ok, what you all are saying makes sense. just stuff i've never known.
as far as the diet: it sucks, because honestly, in a normal day, i have no time for breakfast, about 20-30mins to prepare and eat lunch, and if i'm not eating out with friends then that is the only time i can really prepare something healthy. money is also a bit of a factor. raman and rice are cheap as hell. and for the previous poster, i'm sorry, but i cannot bring myself to eat brown rice. i know it is better, but i freaking hate it. i've tried washing it, adding seasonings, etc. i just can't stand it. i would like to try more seafood but it is usually a bit more time consuming to prepare, more expensive, and in general just more difficult. i hate it when meals are not fun, eating should aways be fun and tasty as far as i'm concerned. but i could prolly whip up some chicken quickly like a previous poster said. do you guys recommend any sites on cooking quick, healthy, meals. I'm not a good cook but i can bam things up a little bit and if i know what to buy i can make it.as of now...i've been making the following modifications to my diet:
1) minimalistic sodas and sugar drinks
2) reduce sweet foods to just one dessert per week (a friend of mine does this)
3) try to eat less i suppose, straches, like mashed potatoes, fries, and bread (maybe ill have to go with bun-less burgers :cry; )
anything else you guys recommend that is easy to cut out?
as far as the exercising. i liked the previous posters comments about body workouts like sit ups and whatnot. now, ill be honest, i'm too damn fat to do a pull-up, i dont think i could do one. lol. but i can do push-ups if i have something to hold my feet down. i'll be honest, the main reason i hate lifting weights is because it is impossible to lift weights without a bunch of people around you. I like to exercise alone. I hate it when people run with me at the park, swim together, anything. I just dont like it. it is more of a time where i like to be by myself. I'm also not willing to spend money on weights, so thats kind of out of the questions. My university has a nice ass workout complex but you go in there and everyone in there is buff and knows how to use the equipment. It is kind of discouraging. I have not fucking clue how to use any of it and know nothing about workout ethics (towels, sweat, weight placement, etc.) My apartment complex supposedly has a workout room but i think it is just a treadmill and maybe a spinning bike. I could join a gym and have one of those trainers help, but i dont have the time or money, and it just isnt a big enough deal. So, that being said, is there anything i can do at the park or somewhere by myself? I kind of like the idea of wearing weights while running and what not as i used to do this back in the day when i played soccer, but i don't know if that helps build muscle.
btw, thanks for the help everyone