You guys are lucky... I grew up without my dad around because he was put in re-educational camp by the commies. Then he was released and we were able to bring him over here. I thought it would be great to have a family reunion after years apart. It turned out to be just the opposite. He ended up turning my life upside down and drove me nuts with his selfishness and laziness. I had to sell my house just so I don't have to live with him.
Every year after that I had to force myself to celebrate father's day. Did this because I have a kid and I don't want my son to disrespect my dad. His selfishness finally gets to me this year. He is not getting a thing from me from now on. I finally realize that my son does not need that kind of grandpa. ;<
As for me, my son wants to buy me a bear. It is very sweet of him. However, I only ask that he be a good kid.
