Seriously screwed up with GF... need advice

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Hyperblaze

Lifer
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Originally posted by: moks78
Originally posted by: Schadenfroh
what kind of pr0n was it?

a)standard (female between the ages of 18 - 30ish)
b)rasin (older than 40)
c)kiddie (sub 18)
d)damn near pedophile (sub 14)
e)necro (dead corpses naked)
f)gay (naked males)
g)wierd sh!t pr0n (like naked pregnant women dancing to phish music)

a combination? what, we must know.
Wow! You got some list! Is that pr0n 101?

I'd hate to find out what 102 has...

ps, b should read is coogar or milf
 
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Originally posted by: caitlion
hes a guy. guys do that. the end.

That mindset makes me sick and is indicative of the state or moral decay America is in. Things fall apart, the center cannot hold...I guess that includes society.
 

Bryophyte

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Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Originally posted by: caitlion
hes a guy. guys do that. the end.

That mindset makes me sick and is indicative of the state or moral decay America is in. Things fall apart, the center cannot hold...I guess that includes society.

You poor dear. Come tell Mama all about it.
 

BatmanNate

Lifer
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Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Originally posted by: caitlion
hes a guy. guys do that. the end.

That mindset makes me sick and is indicative of the state or moral decay America is in. Things fall apart, the center cannot hold...I guess that includes society.

Chin up, moral soldier.
 

jpeyton

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Originally posted by: Bryophyte
Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Originally posted by: caitlion
hes a guy. guys do that. the end.

That mindset makes me sick and is indicative of the state or moral decay America is in. Things fall apart, the center cannot hold...I guess that includes society.

You poor dear. Come tell Mama all about it.

Hahaha.
 

Stark

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Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Originally posted by: caitlion
hes a guy. guys do that. the end.

That mindset makes me sick and is indicative of the state or moral decay America is in. Things fall apart, the center cannot hold...I guess that includes society.

guys either:
1. look
2. want to look but don't
or
3. lie about it and eventually end up sticking their wanker in a place it really doesn't belong

As for the original post:

she sounds like my wife. I give them both :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
kiss her butt, and don't look at that crap anymore.
 

petejk

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YOU WANT AN ANSWER HERE IS IT

tell her the freaking truth...you like porn...you're not emotially connected to it, but as a guy
its natural for you to want to look at it....tell her your love her...and that pictures are just pictures

tell her that you know what you want and it is her you want....no picture or stupid video could change it

if she accepts you for being you, thats good......if she's doesnt like it....don't give it up....because you
are giving a piece of youself

i gave up porn for my ex...and u know what...it didnt do nothing for the realtionship...it just left me
heart broken and with an engagement ring....and to think....i gave up porn for that attractive ex i had...

HAVE SOME BALLS

please...message me after you use my advice..thanks
 

Stark

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Originally posted by: petejk
YOU WANT AN ANSWER HERE IS IT

tell her the freaking truth...you like porn...you're not emotially connected to it, but as a guy
its natural for you to want to look at it....tell her your love her...and that pictures are just pictures

tell her that you know what you want and it is her you want....no picture or stupid video could change it

if she accepts you for being you, thats good......if she's doesnt like it....don't give it up....because you
are giving a piece of youself

i gave up porn for my ex...and u know what...it didnt do nothing for the realtionship...it just left me
heart broken and with an engagement ring....and to think....i gave up porn for that attractive ex i had...

HAVE SOME BALLS

please...message me after you use my advice..thanks

you were broken hearted after giving up pr0n? pr0n is a "peice of yourself"?
no wonder she dumped you! :eek:
 

petejk

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yea genius......if you like ice cream its part of who you are....
if you like porn its a part of you

hahah you dont like playboy????


sorry i go clubbing...and love checking out healthy/attractive girls..watching them
and their tight abs and toned bodied...


what??? you don't like looking at naked girls???? are you gay? would you rather watch guys?

does your wife / girlfriend have your balls on a leash ...or are they up in the cookie jar somewhere hidden from you? do you even have a significant other??

 

Geekbabe

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Occasional use is normal, spending hours each day searching for/dloading gigs of the stuff to the detriment of your real time relationship(s) imho is not.

How's the sex life? Do you ignore her sexually in favor of porn ? Did you lie to her about the subject at an earlier time? I think we need a bit more info here.
 

Stark

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Originally posted by: petejk
yea genius......if you like ice cream its part of who you are....
if you like porn its a part of you

hahah you dont like playboy????


sorry i go clubbing...and love checking out healthy/attractive girls..watching them
and their tight abs and toned bodied...


what??? you don't like looking at naked girls???? are you gay? would you rather watch guys?

does your wife / girlfriend have your balls on a leash ...or are they up in the cookie jar somewhere hidden from you? do you even have a significant other??

see my post a few spots up.

I'd fall in the #2 category (like to look, but don't). Self control is a good habit to form.
 

Gooberlx2

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Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Originally posted by: isekii
All guys do it. They know it. Why be offended by it ?

I don't do it and I bet most guys don't do it. Do you realize how perverted that is?

I call shens. Most guys do do it. If not on the computer then on video. If not on video then on print. If not on print then in their minds. It's all the same in the end: images of naked women.

...and it's completely normal. Last two gf's I had not only didn't mind it....they totally dug it, watched it with me, would get steaming hot and then you can imagine the rest.

...I would venture to say that it's abnormal and almost unhealthy to not "vent" yourself in some avenue.
 

MartyMcFly3

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Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Originally posted by: isekii
All guys do it. They know it. Why be offended by it ?

I don't do it and I bet most guys don't do it. Do you realize how perverted that is?

Its impossible not to... At college porn is equivalent to Yu-Gi-Oh cards for 8 year olds... You trade it, you watch the movies, hell you collect it... Any guy on here who says theyve NEVER seen pictures/watched videos is bullshitting ya...
 

earthman

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If she's that uptight it's not going to last. Get a woman who doesn't care what you look at. Before you do something dumb like get married.
 
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Originally posted by: Schadenfroh
g)wierd sh!t pr0n (like naked pregnant women dancing to phish music)

Glad I'm not into weird sh!t like that.

(goes back to watching his AVIs of naked women gyrating to the theme from The A-Team....)
 

Mo0o

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Your girlfriend gets angry when you look at porn? She needs to come to grips with the fact that men will want to look at porn.
 

JACKHAMMER

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Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Originally posted by: caitlion
hes a guy. guys do that. the end.

That mindset makes me sick and is indicative of the state or moral decay America is in. Things fall apart, the center cannot hold...I guess that includes society.


Are you kidding??? Porn will be the downfall of America? Let me guess, its those damn gays that are behind it :roll: You are a fool
 

jtusa

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Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3
Its impossible not to... At college porn is equivalent to Yu-Gi-Oh cards for 8 year olds... You trade it, you watch the movies, hell you collect it... Any guy on here who says theyve NEVER seen pictures/watched videos is bullshitting ya...

I think that's the best analogy I've ever heard.