So my 25 year old friend is dating a 16 year old

[otispunkmeyer]

its strange yeah, but its not totally out of the ordinary specially where i live.

i mean she's 16, and where i come from thats the legal age. (not that it matters where i live....... theres always a plethora of underaged mums, some not even 15 years old)

i dunno what the legal age is where you are though, but if its 16 then technically theres nothing wrong with it. her parents will probably think otherwise, less they dont care

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Shlong
Idiot, call the Police.

i didn'tknow dating was illegal? i thought it was having sex that made it illegal?

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Shlong
Idiot, call the Police.

i didn'tknow dating was illegal? i thought it was having sex that made it illegal?

one thing inevitably leads to the other.

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

Originally posted by: MetalMat
My buddy broke up with his gf last year, and was always telling me and my gf that he was lonely and wanted a gf. Now is is dating a 16 year old girl and they are "in love". I think he is just taking what he can get personally, but he thinks that dating someone still in high school is ok. Anybody else find this wrong?

JAIL BAIT...!! :roll:

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: DaiShan

Originally posted by: aidanjm
so many prudes and snitches in this thread. very disappointing.

?? Bro if you are 25 and you need to pick up 16 year old girls I would be doing you a FAVOR by turning you in. Seriously grow a set and meet girls closer to your own age.

Oh bullsh!t...
if she was over 18 and he was 35 NOONE here would have a problem with it.
Age is NOTHING... once youre of the age of consent everthing is fair..
who are you people to say a damned thing...

what about me? Im 34 and I have been dating val who is 41.. and whats wrong with that?

yall need to get over yourselves about whats right and wrong... age gaps are not wrong.. hitting it before she can legally say yes or no thats another issue..

 

[j00fek]

this is bad, call the cops

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

Personally I feel if you are dealing with a child who is underage and the law in your state says that it is a minor then you are breaking the law by dating or fraternizing/ or even romancing with a minor in this capacity. Having sex with a minor is a big no no... plain and simple.

Now as far as the subject of age gaps with adults where it is legal and consentual that is entirely a different matter. It is nobody's business, and no one has a right to judge anyone. If a girl or guy is of the legal age of 18 or 19 and chooses to have a relationship with someone who is 10, 20, 30, or 40 years their senior then more power to them. They may have in their own way found someone that they have a connection with. Despite the age difference. Everybody is different and relates to people differently. I have dated men in the past who were as much as 30 years older than me and were wonderful people who I truly enjoyed.

Variety is the spice of life!

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: j00fek
this is bad, call the cops

and say what? if hes not having Intimate relations with her theres nothing wrong... if the parents have an issue with it they need to speak up.. otherwise people needs to back off.

dating is not illegal.. sex below age of consent is... and you would have to prove that..

and in some states 16 is the age of consent...

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: j00fek
this is bad, call the cops

and say what? if hes not having Intimate relations with her theres nothing wrong... if the parents have an issue with it they need to speak up.. otherwise people needs to back off.

dating is not illegal.. sex below age of consent is... and you would have to prove that..

and in some states 16 is the age of consent...

yes, there are some states where 16 is the legal age limit, and alot depends on the parents and their permission to in these type cases.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i just don't see what they would have in common...totally different places in life

yup.


age of consent is 16 in most states...what do her parents say??

 

[ValkyrieofHouston]

List of states and legal age limits for consensual sex http://www.actwin.com/eatonohio/gay/consent.htm

 

[Accipiter22]

p.s. if this were any era in time other than the past 35 years or so, this wouldn't even warrant notice. it'd be normal

 

[quakefiend420]

Originally posted by: shimsham
That's what I love about these high school girls, man. I get older, they stay the same age.

:laugh:

 

[quakefiend420]

i'm surprised this thread has made it this far and noone has said "your 'friend', sure..."

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
p.s. if this were any era in time other than the past 35 years or so, this wouldn't even warrant notice. it'd be normal

absolutely

 

[maziwanka]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
p.s. if this were any era in time other than the past 35 years or so, this wouldn't even warrant notice. it'd be normal

absolutely

does that make this better? this is the dumbest reasoning i've read in the entire thread.

i don't think this warrants calling the cops (esp. since statutory rape is a massive offense), but this is definitely not right (as I would never, ever date anyone that young - i would explode from the lack of maturity)...

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: maziwanka

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
p.s. if this were any era in time other than the past 35 years or so, this wouldn't even warrant notice. it'd be normal

absolutely

does that make this better? this is the dumbest reasoning i've read in the entire thread.

i don't think this warrants calling the cops (esp. since statutory rape is a massive offense), but this is definitely not right (as I would never, ever date anyone that young - i would explode from the lack of maturity)...

well as we have stated and posted above it depends on the state.. most states it is legal for them to have a full relationship at 16 some have stipulations on the age gap though...

what makes this wrong to you if its legal where they live?

the age gap is nothing...
and for you to generalize all people that age having lack of maturity shows ignorance..
Ive met and delt with 16-19 year olds that have more maturity levels than some 30 year olds... its all about how you are raised and how fast you are forced to grow up..

 

[Toasthead]

if it was my daughter he was dating I would kill him and bury him in a shallow grave.

 

[NanoStuff]

It's fine, I suggest you mind your own business. She's old enough to make her own choices.

 

[hysperion]

Originally posted by: aidanjm
so many prudes and snitches in this thread. very disappointing.

a child is being taken advantage of.........definately not being a prude or snitch.....

 

[hysperion]

Originally posted by: aidanjm

Originally posted by: tranceport
If he's banging her...that should land him with a sex offenders mark and a little time in jail.

people like you have turned your nation into the international joke it is now

international joke huh? ya, the most powerful nation in the world is a joke.......guess who's currency you guys use to buy your oil? Yep- ours.......We trade you our paper for your product because you need our paper to buy your oil....funny huh? Sucker......

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: quakefiend420
i just don't see what they would have in common...totally different places in life

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: Aimster
If it is legal .. well. ...

older men date younger girls that young because they have more control and feel in control. They have flaws that other women will spot but 16 year old girls will miss.

COMPLETELY agree

 

[Keego]

That should be illegal

 

[Koing]

Would it be okay if she was 18? Shes an adult then.

Koing