were staying in and then went back up to your room and ordered room service and watched TV. Tell me I'm wrong. But I bet you I'm 100% correct. At minimum I would've visited The Cheetah or Pink Pony as a finale after spending the day/evening exploring and dining if I was in Atlanta for business. Atlanta is known for their strip clubs or used to be back in the day. That's why business people loved coming to Atlanta for conventions.


You really do have mental problem and should seek professional help.

If there is one thing that I learned from this thread, it's that Ponyo has an obsession with titty bars!

I guess that it's cheaper to rent titties than to buy access to them with Hermes scarves?
 

highland145

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Oct 12, 2009
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If there is one thing that I learned from this thread, it's that Ponyo has an obsession with titty bars!

I guess that it's cheaper to rent titties than to buy access to them with Hermes scarves?
It's new titties vs the same titties. The new ones don't take half of your $. The old ones do.
 

ponyo

Lifer
Feb 14, 2002
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If there is one thing that I learned from this thread, it's that Ponyo has an obsession with titty bars!

I guess that it's cheaper to rent titties than to buy access to them with Hermes scarves?
I got that stuff out of my system when I was young and before I married.

This is where I blow all my money now. Bought more Hermes and Louis Vuitton bags and purses for wife while vacationing in Cancun, Mexico.

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ultimatebob

Lifer
Jul 1, 2001
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Wow... I bet that you would have bought a lot of lap dances for the cost of that haul!

(Not that I can afford either one... that Dogecoin investment hasn't gone according to plan!)
 
Nov 8, 2012
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Always amazed me how women managed to turn a handbag into an expensive fashion statement.

Wife has so many bags and zippered bags that go into larger bags, etc. Why?!

It's also funny because they get jealous that I can carry my keys, wallet, and phone in my pocket. Little do they know... They can do it too! ;)
 

highland145

Lifer
Oct 12, 2009
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Always amazed me how women managed to turn a handbag into an expensive fashion statement.

Wife has so many bags and zippered bags that go into larger bags, etc. Why?!

It's also funny because they get jealous that I can carry my keys, wallet, and phone in my pocket. Little do they know... They can do it too! ;)
Men...Mars
Women...Venus
All others..Uranus
 
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shortylickens

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Jul 15, 2003
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Am genuinely sorry for your troubles but we need to put something in perspective:


I have NEVER been in love.


So, yeah.
 
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Muse

Lifer
Jul 11, 2001
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Am genuinely sorry for your troubles but we need to put something in perspective:


I have NEVER been in love.


So, yeah.
I'm not sure I have, so maybe not? At least two women claimed to be in love with me, however. More actually, but I had to believe the other two, well at least one! I've known some very interesting women!

Uh, be careful with love, it can make you or break you. Like Neil Young said, try to be sure from the start.
 

BarkingGhostar

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Yeah shit went south meds wise. When the wife announced the divorce I stopped my daily routine, which was Super Coffee in the morning with my meds and then no coffee (ever since). I was taking maybe 1/3 of my meds and on the Friday she found me six drinks in 90 minutes plus one little mother fucking Ambien and that's all she wrote. I was about 20 hours in sleep deficit which I usually am and make up for it on Friday and Saturday afternoons but I guess the alcohol-Ambien trip my BP and obstructive sleep apnea to a rollercoastering event that the hospital had trouble getting back under control. Nothing like waking up with two days of your conscious life missing and two arms full of needles, and a chest wired up for telemetry.

I have sense changed my routine to evenings for the meds and boss moving me to sunshine shift to get a better sleep routine. Next is another sleep apnea test to get a CPAP(?) machine (old data too old for script). Just waiting on the bills to come in. Oh, no COVID. Been vaccinated since March-April but they also tested me, too.
 

ultimatebob

Lifer
Jul 1, 2001
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Always amazed me how women managed to turn a handbag into an expensive fashion statement.

Wife has so many bags and zippered bags that go into larger bags, etc. Why?!

It's also funny because they get jealous that I can carry my keys, wallet, and phone in my pocket. Little do they know... They can do it too! ;)

They need a place to stash their 15 tubes of lip gloss :)
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
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Always amazed me how women managed to turn a handbag into an expensive fashion statement.

Wife has so many bags and zippered bags that go into larger bags, etc. Why?!

It's also funny because they get jealous that I can carry my keys, wallet, and phone in my pocket. Little do they know... They can do it too! ;)
The majority of women's pockets can't hold a phone...
 

Torn Mind

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Nov 25, 2012
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Always amazed me how women managed to turn a handbag into an expensive fashion statement.

Wife has so many bags and zippered bags that go into larger bags, etc. Why?!

It's also funny because they get jealous that I can carry my keys, wallet, and phone in my pocket. Little do they know... They can do it too! ;)
In the world of social warfare, it's a form of "diplomacy". As in, "I got a fucking Gucci bitch, so I'm better endowed then you."
 
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Nov 8, 2012
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I realize I know a lot more about it than you do :)

Not really, I have the same closet as the wife - I realize ALL their pockets are tiny to the point of not even holding a credit card. It's still a choice based on the market. They want their clothes tight, which means not enough space for pockets. It's still a choice.
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
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Not really, I have the same closet as the wife - I realize ALL their pockets are tiny to the point of not even holding a credit card. It's still a choice based on the market. They want their clothes tight, which means not enough space for pockets. It's still a choice.
Yes, I still know a lot more about the issue than you do. You having seen your wife's clothes doesn't alter that.
 

Captante

Lifer
Oct 20, 2003
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I got that stuff out of my system when I was young and before I married.

This is where I blow all my money now. Bought more Hermes and Louis Vuitton bags and purses for wife while vacationing in Cancun, Mexico.

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Sorry not buying it. ;)

*(don't worry ... just keep the payments coming & I won't email your wife the evidence I've created ... erm ... accumulated I mean!)