Teacher / Student getting caught mega thread

Page 5 - Seeking answers? Join the AnandTech community: where nearly half-a-million members share solutions and discuss the latest tech.

whm1974

Diamond Member
Jul 24, 2016
9,436
1,571
126
More like social media has made it that much easier to get caught when the kids don't know how to keep their mouths shut.
Consider how good looking some of these women are, I''m not sure I would turn one down if she offer it to me when I was a High School teenager. Back then I couldn't get a date with any of the girls my age, Hell most of them wouldn't even talk to me.
 

JEDI

Lifer
Sep 25, 2001
29,391
2,738
126
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...29-arrested-having-sex-14-year-old-pupil.html

A former Oklahoma school secretary has been arrested after police say she engaged in a sexual relationship with a now 14-year-old student.

Elizabeth Madrid, 29, was arrested on Friday after police brought nine charges of second-degree child rape and 21 counts of performing lewd acts with a child against her.

Bethany Police say the former attendance secretary at Western Oaks Elementary School began engaging with the alleged victim in early 2017 over text message.

10681230-6780357-image-a-29_1551929197334.jpg


46667553_1946264118791084_7075384288543244288_o.jpg
elementary school?!
damn.. where was this when i was in the 6th grade :(
 

JEDI

Lifer
Sep 25, 2001
29,391
2,738
126
There's something really fucking wrong with you if you believe having sex with a 12 year old is cool.
dude have u seen what she looks like?
i wouldn't have minded her at 6th grade.
so no, i dont if i was the lucky guy
 

whm1974

Diamond Member
Jul 24, 2016
9,436
1,571
126
dude have u seen what she looks like?
i wouldn't have minded her at 6th grade.
so no, i dont if i was the lucky guy
And at 29 she about old enough to be your mother. You should be ashamed of yourself.
 

whm1974

Diamond Member
Jul 24, 2016
9,436
1,571
126
6th grade is far too young. Once they start being able to drive it becomes a little more murky.
Well it was a 16 y/o having relations with an older female who is not in a position of authority over him, then I wouldn't find that to be upsetting depending on just how much older said female is. Old enough to be his mother or close to it? Well I find that to be rather disgusting and both of them should be ashamed of themselves.
 

UglyCasanova

Lifer
Mar 25, 2001
19,275
1,361
126
Well it was a 16 y/o having relations with an older female who is not in a position of authority over him, then I wouldn't find that to be upsetting depending on just how much older said female is. Old enough to be his mother or close to it? Well I find that to be rather disgusting and both of them should be ashamed of themselves.


I agree it’s disgusting but not sure how I feel about jailtime.
 

Luna1968

Golden Member
Mar 9, 2019
1,205
687
136
if this many male teachers were raping female students there would be hearing in congress, all the network would be running stories on it. but because its women raping little kids this issue is not getting the attention it deserves. this crap is out of control.
 

clamum

Lifer
Feb 13, 2003
26,256
406
126
Jeez. Can't these frickin women keep it in their pants? How little self-control do you have, that you have to fuck 16 year old students that are a decade or two below you in age?
 

ibex333

Diamond Member
Mar 26, 2005
4,094
123
106
It's kind of hilarious how the law system defines things... They call it "rape" or "sexual assault". That's ridiculous. These boys were in 7th heaven. I'd give just about anything to be 14-15 again and do what they did. At least 90% of all men would.

It cant be rape or assault if there was consent, and there sure as hell was consent. I mean... Have you seen some of these girls? They are smoking hot!
 

whm1974

Diamond Member
Jul 24, 2016
9,436
1,571
126
It's kind of hilarious how the law system defines things... They call it "rape" or "sexual assault". That's ridiculous. These boys were in 7th heaven. I'd give just about anything to be 14-15 again and do what they did. At least 90% of all men would.

It cant be rape or assault if there was consent, and there sure as hell was consent. I mean... Have you seen some of these girls? They are smoking hot!
Keep in mind that these Women were in a position of Authority over these Teens. And what is worse, a few were also old enough to be their students mothers.
 

ibex333

Diamond Member
Mar 26, 2005
4,094
123
106
Keep in mind that these Women were in a position of Authority over these Teens. And what is worse, a few were also old enough to be their students mothers.


What authority? The kids today have ZERO respect for authority. Don't tell me you're so naive as to think kids look up at their teachers for examples of virtues such as integrity, honor, etc. Nothing could be further from the truth.
When I was 10-11 years old in 6th grade, we had this hoodlum kid who was a bully and a thug in the making already at such a young age. I am pretty sure he ended up seriously hurting someone or himself later on in life. Anyway... I remember how he was forcibly trying to hug and grab our teacher who was about 21-25 at the time. She found it cute/funny, and just laughed and laughed. She would say "stop" off course, but she was never very firm about it. I wouldn't be surprised if he slept with her and no one even knew.

In all of my years of school, I only maybe met 4-5 teachers who I respected as human beings. Male or female.The rest was just fluff... dust in the wind.
 

whm1974

Diamond Member
Jul 24, 2016
9,436
1,571
126
and that would have made a difference to the male teen's decision to bang her because?
I just saying because she was his Teacher this shouldn't be allowed and their is the factor of her favoring him over other students by giving him better grades then he deserves.
 

pcgeek11

Lifer
Jun 12, 2005
22,387
5,003
136
It cant be rape or assault if there was consent, and there sure as hell was consent. I mean... Have you seen some of these girls? They are smoking hot!

So if your 14 or 15 year old daughter consents to sex with a 30 year old male teacher it would be OK with you?
 

destrekor

Lifer
Nov 18, 2005
28,799
359
126
With my devil's advocate hat on, I present the following: Something to consider when these instances are with adults under 30, they may just be developmentally delayed in a specific way. Your prefrontal cortex continues to mature into the mid 20s on average, the last portion of the brain to mature and this has serious implications for decision making skills. And for any who engaged with drugs heavily and early (to include alcohol), this could actively slow if not stop further development in this crucial region.

But this is why we generally still make some really stupid decisions early in our adult lives, and some of them leave people seeming like they never matured past high school.

Not that this should cause much change in how we judge and punish criminal acts, but just food for thought.
 

ctbaars

Golden Member
Nov 4, 2009
1,565
160
106
With my devil's advocate hat on, I present the following: Something to consider when these instances are with adults under 30, they may just be developmentally delayed in a specific way. Your prefrontal cortex continues to mature into the mid 20s on average, the last portion of the brain to mature and this has serious implications for decision making skills. And for any who engaged with drugs heavily and early (to include alcohol), this could actively slow if not stop further development in this crucial region.

But this is why we generally still make some really stupid decisions early in our adult lives, and some of them leave people seeming like they never matured past high school.

Not that this should cause much change in how we judge and punish criminal acts, but just food for thought.
This is why pot should be illegal.
 

destrekor

Lifer
Nov 18, 2005
28,799
359
126
This is why pot should be illegal.

Yeah how about no?

Now if you advocated for a 25 year old limit on marijuana, I could probably stand by that. With sufficient argument I could stand by 18 and/or 21 year old limits as well

...because pot being illegal kept teenagers from smoking weed? IIRC, it was commonly found that teenagers would have an easier time getting marijuana than alcohol.

Yeah this whole prohibition thing is laughable. Anyone who truly wants it can basically get it easily, at any age. It's more easily portable too. There's only so much room in a book bag for bottles and cans, it's basically one order lol. Weed (or any drug other than alcohol for that matter) can be carried in large quantities to hit customer. :D


On the topic of age and brain maturity, ctbaars expresses an important concern. Which is why I wouldn't totally be against a 25 year old age limit/requirement, because there have been studies demonstrating the actual effect of heavy use as a teenager linked to developmental issues in the prefrontal cortex. Now such issues are not a product wholly of cannabis origin only, at least I don't presume that to be the case, and much research is ongoing or in development stages.

But there are so many variables to consider, some not being of a medical origin: there is diet to be considered, especially considering seafood is the leading source of the crucial omega 3s that we otherwise won't find elsewhere often; natural behavioral tendencies; and a question of which begets which, an issue with brain development and neurotransmitter activity that causes one to seek out addicting behaviors? Or is it that the addictive behaviors cause decision making to spiral out of whack? A non-medical consideration is environment, as through different toxins to include lead, it's observed that there are significant mental health concerns in the offspring of those exposed -- of which there were plenty thanks to leaded gasoline engine exhaust which resulted in lead contaminating the soil and ground for a generation. However environmental toxins still ultimately tend to lead to the route where mental health issues leads the sufferer to drugs which then may lead to further behavioral issues.

You have to be 25 to rent a car -- there's obviously research behind that, and I'll bet much of that research overlaps with behaviors originating in a still-maturing brain.
 
  • Like
Reactions: ctbaars

whm1974

Diamond Member
Jul 24, 2016
9,436
1,571
126
Good grief it sure seems that using Cell Phones are a good way for teachers to get caught. She couldn't find an 18 y/o to mess around with?