So when to take a first overnight trip with GF?

Zombie

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Well we had a stupid argument a week ago but everythings seems to fine now. I have been going out with her for couple months but we haven't really done "The act" yet(different work schedules are a big problem). Anyway we have been talking about taking a small weekend getaway together. I am just not sure if it is a good idea just yet. I don't really have any other doubts in mind about the relationship or anything but just wondering if this will put on any extra pressure.

Any thoughts?

Oh I also need to learn some things about wine. I have never been a wine drinker except occational dinner where somebody would help me out with the selection but now I would like to learn. GF won't drink beer or alcohol :confused:.

Any thoughts?

thanks.
 

Looney

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Should ask her what wine she prefers or likes. As for the trip, why? 2 months together, you should be just fine.
 

Zombie

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Yes, I know its alcohol but she does not mind wine or atleast is not as opposed to wine as she is to regular liquor.

Don't know what has age got to do with it but me 26 and she 25.
 

theNEOone

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Originally posted by: Zombie
Yes, I know its alcohol but she does not mind wine or atleast is not as opposed to wine as she is to regular liquor.

Don't know what has age got to do with it but me 26 and she 25.


well it has alot to do with it. if you're 15, it'll be a few months before either parents allow their kids to go on a weekend trip, but if you're 25 then i'd say a few weeks is all it takes.


25 and been dating a few months, but no sex and no trips? something's not right here.
 

blackdogdeek

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Originally posted by: Zombie


Oh I also need to learn some things about wine. I have never been a wine drinker except occational dinner where somebody would help me out with the selection but now I would like to learn. GF won't drink beer or alcohol :confused:.

Any thoughts?

thanks.


it's going to sound corny but wine for dummies is a really good introductory reference about wine, imo. also, 2 months should be good to go away for the weekend. enjoy!
 

MacGaven

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You've been going out with her for a couple of months and still no play? Well, I'm sure she solved that problem on her own without you.
 

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me and my ex (feels so strange saying that ex word.. ) took an overnight trip on our.. 8-9th month?

one advice: no matter how much you try to resist, the temptation of spending the whole night just getting physical rather than making memories is far too overwhelming. Keep that in mind. You'll realize how true it is when you two find yourselves in the hotel room, ALONE, for the FIRST TIME, with absolutely NO DISTRACTIONS.

hehe
 

Zombie

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Will look in to that wine for dummies book.

As far as other comments go about no sex so far part you have to keep in mind that both of us have really bad work schedule. Thus the weekend trip.



me and my ex (feels so strange saying that ex word.. ) took an overnight trip on our.. 8-9th month?

one advice: no matter how much you try to resist, the temptation of spending the whole night just getting physical rather than making memories is far too overwhelming. Keep that in mind. You'll realize how true it is when you two find yourselves in the hotel room, ALONE, for the FIRST TIME, with absolutely NO DISTRACTIONS.

Yep thought about that too I think both of us understand that we need some alone time(sex will be nice but not a requirement).
 

wnied

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Your asking girlfriend advice on a tech board...

Dont procreate.
~wnied~
 

vi edit

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Planned sex = BAD sex.

It's all about the impulsive sex.
 

notfred

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Originally posted by: Zombie
As far as other comments go about no sex so far part you have to keep in mind that both of us have really bad work schedule.

That really doesn't make any sense. If you have time to see her at all, you have time to have sex. If you don't ever have time to see her at all, you can hardly say you've been going out with her.
 

PricklyPete

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In all honesty, I would do the "act" before you go on a trip together. Trips are not fun when there are conflicts of interest...you don' t want the trip to put that kind of pressure on you. I don't know about this "different work schedules". I don't care if the world was ending... I'd find the time.
 

stockjock

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Ok..if she likes a white wine get a Sauvignon Blanc. If she likes reds go with a nice Merlot.
Don't get a chablis or rose...bleh!!!!!!!!!! and white zinfindel...double bleh!!
Just doing my part to enrich our lives in the way of wines
 

Zombie

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We see each other couple times a week that turns out more like dinner date or just hanging out and talking. Lets not get distracted by the fact that I have been going out with her for couple months and there is no sex involved. I am not going to rush that part as much as I would want to.

Once again looking for thoughts on 2 things..

a) We have been talking about taking a small weekend getaway together. I am just not sure if it is a good idea just yet. I don't really have any other doubts in mind about the relationship or anything but just wondering if this will put on any extra pressure.

b)Oh I also need to learn some things about wine. I have never been a wine drinker except occational dinner where somebody would help me out with the selection but now I would like to learn.
 

edro

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Sorry dude..... we can't give advice until the :camera:'s have been listed. :D

Any Turning Leaf Reserve is pretty good (as far as wine goes).
 

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Originally posted by: theNEOone
Originally posted by: Zombie
Yes, I know its alcohol but she does not mind wine or atleast is not as opposed to wine as she is to regular liquor.

Don't know what has age got to do with it but me 26 and she 25.


well it has alot to do with it. if you're 15, it'll be a few months before either parents allow their kids to go on a weekend trip, but if you're 25 then i'd say a few weeks is all it takes.


25 and been dating a few months, but no sex and no trips? something's not right here.
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