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Speechless. I cannot believe this happened to my friend... wow....

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tcsenter

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Scammed every penny from the family?? That part wasn't in your OP details. How did she scam all their money from them?
 

JEDI

Lifer
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Cliffs:
-My friend is a regular nice guy like the ones you have
-He marries a girl during his visit in India
-They date and get married after both families meet
-Things go well, lots of couple trips, pictures, memories, etc.
-She bails and vanishes completely once she obtained her green card
-My friend is fucked up the ass, so is his poor family

was he at least having sex w/her during those 4 yrs?

and how is his family fucked?
 

Mo0o

Lifer
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Sounds like this is a case for court if she tries to sue for alimony.
 

DaWhim

Lifer
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get her greed card revoke first so they will deport her ass.

thankfully, no kids yet.
 

amdhunter

Lifer
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Hahahaha, typical Indian story. This is why I keep saying the bitch needs to pay me first. And I want like $100k and sex on the side.
 
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My guess is your friend is probably not too good with the ladies which is why he would even consider bringing home a woman from a foreign country.
My other guess is that the woman is probably really attractive and under normal circumstances would be out of your friends league.

It would take a fool not to see this coming a mile away. An attractive foreign woman all of a sudden in love with your geeky friend and leaving once she got what she wanted.
 

Zeze

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was he at least having sex w/her during those 4 yrs?

and how is his family fucked?

Yeah, she sold her soul for the green card. Sex, trips, playing the daughter-in-law, the whole nine yards.

Damages are not always measured by money. The family put a great deal of emotional investment in her. Vick's mom called her almost daily just to check up on her and see if Vick was treating her well.

Man, that's just fucking rotten to the core.
 

PhoKingGuy

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This works the other way around too, a very good friend of mines best friend was in a long term relationship with a grad student from India. They had been dating about 4 years and had just gotten engaged. He told her he was going to India to tell his parents about proposing to her.

Trash sent her an email from India saying he was getting married there and couldn't see her anymore. Never spoke to her ever again, needless to say she was pretty fucked up for awhile after that.
 

mjrpes3

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Only way to get back is the post her pic and relevant info every on the internet, along with translation into all hindi dialects.
 

Perknose

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My guess is your friend is probably not too good with the ladies which is why he would even consider bringing home a woman from a foreign country.
My other guess is that the woman is probably really attractive and under normal circumstances would be out of your friends league.

It would take a fool not to see this coming a mile away. An attractive foreign woman all of a sudden in love with your geeky friend and leaving once she got what she wanted.

Neither of these are necessarily the case. Tradition and intense family pressure are what leads to a lot of these arranged marriages.

The woman doesn't have to be out of the guy's league physically to be a green card scheming dirt bag . . . or . . . trapped by her own family pressures into going through with the arranged marriage with an eye to getting to America and subsequently ditching the marriage and the pressures of her family.
 

deanx0r

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lol, you'd be surprised how much I am asked to get someone their green card. It's the only time family ever talks to me.
But didn't you recently complain on how you couldn't even get a girlfriend when some obese dude fused to a chair could?