PricklyPete
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I applaud that, but I wouldn't go on the trip as it will only put on the pressure. Wait till you have engaged in the "act" or at least sleep together regularly before you start with the trips.
I applaud that, but I wouldn't go on the trip as it will only put on the pressure. Wait till you have engaged in the "act" or at least sleep together regularly before you start with the trips.
Originally posted by: Spac3d
Not everyone is a slut like you.
i was just gonna say that...if my GF did "the act" with each person she dated for 2 months or more, damn...that would suck for me.
Well, i don't think it'll add extra pressure if you don't want it to. If she seems ready, then you know there is no problem on her part, but if you don't feel ready, then maybe you aren't ready. There has to be a reason you are having a doubt. If you think you are secure in your realtionship and feeings, and it appears she is as well, then there is no reason you cna't have a good time tgether.
Go somewhere fun, where if things start to get weird, you can do something outside the room, yet if you want to go back to your room, it's not a problem
Go somewhere fun, where if things start to get weird, you can do something outside the room, yet if you want to go back to your room, it's not a problem
iamwiz82
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- Jan 10, 2001
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Originally posted by: wasssup
Originally posted by: Spac3d
Not everyone is a slut like you.
i was just gonna say that...if my GF did "the act" with each person she dated for 2 months or more, damn...that would suck for me.
just for reference, what is the correct time to be dating before having sex, since you both are obviously the rule makers in this arena
The first month, if you think she's worth keeping.
If you are not sure, then she's not. You'll know the moment you see her.
If you are not sure, then she's not. You'll know the moment you see her.
Is it just me or the last time I didn't wine have a percentage of alcohol in it?
set her up with some iced tea....some long island iced tea
set her up with some iced tea....some long island iced tea
That isn't what I am saying. Just because he hasn't had sex with her doesn't mean anything is wrong. Everyone moves at their own pace. Everyone is different. That is all I am saying.Originally posted by: iamwiz82
Originally posted by: wasssup
Originally posted by: Spac3d
Not everyone is a slut like you.
i was just gonna say that...if my GF did "the act" with each person she dated for 2 months or more, damn...that would suck for me.
just for reference, what is the correct time to be dating before having sex, since you both are obviously the rule makers in this arena
I would evaluate how long you want to be with her. If it's a short term fling, then don't go; if it's someone you could see yourself with for a while, then go. you could use the alone time.
as for the comments about not having sex yet, i've been with my gf for about 2 months now also and we haven't had sex either. we don't want to rush into it. it'll happen when it happens, when the time is right. the first time isn't going to be in the back of my car or anything like that, which is really the only time we're truly alone(she lives with her sister and 2 nephews).
as for the comments about not having sex yet, i've been with my gf for about 2 months now also and we haven't had sex either. we don't want to rush into it. it'll happen when it happens, when the time is right. the first time isn't going to be in the back of my car or anything like that, which is really the only time we're truly alone(she lives with her sister and 2 nephews).
sure......
She never drank before so I think wine will go easier with dinner than other hard drinks.
yes it will, actually, it will only enhance the dinner more! If she has never really drank before(which you said), go with a fruity blush wine, or white wine, unless you are getting steak or beef, then go with a sweet, but not too dry red.
Originally posted by: Zombie
sure......
She never drank before so I think wine will go easier with dinner than other hard drinks.
Wine is STILL stronger than beer.
Yep, if you're both 18 or older and you've been together 2 months, sure, take a weekend trip.
Thumper and I did that about 6 weeks after we started dating, we drove from Dallas down to Galivastan for the weekend...
: ) Hopper
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