I wanted to add something about the whole 'making fun of the handicapped' thing that if ADHD/etc were forced to be labeled publicly and in different classes they'd be made fun of.
It's hard to say what the public's perception of them would be....I don't see them as one that would have much to make fun of, but who knows. It's true if they had to be grouped with other 'special' students that may open up the floodgates to more insult.
However, again that is life. Even as an adult people pick on others due to handicaps. In college there was a black, deaf girl taking Computer Engineering....she did well....she was allowed to record lectures always, and many professors had a recording ban.
People made fun of her, it's something that happens....these were mostly upper classmen (21+ in age) yet acted like 1st graders. She was mostly outcast in groups.
Again I am sure she wishes she was not born a certain way...however that's not going to change her current status.
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