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TridenT

Lifer
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You aren't confident. You're completely insecure about your looks.

And shens on them saying they hate you because you're ugly. You must be going after the slutty whores if you're really getting that kind of response.

I'm not insecure about my looks. I realize what I am, where I stand, and why ladies don't find me attractive. It's because I am physically unattractive.

No shens.
 

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Lifer
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But that's what you are doing, being complacent and not trying to do anything to better yourself. That's why everyone considers you a complete failure.

But I thought all I needed was confidence?

You're digging a deep hole where you have to refute what you already have said! Face it. I'm ugly, and the fact is... unless I become not-ugly (not possible) then I won't get any from the ones I want to get some from. It's not a confidence issue because I am perfectly confident about who I am and what I can get with who I am.
 

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Lifer
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Confidence isn't about definitions or wordplay, confidence is about going out and seizing what you want, realizing that the world isn't going to hand you anything, and finally taking control of your life in a meaningful way.

You do none of these. You have no confidence.

lol, that's not confidence. If you want to use a new word besides confidence for your wild dictation then go for it, but that's not confidence.
 

TridenT

Lifer
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I have read many of your posts where you have said this, or basically the same thing about how your looks are holding you back from meeting women, and how your entire life sucks because of things beyond your control.

My 18 year old son looks remarkably like you (minus the bag of frootloops) and he is beating off women with a stick because of his personality and confidence. Two weeks ago we we came home unexpectedly and interrupted him just before he bed a very good looking girl that he had only met a couple of days before.

His secret .. he is a great guy, with a tremendous personality and knows how to talk to people. We were always worried that he would be bullied at school because he is short, skinny and a little wierd looking, but it never happened because everyone at school liked him. The geeks, the jocks, the popular kids all like him.

He has taken everything positive in his life and overcome the negatives.

Take a lesson.

Shens.

Post pics of your son. And a sign saying, "For TridenT on ATOT" with a current date on it in the same picture.

We'll also need a current newspaper or something similar to prove it's really him. Maybe him in front of the computer with my post in the background.
 

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Lifer
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lol. you need proof that confidence gets people laid?

ROFL

you sir are a gem.

I need proof that only and only confidence gets people laid with pretty women.

Now if the guy with the son who looks like me can prove his son looks like me and is just as hideous AND shows the tail he actually scores with AND it's official.... then maybe his son has a charming personality or a big wallet.

And this kid must have gone to a nice school because every school I went to I was picked on even though I never did anything to anyone. (Kept to myself usually) Mostly because I was short, thin, and a glutton for punishment.
 

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Lifer
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I'm not insecure about my looks. I realize what I am, where I stand, and why ladies don't find me attractive. It's because I am physically unattractive.

No shens.

There's more to attraction than physical looks. I don't know why I of all people (never having been with a girl) need to tell you this! I've seen people a lot uglier than you with some pretty cute girls.
 

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Lifer
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There's more to attraction than physical looks. I don't know why I of all people (never having been with a girl) need to tell you this! I've seen people a lot uglier than you with some pretty cute girls.

You're a man.

If Mosh, and just about every other female ATOTer, (Cough, we're not even including all the girls I've met in real life) says I am ugly. I am ugly. Looks matter a lot to the girls I want.
 

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Lifer
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You're a man.

If Mosh, and just about every other female ATOTer, (Cough, we're not even including all the girls I've met in real life) says I am ugly. I am ugly. Looks matter a lot to the girls I want.

*Sigh* you still don't get it. There ARE A.R.E girls out there who look good who would not be put off by you if it weren't for your attitude. I know you don't believe it but it's a 100% certainty with the number of couples I've seen that don't look like they should go together!
 

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I think we need to see pics of the girls trident is going after. He is probably going after uggos and still getting turned down. Weren't you supposed to show pics of one of em. Wasn't there a weight lifting bet too whatever happened with that.
 

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Lifer
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I think we need to see pics of the girls trident is going after. He is probably going after uggos and still getting turned down. Weren't you supposed to show pics of one of em. Wasn't there a weight lifting bet too whatever happened with that.

Thread was locked by admins. All things were off after that.
 

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Lifer
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*Sigh* you still don't get it. There ARE A.R.E girls out there who look good who would not be put off by you if it weren't for your attitude. I know you don't believe it but it's a 100% certainty with the number of couples I've seen that don't look like they should go together!

so rare that it's illogical to say that they are common enough to where I can meet one.

What you think is pretty I probably don't.

I aim for the stars and then some.
 

Capt Caveman

Lifer
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You're a man.

If Mosh, and just about every other female ATOTer, (Cough, we're not even including all the girls I've met in real life) says I am ugly. I am ugly. Looks matter a lot to the girls I want.

And that's your problem dumbass, leave your basement and walk around campus or town, you'll see uglier guys than with attractive women.

Not only do you lack any kind of confidence, you lack a personality.
 

Capt Caveman

Lifer
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But I thought all I needed was confidence?

You're digging a deep hole where you have to refute what you already have said! Face it. I'm ugly, and the fact is... unless I become not-ugly (not possible) then I won't get any from the ones I want to get some from. It's not a confidence issue because I am perfectly confident about who I am and what I can get with who I am.

Please give me an example of something that you have confidence in? Not including being confident that you'll always be a pathetic virgin living in your parents basement.
 

coxmaster

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Would a confident person initiate a 5 page long thread about how sorry he feels for himself?
 

TridenT

Lifer
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Please give me an example of something that you have confidence in? Not including being confident that you'll always be a pathetic virgin living in your parents basement.

What does that have to do with your premise? Nothing. You're avoiding what I said.

You said A) You're ugly. That's your real problem.

Now you say, B) You lack confidence.

Which is it.
 

coxmaster

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Confident people do whatever they want. AMIRITE?

Tis true. I'll give you that one..

Honestly I dont think you are as bad of a kid as everyone here sees you as, although I do think you do some stupid shit, and post some stupid shit
 

TridenT

Lifer
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That's exactly what I'm wondering. I'm willing to be the ATOT experimenter and meet him in person. I'm female too, so if there's serious gender-related awkwardness, it'd show up loud and clear.

Anyone have a video camera they want to loan me?

:awe:

Do you live in Portland then?