RANT: What would you do.

[RCN]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: Brazen
Every wife sucks. Deal with it. I find yelling at mine, mixed in with some tongue-down-below action later, does wonders.

Remember the original post. THE SEX SUCKS. We have discussed this. She hates sex even though she won't admit it.

I doubt she hates it......she just isn't in the mood. Kids/ whiny husbands do that to ya........


She is most likely depressed.

 

[gooseman]

Maybe she just hates sex with you!

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
You have to find a way to work things out, for the kid's sake.

That's called idealistic BS.

This isn't a movie. It's fvcking life.

you've pretty much made up your mind. get a divorce. it will solve all your problems. : /

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: RCN
6 times a month isn't that far below average.

I'm sure she isn't all that happy staying at home with a 16 month old all day.....................maybe you should tell her to get a job.

http://marriage.about.com/cs/sexualstatistics/a/sexstatistics.htm

Average american has sex 132 times a year. That's 6 times a month?

 

[Reckoner]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
You have to find a way to work things out, for the kid's sake.

That's called idealistic BS.

This isn't a movie. It's fvcking life.

No it's called responsibility. To your kid, and to the women who you swore you'd be with "till death do us part."

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: Brazen
Every wife sucks. Deal with it. I find yelling at mine, mixed in with some tongue-down-below action later, does wonders.

Remember the original post. THE SEX SUCKS. We have discussed this. She hates sex even though she won't admit it.

have you tried to spice up your sex life, or is it all about you getting your rocks off?

She doesn't want me touching her AT ALL. She says she has to "get used to the idea". Well ... it's been a year of her stall tactic BS.

I WANT HER TO HAVE AN ORGASM. It's not about me at all. She is the one that could care less and it's frustrating as hell.

 

[Stumps]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: shortspanishguy
marriage seems awesome.

I cant wait.

ya, us married guys are supopsed to tell you it's bliss. IT IS NOT! It's all a god damned lie.

Going off what I am experiencing with my GF who I have lived with for over 4 years, I'd believe that...

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: Brazen
Every wife sucks. Deal with it. I find yelling at mine, mixed in with some tongue-down-below action later, does wonders.

Remember the original post. THE SEX SUCKS. We have discussed this. She hates sex even though she won't admit it.

have you tried to spice up your sex life, or is it all about you getting your rocks off?

She doesn't want me touching her AT ALL. She says she has to "get used to the idea". Well ... it's been a year of her stall tactic BS.

I WANT HER TO HAVE AN ORGASM. It's not about me at all. She is the one that could care less and it's frustrating as hell.

there has to be some other reason for her being turned off by you.

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: Brazen
Every wife sucks. Deal with it. I find yelling at mine, mixed in with some tongue-down-below action later, does wonders.

Remember the original post. THE SEX SUCKS. We have discussed this. She hates sex even though she won't admit it.

have you tried to spice up your sex life, or is it all about you getting your rocks off?

She doesn't want me touching her AT ALL. She says she has to "get used to the idea". Well ... it's been a year of her stall tactic BS.

I WANT HER TO HAVE AN ORGASM. It's not about me at all. She is the one that could care less and it's frustrating as hell.

there has to be some other reason for her being turned off by you.

She's doing someone else while he is at work busting his ass.

 

[RCN]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: RCN
6 times a month isn't that far below average.

I'm sure she isn't all that happy staying at home with a 16 month old all day.....................maybe you should tell her to get a job.

http://marriage.about.com/cs/sexualstatistics/a/sexstatistics.htm

Average american has sex 132 times a year. That's 6 times a month?

From your own link:
"Married couples make love 98 times per year"


You poor bastard......you get sex 2 times a month less than average...........

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: EatSpam
She's burnt out from dealing with a toddler all day. She gets a break when you are home.

I work 8 hours a day.
I drive 1 hours a day to/from work

I cut the grass
I shovel snow off our driveway.
I built the damned deck.
I landscap.
I remodeled the ****** bathroom.
I added a god damned bathroom in the basement (cutting holes in cement)
All I do is bust my ass for her.
She has to make sure the kid doesn't trip. Ohh boyyy.

I have as much right to complain about being tired as she does.

And I've watched the kid. It's not that hard.

 

[drum]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: RCN
6 times a month isn't that far below average.

I'm sure she isn't all that happy staying at home with a 16 month old all day.....................maybe you should tell her to get a job.

http://marriage.about.com/cs/sexualstatistics/a/sexstatistics.htm

Average american has sex 132 times a year. That's 6 times a month?

holy shiat, i need to get busy

 

[Sentinel]

So basically nomarriage.com has it covered.

Guess I shouldn't get that engagement ring heh.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: Brazen
Every wife sucks. Deal with it. I find yelling at mine, mixed in with some tongue-down-below action later, does wonders.

Remember the original post. THE SEX SUCKS. We have discussed this. She hates sex even though she won't admit it.

have you tried to spice up your sex life, or is it all about you getting your rocks off?

She doesn't want me touching her AT ALL. She says she has to "get used to the idea". Well ... it's been a year of her stall tactic BS.

I WANT HER TO HAVE AN ORGASM. It's not about me at all. She is the one that could care less and it's frustrating as hell.

there has to be some other reason for her being turned off by you.

She's doing someone else while he is at work busting his ass.

oh snap!

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: PaulNEPats

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
You have to find a way to work things out, for the kid's sake.

That's called idealistic BS.

This isn't a movie. It's fvcking life.

No it's called responsibility. To your kid, and to the women who you swore you'd be with "till death do us part."

I choose death. And I've actually thought cancer would be the easy way out and save her the grief of divorce. how many people say pancreatic cancer is a better option than marriage?

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: Stumps

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: shortspanishguy
marriage seems awesome.

I cant wait.

ya, us married guys are supopsed to tell you it's bliss. IT IS NOT! It's all a god damned lie.

Going off what I am experiencing with my GF who I have lived with for over 4 years, I'd believe that...

ROFL!!!!!!!

I wish I dated her for 4 years. it would have ended long ago.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: PaulNEPats

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
You have to find a way to work things out, for the kid's sake.

That's called idealistic BS.

This isn't a movie. It's fvcking life.

No it's called responsibility. To your kid, and to the women who you swore you'd be with "till death do us part."

I choose death. And I've actually thought cancer would be the easy way out and save her the grief of divorce. how many people say pancreatic cancer is a better option than marriage?

whoaaaaa, that is sad

 

[Reckoner]

You have to be crazy to get married this day and age. And if you decide to roll the dice, you need to deal with the consequences.

 

[Sentinel]

Yep, dated mine for over 5 years.

 

[EatSpam]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: EatSpam
She's burnt out from dealing with a toddler all day. She gets a break when you are home.

I work 8 hours a day.
I drive 1 hours a day to/from work

I cut the grass
I shovel snow off our driveway.
I built the damned deck.
I landscap.
I remodeled the ****** bathroom.
I added a god damned bathroom in the basement (cutting holes in cement)
All I do is bust my ass for her.
She has to make sure the kid doesn't trip. Ohh boyyy.

I have as much right to complain about being tired as she does.

And I've watched the kid. It's not that hard.

Hey, I'm in the same position as you. My son is 20 months old. Kids at that age are really hard on their mothers. My son will be perfectly content hanging out with me watching TV, playing, whatever, but as soon as the wife gets home, he's a whole different kid - whiny, clingy, needy. From chats with other parents, most are like that for awhile. Apparently, 2 years or so is when they start to get easier to handle.

 

[RCN]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: EatSpam
She's burnt out from dealing with a toddler all day. She gets a break when you are home.

I work 8 hours a day.
I drive 1 hours a day to/from work

I cut the grass
I shovel snow off our driveway.
I built the damned deck.
I landscap.
I remodeled the ****** bathroom.
I added a god damned bathroom in the basement (cutting holes in cement)
All I do is bust my ass for her.
She has to make sure the kid doesn't trip. Ohh boyyy.

I have as much right to complain about being tired as she does.

And I've watched the kid. It's not that hard.

Isn't that hard? How much interaction do you get with other people compared to her.

I'd much rather do everything you listed ten times over than stay home and watch a kid all day. Especially when all I had to look forward to was some asshat who thinks watching kids isn't hard wanting sex when he gets home...........

 

[Sentinel]

And I've watched the kid?

Good for you.

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: EatSpam

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: EatSpam
She's burnt out from dealing with a toddler all day. She gets a break when you are home.

I work 8 hours a day.
I drive 1 hours a day to/from work

I cut the grass
I shovel snow off our driveway.
I built the damned deck.
I landscap.
I remodeled the ****** bathroom.
I added a god damned bathroom in the basement (cutting holes in cement)
All I do is bust my ass for her.
She has to make sure the kid doesn't trip. Ohh boyyy.

I have as much right to complain about being tired as she does.

And I've watched the kid. It's not that hard.

Hey, I'm in the same position as you. My son is 20 months old. Kids at that age are really hard on their mothers. My son will be perfectly content hanging out with me watching TV, playing, whatever, but as soon as the wife gets home, he's a whole different kid - whiny, clingy, needy. From chats with other parents, most are like that for awhile. Apparently, 2 years or so is when they start to get easier to handle.

hahahahah ... I can see how that can happen with a mom. I'm around and the kid falls or bangs his head .. he moves on. My wife though ..... she starts acting all worried and the kid gets very upset. I've told her to stop doing this pampering stuff to, but she ignores me.

The difference between guys and gals I suppose.

Anyways, your situtation sounds similar to mine.

 

[kogase]

I think people who are miserable living with their spouses/girlfriends should sit down with them and ask them whether they feel the same way they do. Then they should discuss (for the child's sake) having an open relationship.

 

[TBone48]

It sounds like she's depressed. Can you (calmly) bring up the topic of her talking to her gynecologist? It may be something hormonal which can be treated.