I know your Dad.(not literally) I bet he considers himself a self-made man ?
Even though he had a government job for 23 years and then a job with a union owned company ?
I'm a man. I know how men think. Men who would join the Tea Party are in denial about why they're successful. It's a man thing, to think they've done it all themselves, and therefore anyone who doesn't is a "free loader".
But for most people, it's not true. We benefit from being part of a society, and we should stop attacking an important aspect of that society, government, and instead cherish and nurture it.
And honor the people who make it work. Like your Dad.