I'll admit, I've been a bit of a homophobe growing up. I was raised in church and always thought that homosexuality was sinful, but never saw it as anything really 'damning'.
It always creeped me out when I got hit on by gay guys. But I'll admit, most gay guys come across as normal men.
However, whats up with the weird, obviously a little sick in the head, overly feminine, flamboyant attention grabbing guys like Perez that think it's neat to be associated to queens and female behavior?
As someone on the sidelines, trying not to be a bigot about it all, hoping to protect marriage as an instituation between men and women, but open to accept whatever my society votes in favor for, and more than willing to vote in favor of civil unions, I look at someone like Perez who is "flaming gay" and have no choice but think they they aren't "well". My perception of him is that he is both physically and pychologically sick, there is some clear chemical imbalance going on in his body (much like someone who is clinically depressed) and think "one day, i'm sure there will be medication that will straighten him out and get him functioning like a properly developed male" again. It's his type that make me think he is equally as sick as someone who is clinically depressed, or if not that bad, at least chemically messed up enough to affect their normal behavior.
Just for the record.. I don't hate gays. My lawyer is gay and he doesn't act like anything less than a normal man. I never even knew he was gay until someone told me. It's the weird clowns like Perez that make me wonder. Is it just an act? Like "Im gay, I need act gay because I'm special"
It always creeped me out when I got hit on by gay guys. But I'll admit, most gay guys come across as normal men.
However, whats up with the weird, obviously a little sick in the head, overly feminine, flamboyant attention grabbing guys like Perez that think it's neat to be associated to queens and female behavior?
As someone on the sidelines, trying not to be a bigot about it all, hoping to protect marriage as an instituation between men and women, but open to accept whatever my society votes in favor for, and more than willing to vote in favor of civil unions, I look at someone like Perez who is "flaming gay" and have no choice but think they they aren't "well". My perception of him is that he is both physically and pychologically sick, there is some clear chemical imbalance going on in his body (much like someone who is clinically depressed) and think "one day, i'm sure there will be medication that will straighten him out and get him functioning like a properly developed male" again. It's his type that make me think he is equally as sick as someone who is clinically depressed, or if not that bad, at least chemically messed up enough to affect their normal behavior.
Just for the record.. I don't hate gays. My lawyer is gay and he doesn't act like anything less than a normal man. I never even knew he was gay until someone told me. It's the weird clowns like Perez that make me wonder. Is it just an act? Like "Im gay, I need act gay because I'm special"
