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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Brings up an interesting point...
I've got an ADHD daughter, life's going to be sort of difficult for her, why not give her a little break while she's in school? Or is it good for her to feel like an utter failure because she'd only earn D's & F's in school?
Life tends to use the same yardstick to measure everyone, what does it matter if seh takes 1/2 hour to complete a standardized test? It's not like she's going to be competing for a high paying job with anyone.
This is not just a bash at you....however it won't be what you'd like to hear. It's not an attack on you or your family.
First I will assume the ADHD diagnosis is a proper one, doctors are quick to say a kid has it and get them on 1 of several pills they get paid will to 'recommend'. I witness a lot of normal kid behavior and a lot more impatient parents...some of the things I hear parents say to kids is ridiculous and terrible. Some of the acquantances I know will mentions things like "my kids are too hyper, I need to get them on Ritalin...honey we should see about that...I don't think they are normal" This is all said as the kids run around free reign...no one telling them no, or stop that, or anything...just they aren't normal let's drug them so we don't have to deal with it. I am not saying you did this....I am just saying that is a typical situation.
Second...it's really not about making them feel an utter failure....it's not also about making them feel they are 'normal'...the facts are a lot of these ADHD kids are using the system to give them an advantage and yes, compete and take those high-paying jobs. ADHD does not show up on anything you apply for a job with, nor does the fact that for every A you have you got second-chances and more time. Sad fact of life is some have one arm, some are blind, some can't hear, some can't even remember their names.....they're each on different levels, but the sad truth is they are handicapped and can never compete with a double armed, sighted, hearing, smart kid at certain things and at others could even learn to excel. Another sad part is the ADHD kid comes very close to being totally normal, yet falls short....but unlike the kid that knows he can't remember his name, they know they can do just about anything if given more time to think. On that same note, the normal kid too can usually do better if given more time. The time just raises the bar and the ADHD kid basically gets to dictate their head start.
It's sort of upsetting if you have multiple kids to say you need to go to this school or take this 'special' class to this one. Also perhaps they may get lumped into the same group as the kids with more obvious problems (the drooling, barely coherent kids...that can at least learn somethings and if anything enjoy the stimulation school brings.).....
There just is only so many tax dollars....however ADHD is a large minority of children now at all age groups. Perhaps there can be a classroom for them, it would take a special teacher capable of multiple subjects and they probably wouldn't change classes like the other kids. Things like gym, perhaps musics, etc could allow the ADHD kids to mingle in....but again there shouldn't be a special classification for them.
When I was a kid there were kids that just didn't get picked until the very end every time....I still know some of those....some made lives quite well for themselves and others are doing ok, but still sort of that last picked kid. For the most part they all seem to accept their lives and appeared happy. Nowadays there is even-odd selection....a kid may be on that 'winning' team alot, however in real life they will find out their is no winning team for them and instead of accepting what's normal they now have the damage of knowing what they are missing.
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Originally posted by: etech
I hope none of you that are joking about this situation ever have a child with a disibility. I really hope you never have to try to comfort your daughter who is crying her eyes out because the other normal kids are making fun of her for being stupid. God, I hope you don't have to do that.
It would change your minds and you perhaps wouldn't even think it is a joking matter but I hope you don't have to go throuh it.
Originally posted by: etech
There are many more disabilites than just ADHD.
If tests in college are only about knowledge, then everyone should be able to take an untimed test. The time allowed is as big a part of the test as the questions asked. Especially when you get into situations where the tests are designed so that you cannot answer every question in the given timeOriginally posted by: digitalsm
Unless you plan on repealing the Americans With Disabilities Act(ADA), it is the law... Theres really no debating it. There are certain people with certain disabilities, that should get more time. Tests in college are to test your knowledge, not your quickness.
Originally posted by: Kilrsat
If tests in college are only about knowledge, then everyone should be able to take an untimed test. The time allowed is as big a part of the test as the questions asked. Especially when you get into situations where the tests are designed so that you cannot answer every question in the given time
Originally posted by: Vic
No, ADHD is bullsh!t. And I've even been diagnosed with it several times, first time when I was a kid and they still called it ADD. Crock of sh!t excuse for people with a lack of discipline and a great way for pharmaceuticals to sell pills.
Extra time? Hell no, I always finished the test first.
:beer:Originally posted by: beer
I...agreee...with....you...wowOriginally posted by: Vic
No, ADHD is bullsh!t. And I've even been diagnosed with it several times, first time when I was a kid and they still called it ADD. Crock of sh!t excuse for people with a lack of discipline and a great way for pharmaceuticals to sell pills.
Extra time? Hell no, I always finished the test first.
STOP THE PRESSES! Hell has frozen over!
Originally posted by: Vic
No, ADHD is bullsh!t. And I've even been diagnosed with it several times, first time when I was a kid and they still called it ADD. Crock of sh!t excuse for people with a lack of discipline and a great way for pharmaceuticals to sell pills.
Extra time? Hell no, I always finished the test first.
Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Originally posted by: db
Should students diagnosed with ADHD get extra time to jump out of the way of a speeding car?
Brings up an interesting point...
I've got an ADHD daughter, life's going to be sort of difficult for her, why not give her a little break while she's in school? Or is it good for her to feel like an utter failure because she'd only earn D's & F's in school?
Life tends to use the same yardstick to measure everyone, what does it matter if seh takes 1/2 hour to complete a standardized test? It's not like she's going to be competing for a high paying job with anyone.
Originally posted by: Vic
No, ADHD is bullsh!t. And I've even been diagnosed with it several times, first time when I was a kid and they still called it ADD. Crock of sh!t excuse for people with a lack of discipline and a great way for pharmaceuticals to sell pills.
Extra time? Hell no, I always finished the test first.
Originally posted by: RaiderJ
Funny, I was diagnosed with ADD or ADHD (one of the two). I made A's & B's in HS and got a good SAT score. Currently attending a high ranking school. Sounds to me like your daugter has problems other than her ADHD.
Originally posted by: etech
I hope none of you that are joking about this situation ever have a child with a disibility. I really hope you never have to try to comfort your daughter who is crying her eyes out because the other normal kids are making fun of her for being stupid. God, I hope you don't have to do that.
It would change your minds and you perhaps wouldn't even think it is a joking matter but I hope you don't have to go throuh it.
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: RaiderJ
Funny, I was diagnosed with ADD or ADHD (one of the two). I made A's & B's in HS and got a good SAT score. Currently attending a high ranking school. Sounds to me like your daugter has problems other than her ADHD.
Coming from someone that doesn't even know WTF they have, I say STFU!....Also for anyone that can't post what the SAT score was or what the so called high-ranking school is I call BS. Some do end up with a 1500 going to Princeton, but I have found good = 1100-1200 (this is based on scores around 1989) and high ranking to be their local state school which also has one college or so in the Top 100 (unfortunately the person bragging is usually in different college than was ranked at the university).
ADD/ADHD and whatever else they decide to call them are real 'diseases' (I hate that word to describe them). There are huge differences in someone mildly affected and another majorly. Also there is a ton of people 'claiming' it and then knowing they are lying to begin with, acting like it's no big deal![]()
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Originally posted by: Riprorin
I'm personally aware of two kids who were given more time on the SAT because they supposedly have ADHD.
One scored a 1280.
I don't know what the other scored, but he's attending a first-tier university.
Their "ADHD" hasn't seemed to hurt them much. It appears that it gave them an edge.
Originally posted by: Zebo
Hey ripper
As you know, like you, mine go to private school and they don't get these "breaks" yet. The retarded children are with thier own kind and the ADD, ADHD, whatever; if uncontrollable are kicked out. Personally I think we should greatly increase the complexity of the tests accross the board. Time should be decided by professors/test makers test time x 2, no exceptions.
In the test of life you don't get extra time, why start teaching bad habits at an immpressionable age?
Originally posted by: alkemyst
This is life and unfortunately not everyone should be the doctor, lawyer, physist, chemist, etc just because they and their parents want them to be. It's getting ridiculous. I will agree it's sad, but so are a lot of things in this world. What next? Are employers going to have to hire x amount of mental midgets like affirmative action tried to get done with minorities?
Some times you just got to settle to be the pawn and not the King.
I cannot ever play pro football, or win an Extreme fighting event....nor can I currently be a practicing engineer or MD....however I am not going to cry bloody murder that because I want it, I deserve it and just because I don't measure up you can't withhold that from me.
And that's the issue....these students do not measure up and should be cast aside. A bright 8th grader can pass college calc if given enough time and chances....it's doubtful he will have the mental maturity to handle more than problems and trivial matters, and more often than not that is all school is attempting to teach....the trivial things. If you can't handle that at a brisk pace when you get in the real world and have a 1 hour crunch to get something to production you can't call a time out to think longer.
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In the middle of surgery, the doctor looks up and instead of requesting a scalpel, he asks the nurse if she wants to go ride bikes.Originally posted by: Riprorin
If ADHD were real (at the very least it's way, way over diagnosed), I don't think that I'd want to hire a trial lawyer who had ADHD or have a surgeon with ADHD operate on me.
If they can't take a timed test in the alloted time, do I want to put my life (figuritively or literally) in their hands?