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waggy

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quasarsky dont worry about it. whiel you screwed up so did tflinch2.

but the mob effect (and tflinch is better known) of ATOT is against you. regardless of what exactly is going on. Once a few poeple start saying you are wrong the flow of post are usually fallowing.

You both fvcked up. you for not waiting a day or so and Tflinch for threatning a retalitary negitive. Personally i wouldnt want to deal with either of you. You because you act to fast without thinking and for Tflinch for threatning a negitive. I would be worried about him giving a negitive when he gets one when he deserves it.

 

The Batt?sai

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Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
Originally posted by: malcontent
Originally posted by: quasarsky
Originally posted by: sandmanwake
By the way, quasarsky, what's the deal with your trade with 4rebeccac on ebay?

its self explanatory. everything is there if u go and look again.

And there it is.

"You won 2 auctions on the same day, didn't pay for mine and leave me a negative
Seller 4rebeccac ( 13765) May-13-04 14:35 2796476854

Reply by chrisgoku7m: Had a personal emergency and couldn't pay for both,msworld tried to bm me w/NPB May-13-04 21:10

Rating Mutually Withdrawn: Buyer and seller mutually agreed to withdraw feedback for this item. "


HTF did that work? chrisgoku wins an auction, doesn't pay and then leaves the other party a negative feedback?

sounds like something this impatient fool would do.



bingo idiot. he gave me a npb first. but i guess you didn't feel like wading through his thousands of feedbacks to check that out. just makes it more convenient for u to make me look like an ass if u don't. and i wasn't able to pay for either auction that day. NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT MY EMERGENCY WAS EITHER

You won 2 auctions on the same day, didn't pay for mine and leave me a negative
Seller 4rebeccac ( 13766) May-13-04 14:35 2796476854
Reply by chrisgoku7m: Had a personal emergency and couldn't pay for both,msworld tried to bm me w/NPB May-13-04 21:10
Rating Mutually Withdrawn: Buyer and seller mutually agreed to withdraw feedback for this item. Learn more. Jun-02-04 13:27

Had a personal emergency and could not buy, seller didn't cancel, +gave me a NPB
Buyer chrisgoku7m ( 27) May-13-04 13:06 2796476854
Rating Mutually Withdrawn: Buyer and seller mutually agreed to withdraw feedback for this item. Learn more. Jun-02-04 13:27






not the first time for this ebay seller either

I DIDN'T GET ANSWER TO MY QUESTIONS AND CAN'T PAY FOR ITEMS I WON
Buyer klein1234ski ( 6 ) May-23-04 02:29 3095405338
Rating Mutually Withdrawn: Buyer and seller mutually agreed to withdraw feedback for this item. Learn more. Aug-04-04 14:51

 

tfinch2

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Originally posted by: waggy
quasarsky dont worry about it. whiel you screwed up so did tflinch2.

but the mob effect (and tflinch is better known) of ATOT is against you. regardless of what exactly is going on. Once a few poeple start saying you are wrong the flow of post are usually fallowing.

You both fvcked up. you for not waiting a day or so and Tflinch for threatning a retalitary negitive. Personally i wouldnt want to deal with either of you. You because you act to fast without thinking and for Tflinch for threatning a negitive. I would be worried about him giving a negitive when he gets one when he deserves it.

So you're saying I deserved a negative?
 

waggy

No Lifer
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Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: waggy
quasarsky dont worry about it. whiel you screwed up so did tflinch2.

but the mob effect (and tflinch is better known) of ATOT is against you. regardless of what exactly is going on. Once a few poeple start saying you are wrong the flow of post are usually fallowing.

You both fvcked up. you for not waiting a day or so and Tflinch for threatning a retalitary negitive. Personally i wouldnt want to deal with either of you. You because you act to fast without thinking and for Tflinch for threatning a negitive. I would be worried about him giving a negitive when he gets one when he deserves it.

So you're saying I deserved a negative?


guess i was not clear enough for you. i will try to make it easyer to understand hold on and let me get my 3 yr old to make sure.

I never said you deserve a negitive. I said i wouldnt deal with you because i would be worried about a getting a negitive in retalation from you when (if) you got a negitive from me.


 

newParadigm

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Originally posted by: quasarsky
yeah he may have had any number of things to do but he got off cause he was pissed i mean he said 'when was i going to tell him it didn't work'.

as as for dragoon42, its private messages for a reason? well it stops being private when someone is trying to say i'm a horrible trader. i never said tfinch2 was so he shouldn't have tried to make me out to be one. he lost all rights to pm's privacy.

and no i'm not mad about it. he wanted a feedback so i gave him one. i put thought into it and if i didn't, i would have left him a negative. that would have been hot tempered of me.

Hey dumbshit the Dragoon was refferring to PMs being slower than IM's, not less more private. Man, u really are a dipshit.


Originally posted by: sm8000
He didn't name your name.

And thats true too, he was quiet about how it was, until u came in here like a raging bafoon. He DIDN'T make ur name public, so STFU!!!
 

newParadigm

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Originally posted by: quasarsky
Originally posted by: L1FE
Originally posted by: quasarsky
Originally posted by: L1FE
What time was tfinch2's question relative to your original message saying it was broken. Considering he took the initiative to ask about the trade in the first place, it would seem logical that he wanted to make sure everything was ok. Just because you PM someone doesn't mean you stay online breathlessly waiting for a reply. That's what instant messages are for. Considering the time it took you to even bring up the fact that it was broken, how can you be so impatient to give him feedback in like half an hour. That would definitely make me never want to trade with you.

if i was a good trader i would check the private messages until it was resolved, or at least tell the person i have to get with them at a later time give contact info/etc etc. some people on here take trading seriously, and try to make sure the trade goes good. don't blast me cause i do.

I'm blasting you because you are impatient and have unrealistic expectations of other people. Maybe he wasn't expecting you to PM him back so quickly since PMs != IMs. Unless I was absolutely positive the other person was just chillin' waiting to respond to everything I wrote, I would feel no obligation to just sit in front of my computer. Instant messages are different since there is a set expectation that you respond immediately. Even aside from that, your unwillingness to see the other person's point of view and your one sided blame game makes me really not want to deal with you anyway.



oh yea? i didn't make this thread. i'm not into playing any blame game. tfinch2 made this public and there was no reason too. i left him a neutral, not a negative.

we say so much heat is better than ebay because we at anandtech and other sites take the time to leave proper heat.

its funny when i tried to do that i still get bit in the ass.

all i was trying to do was leave accurate heat. nothing else.

More pwnage of ur ass right here. TFinch was asking ATOT for advice regarding the Situation, he as already said, he didn't name your name. YOU named ur name.
 

waggy

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Originally posted by: newParadigm
Originally posted by: sm8000
He didn't name your name.

And thats true too, he was quiet about how it was, until u came in here like a raging bafoon. He DIDN'T make ur name public, so STFU!!!

right but he gave it to others via PM. wich is also a silly thing to do.

but then again if some werent lazy it wouldnt have been hard to find out eh?
 

suse920

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Hypocrisy at its best. I would be fine if you got a retalitory negative and welcome to my dnt list.
 

PlatinumGold

Lifer
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Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: newParadigm
Originally posted by: sm8000
He didn't name your name.

And thats true too, he was quiet about how it was, until u came in here like a raging bafoon. He DIDN'T make ur name public, so STFU!!!

right but he gave it to others via PM. wich is also a silly thing to do.

but then again if some werent lazy it wouldnt have been hard to find out eh?

AFAIC as soon as quasarsky posted heat, it was public domain. wtf does he think, TFinch2 would keep private what he himself had made public by posting in heat?

:roll:
 

KarenMarie

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Originally posted by: quasarsky
i didn't test it until u sent the pm. i just got back from my trip i took to see my friend in northern va, and my mind is kinda on my car cause i think my lil brother didn't change my transmission fluid right and its probably ruined.

i was going to leave u a positive but i could tell you weren't going to be helpful about it when u signed off really fast, which showed me you weren't going to be responsive to my problem. thats when i called canon and wrote up my neutral.


Question: item is broken. why should i have to wait a whole day to get a response back? its not like he shipped first and is waiting on my payment. why should he have to be responsive. ? he's got the money, and by the way!

he shipped the scanner in its orignal retail box. no extra packaging, he stuck the shipping label on teh outside of the scanner retail box!!! i didn't know u could ship stuff like that. yeah there was styrofoam inside the scanner box and what not, but would have packed it better! put the box the scanner came inside anotehr box. with peanuts. there's a reason sites like newegg ship retail stuff inside a box even when the retail has its own padding! if the scanner is broken thats probably why. if u want to see a photo of the box and u don't believe me thats fine. i'll send it.

i wasn't in a rush to check the scanner cause i was packing for my trip and just got back, (seeing finch's high heat i wasn't worried about it being broken) and saw tfinch's pm, on when i was going to leave heat. well i have to check the scanner before i leave heat right? i mean i checked the box to make sure everything was in it but didnt plug it in until his pm today.

You got pissed and left a neutral because he signed off within minutes... you wanted him to sit in front of the computer... waiting for your PM.

Yet, you did not wait in front of your door for the package to arrive, were not even home when it was. You then waited ... how long...???.... to test it and never said a word until he asked you.

You did not give ANY of the consideration in promptness that you demanded from Finch2, and gave him a neutral... because you did not wait a few hours after making him wait for days... hahaha... that is priceless.

You made him wait for days... the claimed to read his mind on why he did not sit and wait for your PM, deemed him to be negligent and left him a neutral.

Priceless.

I would guess that the neutral is gonna be removed. And you are now top of the list on just about everyone's DNT list.
 

tfinch2

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Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: waggy
quasarsky dont worry about it. whiel you screwed up so did tflinch2.

but the mob effect (and tflinch is better known) of ATOT is against you. regardless of what exactly is going on. Once a few poeple start saying you are wrong the flow of post are usually fallowing.

You both fvcked up. you for not waiting a day or so and Tflinch for threatning a retalitary negitive. Personally i wouldnt want to deal with either of you. You because you act to fast without thinking and for Tflinch for threatning a negitive. I would be worried about him giving a negitive when he gets one when he deserves it.

So you're saying I deserved a negative?


guess i was not clear enough for you. i will try to make it easyer to understand hold on and let me get my 3 yr old to make sure.

I never said you deserve a negitive. I said i wouldnt deal with you because i would be worried about a getting a negitive in retalation from you when (if) you got a negitive from me.

You should ask your 3 yr old how to spell easier and negative as well
 

The Batt?sai

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u know perhaps this is a little off topic but something i'm curious about. see rossMAN post, he has almost 60,000 posts, and his thing says Grand Nagus. i didn't think there was something past 'lifer' for the number of posts one has. so where does anandtech keep a list of what name u get for how many posts? ebay has one for their star feedback system, by different color stars. i wanna know what kind of # of messages posted names i'll get as i keep posting.

prediction: i think someone will use what i said about names and posting against me. just a hunch lol :D
 

waggy

No Lifer
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Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: waggy
quasarsky dont worry about it. whiel you screwed up so did tflinch2.

but the mob effect (and tflinch is better known) of ATOT is against you. regardless of what exactly is going on. Once a few poeple start saying you are wrong the flow of post are usually fallowing.

You both fvcked up. you for not waiting a day or so and Tflinch for threatning a retalitary negitive. Personally i wouldnt want to deal with either of you. You because you act to fast without thinking and for Tflinch for threatning a negitive. I would be worried about him giving a negitive when he gets one when he deserves it.

So you're saying I deserved a negative?


guess i was not clear enough for you. i will try to make it easyer to understand hold on and let me get my 3 yr old to make sure.

I never said you deserve a negitive. I said i wouldnt deal with you because i would be worried about a getting a negitive in retalation from you when (if) you got a negitive from me.

You should ask your 3 yr old how to spell easier and negative as well

yeap but at least she would understand it the first time. i don't have to dumb stuff down for her. So she has us both beat eh?
 

randumb

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you both need to grow up. quasarsky is in the wrong, but tfinch2 should have dealt with this in private.
 

KarenMarie

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Originally posted by: quasarsky
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
Originally posted by: malcontent
Originally posted by: quasarsky
Originally posted by: sandmanwake
By the way, quasarsky, what's the deal with your trade with 4rebeccac on ebay?

its self explanatory. everything is there if u go and look again.

And there it is.

"You won 2 auctions on the same day, didn't pay for mine and leave me a negative
Seller 4rebeccac ( 13765) May-13-04 14:35 2796476854

Reply by chrisgoku7m: Had a personal emergency and couldn't pay for both,msworld tried to bm me w/NPB May-13-04 21:10

Rating Mutually Withdrawn: Buyer and seller mutually agreed to withdraw feedback for this item. "


HTF did that work? chrisgoku wins an auction, doesn't pay and then leaves the other party a negative feedback?

sounds like something this impatient fool would do.



bingo idiot. he gave me a npb first. but i guess you didn't feel like wading through his thousands of feedbacks to check that out. just makes it more convenient for u to make me look like an ass if u don't. and i wasn't able to pay for either auction that day. NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT MY EMERGENCY WAS EITHER

You won 2 auctions on the same day, didn't pay for mine and leave me a negative
Seller 4rebeccac ( 13766) May-13-04 14:35 2796476854
Reply by chrisgoku7m: Had a personal emergency and couldn't pay for both,msworld tried to bm me w/NPB May-13-04 21:10
Rating Mutually Withdrawn: Buyer and seller mutually agreed to withdraw feedback for this item. Learn more. Jun-02-04 13:27

Had a personal emergency and could not buy, seller didn't cancel, +gave me a NPB
Buyer chrisgoku7m ( 27) May-13-04 13:06 2796476854
Rating Mutually Withdrawn: Buyer and seller mutually agreed to withdraw feedback for this item. Learn more. Jun-02-04 13:27






not the first time for this ebay seller either

I DIDN'T GET ANSWER TO MY QUESTIONS AND CAN'T PAY FOR ITEMS I WON
Buyer klein1234ski ( 6 ) May-23-04 02:29 3095405338
Rating Mutually Withdrawn: Buyer and seller mutually agreed to withdraw feedback for this item. Learn more. Aug-04-04 14:51

Just curious.... how old are you?
 

PlatinumGold

Lifer
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Originally posted by: randumb
you both need to grow up. quasarsky is in the wrong, but tfinch2 should have dealt with this in private.

he should have dealt with his PUBLIC heat eval in PRIVATE??

:roll:

hey, once it's in heat it's fair game. that's why it is prudent and intelligent to try and work things our PRIVATELY BEFORE POSTING PUBLIC HEAT.

 

tfinch2

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Originally posted by: randumb
you both need to grow up. quasarsky is in the wrong, but tfinch2 should have dealt with this in private.

Like others have said, once he posted public heat, this is no longer a private matter.
 

The Batt?sai

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Jan 18, 2005
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Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: waggy
quasarsky dont worry about it. whiel you screwed up so did tflinch2.

but the mob effect (and tflinch is better known) of ATOT is against you. regardless of what exactly is going on. Once a few poeple start saying you are wrong the flow of post are usually fallowing.

You both fvcked up. you for not waiting a day or so and Tflinch for threatning a retalitary negitive. Personally i wouldnt want to deal with either of you. You because you act to fast without thinking and for Tflinch for threatning a negitive. I would be worried about him giving a negitive when he gets one when he deserves it.

So you're saying I deserved a negative?


guess i was not clear enough for you. i will try to make it easyer to understand hold on and let me get my 3 yr old to make sure.

I never said you deserve a negitive. I said i wouldnt deal with you because i would be worried about a getting a negitive in retalation from you when (if) you got a negitive from me.

You should ask your 3 yr old how to spell easier and negative as well

only as long as you promise to use proper punctation lol. no i'm not being a hypocrite (there's lots of stuff here i've posted with no caps, u instead of you, etc). i'm only showing how silly you are LOL :thumbsup:

 

BigJ

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I wouldn't mind seeing quasarsky banned from FS/FT.

People who do not know how to deal with others when buying and selling should not use the service AT provides, period.
 

tfinch2

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Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: waggy
quasarsky dont worry about it. whiel you screwed up so did tflinch2.

but the mob effect (and tflinch is better known) of ATOT is against you. regardless of what exactly is going on. Once a few poeple start saying you are wrong the flow of post are usually fallowing.

You both fvcked up. you for not waiting a day or so and Tflinch for threatning a retalitary negitive. Personally i wouldnt want to deal with either of you. You because you act to fast without thinking and for Tflinch for threatning a negitive. I would be worried about him giving a negitive when he gets one when he deserves it.

So you're saying I deserved a negative?


guess i was not clear enough for you. i will try to make it easyer to understand hold on and let me get my 3 yr old to make sure.

I never said you deserve a negitive. I said i wouldnt deal with you because i would be worried about a getting a negitive in retalation from you when (if) you got a negitive from me.

You should ask your 3 yr old how to spell easier and negative as well

yeap but at least she would understand it the first time. i don't have to dumb stuff down for her. So she has us both beat eh?

yeap I guess so...

Man I felt like a redneck when I sounded that out.
 

PlatinumGold

Lifer
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Originally posted by: BigJ
I wouldn't mind seeing quasarsky banned from FS/FT.

People who do not know how to deal with others when buying and selling should not use the service AT provides, period.

agreed.
 

KarenMarie

Elite Member
Sep 20, 2003
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Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
Originally posted by: BigJ
I wouldn't mind seeing quasarsky banned from FS/FT.

People who do not know how to deal with others when buying and selling should not use the service AT provides, period.

agreed.

seconded.

not only because of the reason listed above... but because even after having pointed out all these times, he refuses to get it.
 

waggy

No Lifer
Dec 14, 2000
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Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
Originally posted by: BigJ
I wouldn't mind seeing quasarsky banned from FS/FT.

People who do not know how to deal with others when buying and selling should not use the service AT provides, period.

agreed.

oh i agree. i wouldn't deal with him or tflinch2.

But you want to ban quarsarsky over not having Patience (and leaving a neutral) but want to give a free ride ot tflicnh2 for threatening a negative?

they both are in the wrong. Quarsasky for going off half cocked and tflinch for threatening a negative when a neutral is enough.
 

Viper GTS

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Oct 13, 1999
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OK I skimmed the first 1/3 of this crap & I've reached the conclusion that quasarsky is a tool.

Even one day would be WAY too early to start bitching about someone not replying. Less than one day is beyond absurd, you should really be ashamed of yourself.

Viper GTS
 

Injury

Lifer
Jul 19, 2004
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Originally posted by: Mike

IMO tfinch2 is jumping the gun just like quasarsky did. He doesn't need the approval of ATOT to have the neutral heat removed. He just needs to talk with Heat23 and get it figured out.


Yeah, but I'm much happier knowing quasarkalsrlakyjalkyjyyy is a PITA to deal with, which only threads like these reveal.

quasarsky: If you aren't going to give a guy the chance to fix the sitution, then you don't have the right to complain about it. What incentive does he have to help you if you're already given him heat?

Additionally, I think you need to learn that PMs aren't meant to be responded to immediately. If you need to chat with someone, ask for their phone number or IM name.