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RANT: What would you do.

IHateMyJob2004

IHateMyJob2004

Lifer
EDIT: Changed this to rant. I don't even care to talk about it. I am fed up pretty much.



Well .... we are 30 and 26. I'm 30. We have sex probably 6 times a month. WAY bleow average. And the sex sucks. She could care to discuss "spicing things up"

I have a 16 month old kid. he is awesome.

I think about divorce, probably 2-3 times a week.

I am fed up and am at the point where I'd rather be at work than at home.

My wife just knows how to piss me off sometimes, even though she doesn't always intend it.

To clarify. my wife is a stay at home mom. I bust my ass and the place is a damned pig sty among other BS errands she claims she needs to do when I am home. Tonight ... Friday night. She wanted to go fvcking grocery shopping. I can not stand it when she attempts sh!t like this. She has all day to shop and when I get home ... she decides she thinks it's time to go shopping. And yes, I have told her that all of this BS pisses me off.

Thoughts ...
 
"I am fed up and am at the point where I'd rather be at work than at home. "

Better change your username to IHateMyHome2006
 
You don't want to come home and she doesn't want to be there when you are.
Counseling?
 
Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Well .... we are 30 and 26. I'm 30. We have sex probably 6 times a month. WAY bleow average. And the sex sucks.

I have a 16 month old kid. he is awesome.

I think about divorce, probably 2-3 times a week.

I am fed up and am at the point where I'd rather be at work than at home.

My wife just knows how to piss me off sometimes, even though she doesn't always intend it.

To clarify. my wife is a stay at home mom. I bust my ass and the place is a damned pig sty among other BS errands she claims she needs to do when I am home. Tonight ... Friday night. She wanted to go fvcking grocery shopping. I can not stand it when she attempts sh!t like this. She has all day to shop and when I get home ... she decides she thinks it's time to go shopping. And yes, I ahve told her this pisses me off.

THoughts ...
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you cry baby, at least your missus does the grocery shopping...In the last few months mine has refused to do anything at all.....claiming "I'm pregnant I can't do that stuff anymore" and yet she is only 11 weeks pregnant.

you think you got it hard...come and live my life and you will know what true misery is
 
Every wife sucks. Deal with it. I find yelling at mine, mixed in with some tongue-down-below action later, does wonders.
 
Originally posted by: Stumps
Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Well .... we are 30 and 26. I'm 30. We have sex probably 6 times a month. WAY bleow average. And the sex sucks.

I have a 16 month old kid. he is awesome.

I think about divorce, probably 2-3 times a week.

I am fed up and am at the point where I'd rather be at work than at home.

My wife just knows how to piss me off sometimes, even though she doesn't always intend it.

To clarify. my wife is a stay at home mom. I bust my ass and the place is a damned pig sty among other BS errands she claims she needs to do when I am home. Tonight ... Friday night. She wanted to go fvcking grocery shopping. I can not stand it when she attempts sh!t like this. She has all day to shop and when I get home ... she decides she thinks it's time to go shopping. And yes, I ahve told her this pisses me off.

THoughts ...
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you cry baby, at least your missus does the grocery shopping...In the last few months mine has refused to do anything at all.....claiming "I'm pregnant I can't do that stuff anymore" and yet she is only 11 weeks pregnant.

you think you got it hard...come and live my life and you will know what true misery is
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Unless her doctor said she is on bed rest, tell her to get off her ass. AND MVOING AROUND WILL MAKE FOR A HEALTHIER BABY! FACT!

Well, on Firday nights ... she thinks I want to go grocery shopping with her. I DON'T. SHE KNOWS THIS!
 
Um, sounds like your marriage is gone to hell. To be honest, unless you can get some serious counseling, you're pretty much screwed.
 
Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Originally posted by: minendo
Talking to her would be the first step dumbass.
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Reread my post dumbass.

I have, short of mentioning divorce. And it's really getting to that point.
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All you mentioned is the lack of a 'spicing things up' discussion.
 
Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
You don't want to come home and she doesn't want to be there when you are.
Counseling?
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Not a chance in hell.
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That's easy then. Put up with it or get divorced and let your son call another man "daddy".

 
Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Originally posted by: Stumps
Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Well .... we are 30 and 26. I'm 30. We have sex probably 6 times a month. WAY bleow average. And the sex sucks.

I have a 16 month old kid. he is awesome.

I think about divorce, probably 2-3 times a week.

I am fed up and am at the point where I'd rather be at work than at home.

My wife just knows how to piss me off sometimes, even though she doesn't always intend it.

To clarify. my wife is a stay at home mom. I bust my ass and the place is a damned pig sty among other BS errands she claims she needs to do when I am home. Tonight ... Friday night. She wanted to go fvcking grocery shopping. I can not stand it when she attempts sh!t like this. She has all day to shop and when I get home ... she decides she thinks it's time to go shopping. And yes, I ahve told her this pisses me off.

THoughts ...
Click to expand...

you cry baby, at least your missus does the grocery shopping...In the last few months mine has refused to do anything at all.....claiming "I'm pregnant I can't do that stuff anymore" and yet she is only 11 weeks pregnant.

you think you got it hard...come and live my life and you will know what true misery is
Click to expand...

Unless her doctor said she is on bed rest, tell her to get off her ass. AND MVOING AROUND WILL MAKE FOR A HEALTHIER BABY! FACT!

Well, on Firday nights ... she thinks I want to go grocery shopping with her. I DON'T. SHE KNOWS THIS!
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How ironic that you are the one giving advice.
 
Originally posted by: Brazen
Every wife sucks. Deal with it. I find yelling at mine, mixed in with some tongue-down-below action later, does wonders.
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Remember the original post. THE SEX SUCKS. We have discussed this. She hates sex even though she won't admit it.
 
6 times a month isn't that far below average.

I'm sure she isn't all that happy staying at home with a 16 month old all day.....................maybe you should tell her to get a job.
 
Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
Originally posted by: Brazen
Every wife sucks. Deal with it. I find yelling at mine, mixed in with some tongue-down-below action later, does wonders.
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Remember the original post. THE SEX SUCKS. We have discussed this. She hates sex even though she won't admit it.
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have you tried to spice up your sex life, or is it all about you getting your rocks off?
 
Originally posted by: moshquerade
so get a divorce. don't think of your kid, just yourself.
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I have ..... missery till I die with a kid. Or happiness without giving a rats ass about the kid. The choice is easier than you think.
 
Originally posted by: EatSpam
She's burnt out from dealing with a toddler all day. She gets a break when you are home.
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Bingo. She probably puts that sh!t off that you're bitching about, so she has an excuse to get away from the kid for a little bit. Stop bitching.
 
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