Originally posted by: Journer
ok, what you all are saying makes sense. just stuff i've never known.
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Hi Journer! I'd like to make a few suggestions, if I may, that would probably help you reach your goals. Mostly since I used to be a lot like you
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- Do your best to be stronger than the self-consciousness of it all. In the end, all it takes is feeling good about yourself to go from dreading the workout schedule to relishing in it. Being the opposite (very skinny and very weak) it took me a LONG time to get to the gym and start lifting. And boy, I agree that it is tough to bench 65 lbs next to guys pushing 150 lbs. It took a bad breakup to realize that I didn't really give a shit as long as I was happy with the improvements.
So ask people at the gym for pointers, if they give you a dirty look then just try someone else, or ask an employee to show you the ropes. In a couple months you'll look back and grin at how silly it was to feel so uncomfortable at the gym.
- Look for results. It's a lot harder to notice improvements without some baseline data, so take a few pictures of yourself now. Even if you don't want to look at them now, stick them in some folder and take a few more every few months. It's amazing how your brain can forget about what you looked like, but self-image improvement is probably the best motivator there is. See the pics in the "Dullard gets into Shape" thread for what I mean.
- Live, breath and eat protein! It's a very healthy, low calorie, high energy food. My roommate just got diagnosed with Type I diabetes a couple months ago so I've been learning all about nutrition. For diabetics protein is nearly a "free" food since it has almost no carbohydrates that spike blood sugar levels. As I understand, the more consistent you keep your blood sugar levels, the less fat is stored. Make sure you're eating lean proteins like chicken, turkey and fish.
- Finally, there's a lot of hard work in keeping your diet healthy and productive. When you say you don't have time, is there a way for you to change your daily routines to accommodate a better diet? "eating should aways be fun and tasty as far as i'm concerned" ...It seems like anyone can always make excuses to
not improve your diet. Would it be possible to take whatever you buy for lunch, and eat half at noon and then the rest at 3? Can you eat a banana or apple for breakfast? Can you replace some of those carbs with cheap protein sources, like eggs and tuna, or even chicken?
What I found is that the dietary changes almost immediately gave me more day-to-day energy, better sleep patterns, and actually made me want to get off the couch and do something. In essence, a good workout makes you crave food that replenishes that energy, i.e. proteins and complex carbs, and a healthy diet gives you enough energy to want to hit the gym and get some of that excess energy out of your system. They go hand in hand.
I hope this helps.