Shallow habits

[revnja]

I'd have to agree with smoking. I can be totally into a hot girl, but as soon as she lights up, I get sad in pants.

 

[ILoveLamp]

Originally posted by: adambooth
I'd have to agree with smoking. I can be totally into a hot girl, but as soon as she lights up, I get sad in pants.

Smokers never really bothered me, maybe because I grew up in a house where both parents smoked and now I'm just used to it.

 

[daniel1113]

Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Obsessive cat lovers

Fixed 🙂

 

[mwmorph]

Originally posted by: adambooth
I'd have to agree with smoking. I can be totally into a hot girl, but as soon as she lights up, I get sad in pants.

that and fat women(not very used to it grew up in skinny neighborhoods).

 

[Fingers]

Originally posted by: Adica
I could never be with a man that took longer to get 'ready' than me. IE ...plucks eyebrows, uses a lot of hair product (or dyes his hair) gets manicures and a clearcoat. YA know a "high maintenence" guy. ug!

Yeah don't think you need to worry about that. He would already be gay.

 

[ILoveLamp]

Originally posted by: mwmorph

Originally posted by: adambooth
I'd have to agree with smoking. I can be totally into a hot girl, but as soon as she lights up, I get sad in pants.

that and fat women(not very used to it grew up in skinny neighborhoods).

Skinny neighborhoods? Was it something in the water? 😕

 

[mwmorph]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: mwmorph

Originally posted by: adambooth
I'd have to agree with smoking. I can be totally into a hot girl, but as soon as she lights up, I get sad in pants.

that and fat women(not very used to it grew up in skinny neighborhoods).

Skinny neighborhoods? Was it something in the water? 😕

no i grew up in Queens. not a rich neighborhood by any means.
no s for me

 

[astrosfan90]

I'm just curious, because I'm relatively new around here, but why is it that anyone who gels their hair or knows how to dress is automatically gay? I happen to own a few designer suits and have some overpriced jeans from Express--the former because I found them on sale and the cut fits me better and the latter because I wear jeans at my office but find that your run of the mill jeans are too casual for me to really get away with. Am I suddenly gay?

/rant

At any rate, I have a few. Tattoos tend to scream "trashy" to me, though small ones or less than one and not in any garish colors can be nice. More than one, large tattoos, or obnoxious colors (or even run-of-the-mill tattoos, like the standard butterfly) are huge turnoffs for me. Too many piercings are in the same category.

I also agree that having standards about dress is a major turnoff for me. While I wear Express jeans to work or Ralph Lauren suits occasionally, when I'm not working or meeting with business people, I'm wearing old worn jeans, Sambas, and a beer-related tshirt. It's more comfortable. If a girl's gonna judge me for that, I don't have time for her.

That said, I don't really have much place in this thread either, as I'm engaged.

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: astrosfan90
I'm just curious, because I'm relatively new around here, but why is it that anyone who gels their hair or knows how to dress is automatically gay? I happen to own a few designer suits and have some overpriced jeans from Express--the former because I found them on sale and the cut fits me better and the latter because I wear jeans at my office but find that your run of the mill jeans are too casual for me to really get away with. Am I suddenly gay?

/rant

At any rate, I have a few. Tattoos tend to scream "trashy" to me, though small ones or less than one and not in any garish colors can be nice. More than one, large tattoos, or obnoxious colors (or even run-of-the-mill tattoos, like the standard butterfly) are huge turnoffs for me. Too many piercings are in the same category.

I also agree that having standards about dress is a major turnoff for me. While I wear Express jeans to work or Ralph Lauren suits occasionally, when I'm not working or meeting with business people, I'm wearing old worn jeans, Sambas, and a beer-related tshirt. It's more comfortable. If a girl's gonna judge me for that, I don't have time for her.

That said, I don't really have much place in this thread either, as I'm engaged.

You're just trying to convince Ilovelamp to like you... poser newbie scum... (welcome to ATOT😉)

Have a nice day,

-Max

 

[Quasmo]

bad laugh.

 

[PHiuR]

you making posts like this on atot turning it into a "girly forum"

😛

umm...id say a girl who is really hyper/loud/can't just take a moment to relax and enjoy the silence.

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

So you're saying that because I'm confident in the way I look and because I have standards I'm a snob?

Yes. You seem to have some sort of designer clothing requirement. That, in my opinion, moves beyond shallow into the snob area.

 

[Kibbo]

Realy skinny girls with no curves. they need boobs and hips. I can handle a bit of pudge, but if they look like a 12 year-old boy, I say no.

 

[ribbon13]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Adica
I could never be with a man that took longer to get 'ready' than me. IE ...plucks eyebrows, uses a lot of hair product (or dyes his hair) gets manicures and a clearcoat. YA know a "high maintenence" guy. ug!

I don't know about the manicures and eyebrow-plucking, but I like when a guy takes care of himself, and if he takes longer than me to get ready that just means he's gonna look good and I'm gonna be able to show him off in public 😛

....so you date bisexual men. That's cool, I guess.

That way I can date two at once and they won't really mind because they'll be doing each other too. Masturbation inducing mental picture.

Fixed.

I, nor any of the bisexual guys I kick it with would have anything to do with Adica who automatically stereotypes those who care about thier image as "high maintenence." If you keep yourself kempt, it doesn't take long to get ready for a night on the town.

ILoveLamp... you imply that bisexual men having sex is bad mental image, yet your screen name is a double entendre? That's shallow.

 

[AntisociaL]

Women that talk too much and just dont know when to stop.Especially when its gossip about other women yet they act like best friends when around each other.

 

[ILoveLamp]

Originally posted by: ribbon13

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Adica
I could never be with a man that took longer to get 'ready' than me. IE ...plucks eyebrows, uses a lot of hair product (or dyes his hair) gets manicures and a clearcoat. YA know a "high maintenence" guy. ug!

I don't know about the manicures and eyebrow-plucking, but I like when a guy takes care of himself, and if he takes longer than me to get ready that just means he's gonna look good and I'm gonna be able to show him off in public 😛

....so you date bisexual men. That's cool, I guess.

That way I can date two at once and they won't really mind because they'll be doing each other too. Masturbation inducing mental picture.

Fixed.

I, nor any of the bisexual guys I kick it with would have anything to do with Adica who automatically stereotypes those who care about thier image as "high maintenence." If you keep yourself kempt, it doesn't take long to get ready for a night on the town.

ILoveLamp... you imply that bisexual men having sex is bad mental image, yet your screen name is a double entendre? That's shallow.

What are you babbling about? My screen name is from anchorman, when Brick keeps saying "I love lamp", because he's slow and doesn't know what's going on. I wasn't aware of any double entendres.

 

[AFB]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
What is the one shallow thing that you would reject a potential partner for? Just something little that really shouldn't matter but for some reason you can't help looking for. For me, its the way a guy dresses...if he doesn't have good style it's really hard for me to be attracted to him, even if he's great in every other way. What are yours?

Why don't you show him how? I think a lot of guys that are like that might actually be receptive if you asked.

 

[ILoveLamp]

Originally posted by: AFB

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
What is the one shallow thing that you would reject a potential partner for? Just something little that really shouldn't matter but for some reason you can't help looking for. For me, its the way a guy dresses...if he doesn't have good style it's really hard for me to be attracted to him, even if he's great in every other way. What are yours?

Why don't you show him how? I think a lot of guys that are like that might actually be receptive if you asked.

I don't think you should have to change anything about a person if they are "the one", so why bother trying to fix someone up?

 

[FeuerFrei]

Southern accents are a hang-up for me. It just conveys raging ignorance.
Tatoos project a trashy image which just ruins the beauty of a woman's body.
Fatness just relegates a woman to friend status at best.

 

[datalink7]

Someone who cares too much about clothes. Don't look like a bum, but if you take an hour to get anywhere...

Smoking.

Too fat (I don't care about super skinny... in fact super skinny is bad if it is just because you diet. I like athletic though because I like to do things like hiking or biking, and would want my GF to be able to do the same).

 

[Nitemare]

Them having a weiner would be bad...



seriously though, being prejudiced, loving to argue or not having an identicle twin sister who enjoys threesomes

 

[bondboy]

man hands

 

[erub]

smoking
religion that is not mine (why am i wasting their and my time, we're not gonna get married)
tatoos
fat (i love sports, somebody who cant get outside once in the while is not gonna make it)

 

[revnja]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: adambooth
I'd have to agree with smoking. I can be totally into a hot girl, but as soon as she lights up, I get sad in pants.

Smokers never really bothered me, maybe because I grew up in a house where both parents smoked and now I'm just used to it.

Both my parents smoked as well. That's why I can't stand it. It's just generally unattractive as well. To each his own, I suppose.

 

[datalink7]

Originally posted by: erub

religion that is not mine (why am i wasting their and my time, we're not gonna get married)

My parents married and my mom is a Catholic and my dad is an Atheist.

They did get divorced after 21 years, but it had nothing to do with religion.