Originally posted by: CripplerCrossface
What about living in an apartment? You can move into a non-ghetto-school-district and not have to buy a house.
yeah sure. ive said at least two times that there was hardly enough money to pay the rent and utilities. I consider it a miracle that my mom took care of me and my siblings in this neighborhood and kept us off the streets. and i of course know that we dont have to live in a house. but when the house was purchased i had two parents and now i have one. someone making $5 above min. wage simply CANNOT live in the suburbs. (i just know someone is gonna be anal and pick that apart)the average apartment costs like $600 a month where i am at. in the burbs its like $1000. $10 x 40 hrs = $400/wk, $1600/mo. take tax out and u have about $1200 after taxes and insurance. add a little car payment in there and bam thats all the money. it would have been close to impossible in my situation to have lived in the suburbs. its not just some excuse.
What's wrong w/ that? My little sister had my hand-me-downs. That's how my parents saved money.
I got cracked on enough because i was smarter than everyone else. I wouldn't add to the trauma of my childhood. It hurts when u have 20 people yell "bobos!!!, bobos!!" I got my black ass up and bought some air force ones with my hustle.
My mother wasnt like other parents that thinks its cute to buy little tims and iversons and dress them up similar to them. I didnt even have any name-brand clothing until my junior year of hs. And i had a job then. in a black neighborhood to not floss and not be "down" with everyone else is a tramatic experience for most.
How many generations have your family lived in the U.S. before it took you to figure that out. I know it sounds harsh, but blacks have been in America for a looooong time. I'm not saying your parents didn't care, but all I see are excuses.
1. blacks have been here for a long time but we havent been granted the same oppotunities. and keep in mind the word is "parent". my mother gave all she could so we could get what we had. if my parents had stayed together i would have been in such a screwed up situation but hey, things happen. and keep in mind this is a family that actually cares.