ponyo
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- Feb 14, 2002
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You're comparing it now vs unknown. You've no idea how your life would've turned out if you moved out to California 20 years ago. I don't know anything about your career or finance but my guess is you've benefited financially from the move. It's almost always better to work/live in higher cost of living area during your working years. You get paid more and real estate which makes up bulk of normal American net worth appreciates substantially more. Other than housing, cost of living is not that much higher in CA vs IN. It's not like car or TV you buy cost more in CA than in IN. But you would had opportunity career wise unavailable to you in IN. If you had hooked up with any of the FAANG companies and received stock options, you would've killed it. Or any of the numerous other tech companies with nice stock options.It's a beautiful state. I still wouldn't live there. I had the chance to transfer out there about 20 years ago and also around the same time, a friend moved out there and he and his wife begged me to move out there and were trying to entice me by hooking me up with her friends, but I couldn't do it. It just isn't worth the premium to me. We make enough to live comfortably in California but here in Indiana, we make a fortune relatively speaking. I work for a national company and work remotely from Indiana and my salary is competitive nationally rather than just in the midwest, so I have it pretty good.
