Seriously screwed up with GF... need advice

[eigen]

Originally posted by: freesia39

Originally posted by: Schadenfroh
what kind of pr0n was it?

a)standard (female between the ages of 18 - 30ish)
b)rasin (older than 40)
c)kiddie (sub 18)
d)damn near pedophile (sub 14)
e)necro (dead corpses naked)
f)gay (naked males)
g)wierd sh!t pr0n (like naked pregnant women dancing to phish music)

a combination? what, we must know.

this list is traumatizing...

No that list sounds like how my pron folder is arranged

 

[erikistired]

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Ok, so... my gf discovered some pictrues of the NR/AO variety in my temp files and now she's seriously pissed. Like, we're over pissed. I never thought I'd post a YAGT but I really love her and need any advice I can get on what I can do to get her to forgive me. I'm seriously desperate for any advice I can get here. Thanks in advance.

find a gf who isn't such a prude.

 

[crimson117]

Originally posted by: Schadenfroh
h)wierd sh!t pr0n (like naked pregnant women dancing to phish music)

That's not wierd sh1t pr0n, that's standard fare at a phish concert.

 

[Gibson486]

Originally posted by: isekii

Originally posted by: Gibson486
All guys have this little secret folder dug in their files somewhere. It usually has some ambiguos name and is buried beneath several other folders (probably 4 steps deep).

I used to have such a folder that was dug 4 deep and I called the folder a name my gf would never think to look in, Visual C++.

These type of guys seriously need to grow a pair.
Why hide it ?

Dude, i am exagerating. I am just saying that every has it, but no guy is really that open about it....

 

[Bryophyte]

Originally posted by: Gibson486
Dude, i am exagerating. I am just saying that every has it, but no guy is really that open about it....

Why not?

 

[BDawg]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Lol, the piece of all this that amuses me is that all of you screaming "dump her" "she's too insecure" yada yada are failing to understand a couple of things.

1. this person knew herself well enough to tell the OP at the start that such activity would be a deal breaker for her and he agreed that he could live with that.He engaged in that activity without any sort of discussion revisiting the issue and she dumped him!

Agreement made under duress.

 

[Ameesh]

tell her to get off teh computer and into the kitchen

 

[crimson117]

Originally posted by: caitlion
i dont think you need to break up with her, just talk to her.

i have to admit i did the same thing with my last bf. i very much regret going through his stuff, but i am kind of glad that i did because it told me more about who he was. the reason that i got so upset about it was because he told me that he NEVER EVER looked at porn. i found this hard to believe, i mean ... doesnt everyone look at porn? but eventually i believed him and forgot about it. one day i came across something and that sparked my curiosity and i found out that not only did he look at porn quite often, it was weird porn. we wont get into that. so he lied and he liked weird sh!t. thats what upset me.

so now on to you. like the other people said, what kind of porn is it? and did you lie to her and tell her that you didnt look at it? these are very important factors in deciding if she has real reason to be mad.

btw, i like to watch porn with my boyfriend. i dont have a problem with him looking at it when im not around, but it does make me insecure. but you know what, hes a guy. guys do that. the end.

:thumbsup::beer:

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: BDawg

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Lol, the piece of all this that amuses me is that all of you screaming "dump her" "she's too insecure" yada yada are failing to understand a couple of things.

1. this person knew herself well enough to tell the OP at the start that such activity would be a deal breaker for her and he agreed that he could live with that.He engaged in that activity without any sort of discussion revisiting the issue and she dumped him!

Agreement made under duress.

I'm not saying here that I agree with the OP's g/friend but some of the responses here are utter BS.If a prospective partner raises issues that are deal breakers to them at the start of relationship,well, then that's your chance to present your POV and either come to an understanding or part ways. To make an agreement and then later just go do whatever it is you want,without even opening the issue for more discussion is really disrespectful and strikes me as passive-agressive.

 

[CVSiN]

WTF cares get a new girl...
my wife buys magazines and dvds...
she rules..
she likes checking out the girls as much as I do..

girls that dig porn rule beign secure with ones relationship is great opens up alot of fun doors =P

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

WTF is the point of porn? To help you imagine yourself with all these women you don't know? There is NO WAY that doesnt inhumanize them and feed the more base aspects of our psyches. Traditionally, viewing somebody else naked has always been a means to assert superiority or control over that person. Ted Bundy even used his last interview to warn the world about pornography. There's a lot of warning flags around this activity or at least enough to warrant some contemplation before rushing into something which is referred to as highly addictive.

Oh, and BTW, "everybody else does it" isn't a justification.

 

[mitaiwan82]

GIT!

/not this ballsy in real life

 

[NissanGurl]

hehe, reminds me of the time I found my BF's pron stash on his computer. I was editing a config file for an RPG and saw a folder labeled "Driver Cache." Hadn't ever seen a folder named that on a windows box and curiosity got the better of me. Not a big deal....told him I found it and how. I view it as him utilizing a creative resource for when we get together. ;-)

As for the butt kissing, as long as you make her feel like you prefer her to your stash it shouldn't be that big of a deal.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
WTF is the point of porn? To help you imagine yourself with all these women you don't know? There is NO WAY that doesnt inhumanize them and feed the more base aspects of our psyches. Traditionally, viewing somebody else naked has always been a means to assert superiority or control over that person. Ted Bundy even used his last interview to warn the world about pornography. There's a lot of warning flags around this activity or at least enough to warrant some contemplation before rushing into something which is referred to as highly addictive.

Oh, and BTW, "everybody else does it" isn't a justification.

Dude get a freaking life...
what are you a bible thumping asshat?
there is 0 wrong with the naked body it is perfectly normal...
btw the US is soo far behind on Sexual maturity its not even funny..
Europe and Asia have way differnet oppionions on porn.. its pretty much mainstream in most of the world but the US..
hell even South America has soap operas that are pretty much softcore porn on during dailight hours..
Europe is very libertaed when it comes to the Human body and sexuality..
get the fvck over it man..
geezus..

 

[shuan24]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
WTF is the point of porn? To help you imagine yourself with all these women you don't know? There is NO WAY that doesnt inhumanize them and feed the more base aspects of our psyches. Traditionally, viewing somebody else naked has always been a means to assert superiority or control over that person. Ted Bundy even used his last interview to warn the world about pornography. There's a lot of warning flags around this activity or at least enough to warrant some contemplation before rushing into something which is referred to as highly addictive.

Oh, and BTW, "everybody else does it" isn't a justification.

What cult are you part of? PM me when the world is going to end and you kill yourself. I wanna watch.

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
WTF is the point of porn? To help you imagine yourself with all these women you don't know? There is NO WAY that doesnt inhumanize them and feed the more base aspects of our psyches. Traditionally, viewing somebody else naked has always been a means to assert superiority or control over that person. Ted Bundy even used his last interview to warn the world about pornography. There's a lot of warning flags around this activity or at least enough to warrant some contemplation before rushing into something which is referred to as highly addictive.

Oh, and BTW, "everybody else does it" isn't a justification.

Dude get a freaking life...
what are you a bible thumping asshat?
there is 0 wrong with the naked body it is perfectly normal...
btw the US is soo far behind on Sexual maturity its not even funny..
Europe and Asia have way differnet oppionions on porn.. its pretty much mainstream in most of the world but the US..
hell even South America has soap operas that are pretty much softcore porn on during dailight hours..
Europe is very libertaed when it comes to the Human body and sexuality..
get the fvck over it man..
geezus..

So very true. You'd think we wouldn't be so uptight about it given our apparent obsession for sex in the US but other parts of the world are far, far ahead of us in their comfort level with sexuality. Evidence of this can easily be seen on those HBO commercials around the world specials. The outcry in the US if those were shown would be very widespread. We're actually a society of double standards.

The same goes for drinking in Europe. To them it's no big deal and they grown up around it in their culture. Here in the US kids don't so they go overboard when they can freely get it in their early to late teens.

 

[Bryophyte]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinorTed Bundy even used his last interview to warn the world about pornography.

I find it disturbing that you would cite Ted Bundy as a source of credible information concerning human behavior.

Hero, do you even differentiate between hard core fetish porn and nude photos in a magazine? What about artistic portrayals of the human body?

 

[phreakah]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
WTF is the point of porn? To help you imagine yourself with all these women you don't know? There is NO WAY that doesnt inhumanize them and feed the more base aspects of our psyches. Traditionally, viewing somebody else naked has always been a means to assert superiority or control over that person. Ted Bundy even used his last interview to warn the world about pornography. There's a lot of warning flags around this activity or at least enough to warrant some contemplation before rushing into something which is referred to as highly addictive.

Oh, and BTW, "everybody else does it" isn't a justification.

Dude get a freaking life...
what are you a bible thumping asshat?
there is 0 wrong with the naked body it is perfectly normal...
btw the US is soo far behind on Sexual maturity its not even funny..
Europe and Asia have way differnet oppionions on porn.. its pretty much mainstream in most of the world but the US..
hell even South America has soap operas that are pretty much softcore porn on during dailight hours..
Europe is very libertaed when it comes to the Human body and sexuality..
get the fvck over it man..
geezus..

reminds me of that commercial (cartoon commercial) where the mom and kid are watching tv and on the tv is like gunshots and killing and stuff.. then the girl says oh you saved me, kiss me! and then the mom covers the kid's eyes

 

[Trey22]

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Ok, so... my gf discovered some pictrues of the NR/AO variety in my temp files and now she's seriously pissed. Like, we're over pissed. I never thought I'd post a YAGT but I really love her and need any advice I can get on what I can do to get her to forgive me. I'm seriously desperate for any advice I can get here. Thanks in advance.

Were you in it?

The thing to do is put even more porn on there and claim you were hacked!

 

[Klixxer]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
WTF is the point of porn? To help you imagine yourself with all these women you don't know? There is NO WAY that doesnt inhumanize them and feed the more base aspects of our psyches. Traditionally, viewing somebody else naked has always been a means to assert superiority or control over that person. Ted Bundy even used his last interview to warn the world about pornography. There's a lot of warning flags around this activity or at least enough to warrant some contemplation before rushing into something which is referred to as highly addictive.

Oh, and BTW, "everybody else does it" isn't a justification.

You are a seriously fvcked up individual HoP.

I can't believe you used what another seriously fvcked up individual thinks as your source.

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: Bryophyte

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinorTed Bundy even used his last interview to warn the world about pornography.

I find it disturbing that you would cite Ted Bundy as a source of credible information concerning human behavior.

Hero, do you even differentiate between hard core fetish porn and nude photos in a magazine? What about artistic portrayals of the human body?

Allah made burkhas and mullahs for a reason...

 

[azazyel]

Who in the hell let Jerry Falwell on the board, aka HeroOfPellinor?

Just tell her you got bored one day and decided to spank the monkey. Problem solved.

 

[Bulldog13]

http://www.bash.org/?5411

<factorial_nine> "Male masturbation is a personal turn off for me. As a single woman, I'm especially looking for a man who doesn't masturbate, even while he's single."
<factorial_nine> GOOD LUCK, BITCH.

 

[candicec]

Originally posted by: Bulldog13
http://www.bash.org/?5411

<factorial_nine> "Male masturbation is a personal turn off for me. As a single woman, I'm especially looking for a man who doesn't masturbate, even while he's single."
<factorial_nine> GOOD LUCK, BITCH.

HA HA HA HA!!!

 

[Acanthus]

Originally posted by: Ranger X

Originally posted by: candicec

Originally posted by: rh71

Originally posted by: candicec
Clearly the answer is: ditch her. Tell her she needs to grow up. I have to beg my boyfriend for porn. Find someone who is not so uptight and who likes it like you. Seriously, some girls need to lighten the fvck up!

is your bf asian also ? Cause I have never heard of an asian guy who's not horny all the time.

nope..bf is a whitey!! And he has no asian fetish (which is a good thing)..I had to win him over, which makes it all the sweeter!

candicec

So you have a white fetish .. what's the difference?

To the OP: You lost the battle. She is dating you for WHO YOU ARE and if she doesn't like it, that's her problem. So you gave up porn. What's to stop her from nearly dumping you for something else that she doesn't approve of? She has the upper hand in your relationship and you have shown her your weakness by allowing her to get exactly what she wanted. If you're giving up porn, make her give up one of her passions that irritates you. I don't even know her and I can already tell she's a hypocritical bitch.

Yes and on that matter go for the jugular, since she attacked one of mens livlihoods, pron, you should attack one of womens. YOU CAN NEVER BUY SHOES AGAIN .