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Originally posted by: JD50
Originally posted by: jonks
Originally posted by: JD50
A question for the "YOU'RE A BIGOT, BIGOT" crowd. Do you consider Barrack Obama and Joe Biden bigots?

Disclaimer - I have no problem with gay marriage.

No, and Obama sponsored a "no on 8" ad.

There's a difference between holding a personal belief that marriage should be between a man and a woman and voting for a constitutional amendment which discriminates against a group of people.

When it comes to things like bigotry and racism, there really isn't a difference. So I guess there really aren't any racists here because no one is voting to re-enact slavery or bring back segregation?

People here that disagree with gay marriage are being called bigots. Since Obama and Biden both hold that view, why wouldn't they be considered bigots as well?

You're leaving out the hundreds of posts asking them their reasons for opposing gay marriage, and based on the responses determing the answer is bigotry.
 

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Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: BigJelly
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: BigJelly
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: ZeroIQ
These people aren't being terrorized, they are being told marriage is for male and female. They have been granted the same protections in the form of civil unions. This is not the same as people owning other people as property or not allowing women to vote.

And in our democracy, the majority doesn't always have a right to tell the minority "the way things are", no matter how much they might want to. That's not a good way for democracy to work, and it sure as hell isn't how our system is supposed to work.

Actually having the majority decide is exactly what a democracy is:

government by the people ; especially : rule of the majority b: a government in which the supreme power is vested in the people and exercised by them directly or indirectly through a system of representation usually involving periodically held free elections
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hmm, majority rules and their voice is exercised during elections and the majority of CAs voted for prop 8

Try paying attention during history/government class next time or use google before you open your mouth.

I seem to remember more to history and government class than looking up a definition in a dictionary. Starting with the idea that we don't live in an absolute democracy, which means that getting 50% +1 of the people together and trying to make a law does not mean it's going to happen. Our constitution, for example, lists a number of rights that a simple majority can't take away from the minority.

But I suppose you pick up things like that when you don't get your knowledge of government and law from a dictionary website and Google. :roll:

And the CA constitution has a 50%+1 majority rule on ballot resolutions; but I quess you didn't realize that or ignored it.

And FYI the definition of a democracy I gave is the definition. Now what you were told/believe and what reality is may be different. You cleary stated democracy doesn't allow the majority to rule and we shouldn't be allowed to vote on issues; however, a democracy is based on majority rule and how does a majority explain how they rule? by elections of course. So I'll give you benifit of dought and say you are irrational and are ignoring logic now; however, if not, you are a moron.
Now our republic requires different rules for each state and another set of rules for federal laws and/or ballot resolutions; however, the simple fact is CA it is 50%+1. So if you want to tear up the CA consititution go ahead but that isn't a democracy.

Prop 8 won. Everyone knows that gay marriage will eventually pass but for now it didn't. Don't destroy the basis of our democracy--the electorate's will--because you didn't like the outcome of one freaking vote. That's a path that America should not go down and when you calm down you'll realize how irrational your posts have been.

Well clearly it worked in this case, but a simple majority does not decide every issue in this country....no matter if you call it the electorate's will or divine intervention. I'm not trying to destroy anything, if you read my post instead of responding to some stereotype you obviously have in mind, you'd see I said nothing more than "the majority doesn't always have a right to tell the minority...". I'm not saying the majority should NEVER be able to exercise their will...all I'm saying is that we don't live in an unlimited democracy, and the will of a slim majority of the people isn't always the only deciding factor. I think prop 8 passed in exactly the right legal manner, but NOT just because it was "the will of the majority". It works because it's legal, which is how our system is supposed to work.

The fact that you're arguing against a point I'm not making isn't exactly the model for rationality, you know.

And in our democracy, the majority doesn't always have a right to tell the minority "the way things are", no matter how much they might want to. That's not a good way for democracy to work, and it sure as hell isn't how our system is supposed to work. The slim majority that voted for this proposition should be ashamed of themselves, but just because they aren't doesn't mean their word should be law.

Right from the rainsford's mouth. You are clearly stating that "doesn't mean their [the electorate] word should be law" Actually it does and I am just pointing out that your whole post was a distortion of what a democracy is and what the actual rule of law is on proposition's voted by the citizens of CA.
Prop 8 won. You demand that the people who voted for it should be ashamed--that's fine that's opinion; however, you clearly state that the vote should be overrule/not enforced. To ignore or overrule a vote in a democracy is counter to the democracy.
 

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Originally posted by: JD50
Originally posted by: Xavier434
Originally posted by: JD50
Originally posted by: jonks
Originally posted by: JD50
A question for the "YOU'RE A BIGOT, BIGOT" crowd. Do you consider Barrack Obama and Joe Biden bigots?

Disclaimer - I have no problem with gay marriage.

No, and Obama sponsored a "no on 8" ad.

There's a difference between holding a personal belief that marriage should be between a man and a woman and voting for a constitutional amendment which discriminates against a group of people.

When it comes to things like bigotry and racism, there really isn't a difference. So I guess there really aren't any racists here because no one is voting to re-enact slavery or bring back segregation?

People here that disagree with gay marriage are being called bigots.Since Obama and Biden both hold that view, why wouldn't they be considered bigots as well?

No, people that voted to legally ban gay marriage are being called bigots. There is a big difference between disagree with something and actively trying to legally ban it. I disagree with many evangelical beliefs, but do you see me actively trying to ban their religion? Hell no because I believe they should be given the liberty to make that choice for themselves as long as it is not forcing anything upon others.

That is not true, just go back to the beginning of this thread and you'll see Craig calling everyone that he disagrees with a bigot. I know you're not new to P&N, anytime this issue comes up, EVERYONE that disagrees with gay marriage for any reason is called a bigot.

You're a liar, JD50. I don't call everyone, or even most, or even many people I disagree with bigots. I call bigots I disagree with bigots.

Because you are too much the idiot, you are too much the liar, to deal with the issue of bigotry, you attack the use of the word which accurately describes the issue.

Here's a clue for you, which will do about as much good as singing lessons for a pig. The way bigotry works is that it affects people's views, and then they try to rationalize their views, often unaware of their own bigotry - they fit the justification to fit the prejudice. I'll give you an exmample of two.

When gay marriage comes up, many opponents first lead with "marriage is all about the children, and THAT'S the only reason I'm against calling gay couples married."

The thing is, they speak too soon, because then it's pointed out that elderly and other straight people unable to conceive are allowed to marry, and that many gay couples raise children, whether from a surrogate or adopted. Then they have to say 'oops' and instead of syaing 'good point, gay marriage is ok', they scramble for the next excuse why it's not ok, because *they aren't being fair in their judgement, they are rationalizing their pre-existing prejudice against gays by looking for an 'acceptable' reason'*.

You see countless such examples - we saw one recently where someone tried to discuss that the 'quality' of gay marriages is lacking in some measurements, and that's a reason to oppose gay marriage, while the've never oppposed straight marriages for any such reasons, and presumably would not.

It's why "states' rights" was such a popular political cause in the South - not because the public has a great interest in the theories of federalism's boundaries, but because it was an acceptable name for hiding behind in calling for the continuation of discrimination that was actually based in bigotry.

Bigotry is a serious, real, specific issue, and it should not be thrown around reclessly where it's inaccurate.

The thing is, I don't. I've spent years giving the 'other side' every chance to make any rational case for their position, and they can't.

My use of the word bigotry is very careful, and it's the posters like you who are the reckless attackers against the careful use of the word, to try to deny the facts.
 

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Originally posted by: BigJelly
Originally posted by: Craig234
Originally posted by: zoiks
I voted for it.

What gave you the moral right to discrimnate against gay people's equality? What gives you the right not to have people vote against your right to marry?

What gave him the right?
How about the US government? See the US is a republic based on democratic principles such as a citizen?s RIGHT to vote.
zoiks used his RIGHT to vote on who gets to partake in a PRIVILAGE known as marriage.

There is nothing stopping the electorate to bring up a ban on heterosexual marriage but I don't think a ban on heterosexual marriage would pass. Just a hunch.

You ignored the word moral when I said moral right. DOn't post an idiotic post based on misrepresenting the issue as his right to vote.

The issue is his right to vote to deny others' equal rights. It's the same question as "what gives you the right to vote for bringing slavery back?"

An answer to that question deals with why it's wrong to support slavery, not that it's his mechanical right to vote for slavery.
 

BigJelly

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Originally posted by: eskimospy
Originally posted by: BigJelly
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: BigJelly
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: ZeroIQ
These people aren't being terrorized, they are being told marriage is for male and female. They have been granted the same protections in the form of civil unions. This is not the same as people owning other people as property or not allowing women to vote.

And in our democracy, the majority doesn't always have a right to tell the minority "the way things are", no matter how much they might want to. That's not a good way for democracy to work, and it sure as hell isn't how our system is supposed to work.

Actually having the majority decide is exactly what a democracy is:

government by the people ; especially : rule of the majority b: a government in which the supreme power is vested in the people and exercised by them directly or indirectly through a system of representation usually involving periodically held free elections
Linky

hmm, majority rules and their voice is exercised during elections and the majority of CAs voted for prop 8

Try paying attention during history/government class next time or use google before you open your mouth.

I seem to remember more to history and government class than looking up a definition in a dictionary. Starting with the idea that we don't live in an absolute democracy, which means that getting 50% +1 of the people together and trying to make a law does not mean it's going to happen. Our constitution, for example, lists a number of rights that a simple majority can't take away from the minority.

But I suppose you pick up things like that when you don't get your knowledge of government and law from a dictionary website and Google. :roll:

And the CA constitution has a 50%+1 majority rule on ballot resolutions; but I quess you didn't realize that or ignored it.

And FYI the definition of a democracy I gave is the definition. Now what you were told/believe and what reality is may be different. You cleary stated democracy doesn't allow the majority to rule and we shouldn't be allowed to vote on issues; however, a democracy is based on majority rule and how does a majority explain how they rule? by elections of course. So I'll give you benifit of dought and say you are irrational and are ignoring logic now; however, if not, you are a moron.
Now our republic requires different rules for each state and another set of rules for federal laws and/or ballot resolutions; however, the simple fact is CA it is 50%+1. So if you want to tear up the CA consititution go ahead but that isn't a democracy.

Prop 8 won. Everyone knows that gay marriage will eventually pass but for now it didn't. Don't destroy the basis of our democracy--the electorate's will--because you didn't like the outcome of one freaking vote. That's a path that America should not go down and when you calm down you'll realize how irrational your posts have been.

Actually he stated 'our' democracy, not 'democracy' and he was 100% right, in OUR democracy 50%+1 doesn't always get the majority what it wants. You read his post poorly and responded incorrectly. The right thing to do in this case is apologize, not dig yourself deeper.

see my above post (just posted it) and furthermore, re-read my post you quoted since I said their are different rules for different states and rules for federal guidelines on voting in laws or ballot proposals. This one is law because it follows CA's rules; he implys that it should pass because it didn't pass the federal guidelines for passing a bill; however, this is a CA ballot proposal NOT a bill going through congress.

Clearly he was not 100% right when we should overrule the electorate and/or ignore him which he clearly stated in his post (also explained in the post above this one).
 

Craig234

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Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: novasatori
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: winnar111
Originally posted by: jonks
Originally posted by: daniel49
there goes a liberal judges usurption of power as he legislates from the bench. Down in flames baby.
And this in Cal of all places.

Gay marriage was passed by the CA legislature twice and vetoed by the governator. One man thwarted the voice of the elected officials of the people. All the judges did was reassert the voice of the legislature.

Are you a supporter of segregation too? I hear it stuck around until some activist judges decided enough was enough.

Because its not like Arnold wasn't elected, or anything.

You lost. Give it up.

Lost for the moment. Prop 8 was pretty close, closer than it would have been even a few years ago. It will be reversed a few years down the road, and bigots like you will join the bigots of previous generations in looking like a bunch of assholes in the history books. If anyone should be giving it up, it's you...it seems pretty clear the direction things are going in on this issue.

Calling people bigots and assholes isn't a good way to gain support for any future changes. You only make people more entrenched in their opinions and think there really is a war, instead of convincing them there is a problem with their way of thought and promoting change.

Originally posted by: AstroManLuca
We may have lost this time, but we'll never give up until we get equal rights for everybody.

This is a much better way.

You have a point, but that doesn't mean this doesn't piss me off. Plotting strategy is much different than expressing an opinion.

People on the wrong side of an issue are always helpful with their advice for their opposition.

Thanks, but you're wrong. Pointing out that the issue is bigotry is exactly what is needed.

During the civil rights era, almost no one opposed the principles of equal rights. Instead, they just explained how it would all come 'in due course', if you just don't push too hard.

AstroManLucas' point is right, but it's not going to change many votes.

Denying the issue, and pretending that the anti-gay-marriage position has some moral validitiy it lascks, is the formula for making the gay marriage opponents comfortably continue their immoral position. It's when they realize their position is immoral that things change, and that happens when they are told, repeatedly. The civil rights movement took decades for the message to sink in. Same with gay rights.
 

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prop 8 passed :)

Many young boys were just spared a bad childhood.

I knew a guy with a last name wiener who had a rough time growing up. Kids making fun of him. I can't imagine what it would be like if your parents were two gay dudes.
 

Craig234

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Originally posted by: Ocguy31
From what I hear, marriage isnt all the great anyway. Maybe they were done a favor.

And you know, Denny's food kinda sucks, so banning blacks from eating there is sort of doing them a favor. I'm constantly reminded the right are mostly idiots.
 

Craig234

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Originally posted by: seemingly random
Originally posted by: loki8481
Is marriage not, by definition, a spiritual union?

it is not. marriage in our culture is a civil contract, and for same-sex couples, it's a focal point amid the things that go along with it, like insurance, adoption, partners being able to visit each other in the hospital, pass down property after their death without needing a will, etc.
It's a crap shoot. When I was very young, I was appalled and outraged when I understood that there were arranged marriages in other cultures. Now, I bet they produce about the same results as any other.

Arranged marriages have a lower divorce rate than US marriages.
 

BigJelly

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Originally posted by: Craig234
Originally posted by: BigJelly
Originally posted by: Craig234
Originally posted by: zoiks
I voted for it.

What gave you the moral right to discrimnate against gay people's equality? What gives you the right not to have people vote against your right to marry?

What gave him the right?
How about the US government? See the US is a republic based on democratic principles such as a citizen?s RIGHT to vote.
zoiks used his RIGHT to vote on who gets to partake in a PRIVILAGE known as marriage.

There is nothing stopping the electorate to bring up a ban on heterosexual marriage but I don't think a ban on heterosexual marriage would pass. Just a hunch.

You ignored the word moral when I said moral right. DOn't post an idiotic post based on misrepresenting the issue as his right to vote.

The issue is his right to vote to deny others' equal rights. It's the same question as "what gives you the right to vote for bringing slavery back?"

An answer to that question deals with why it's wrong to support slavery, not that it's his mechanical right to vote for slavery.

Clearly you ignored the importance of the capitalized words: marriage isn't a right it is a privilage. If you can't realize the difference between a right and a privilage, then we will cease to be able to debate this issue.

Where do you have the moral right to equate gay marriage with enslavement and abuse of african americans? One can't get a slip of paper that says your married while slavery was the depravement and denial of rights of a human being by another based on the color of skin. I just don't see a moral equivalance.
 

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Originally posted by: ZeroIQ
So... majority rule no longer counts, huh? It's obvious this is something the people of CA do not want as it has been banned 1, overturned by the courts, and then banned again. Pretty sure the founding fathers didn't make this country to have laws made by the courts, only upheld. The people have re-written the law, the court must follow it.

Go learn about the concept of a constitution some time.

If the people voted to pass a law saying "black people can't eat at Denny's", and the constitution guarantees equal rights, do you think the law should be enforced?

If not, it fits everything you blathered - 'the people spoke' and so on - yet should not be enforced.

The intracicies of the CA constitution are clearly something you're not ready for.
 

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Originally posted by: ZeroIQ
These people aren't being terrorized

Not letting blacks eat at Denny's isn't terrorizing them, Mister straw man. It is wrong.

They have been granted the same protections in the form of civil unions. This is not the same as people owning other people as property or not allowing women to vote.

It is denying them equal rights. Whether the matter is small or large is not the issue, and I'd say the right to marry is not small.

In addition, there are many federal rights limited to married couples, not civil unions.
 

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Originally posted by: Tab
I'm somewhat surprised it passed, given how liberal California is but then again I don't live there either. On the flip side, I'm not so sure the public should be voting on issuses such as gay marraige, gay adoption, tax laws(my state) and medicial marjiuana.

California is a very diverse state. Remember who the two presidents we gave the nation are? Hint, they were not liberals.

We have a percentage of the population that's 'inland' that is just like the midwest rednecks; we have a percentage that are 'modern urban wealthy Republicans'.

You are not going to easily summarize the politics of a state that elect as Governor Ronald Reagan and Jerry Brown back to back.
 

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Originally posted by: winnar111
Originally posted by: Rainsford
But regardless of what a small majority of Californians think, this kind of thing isn't supposed to be what America is about.

According to who? You?

Yes. You can run around and say you think that Nazis are the American ideal if you like, it's all just opinion right? But Rainsford is right, and you are not.

There are things called American principles, they are well documented in a variety of writings and parts of our history, but you can remain ignorant and deny they exist.
 

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Originally posted by: ZeroIQ
[That argument can be flipped. Why do the gays have to force their beliefs on others. It can go both ways, even if you are on the other side.

Idiotic. The people who want equal rights are not the ones 'forcing their views on others'.

You sound like a damned southern racist who complained about blacks forcing their views.
 

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Originally posted by: winnar111
Except you do that all the time. Look at the failed 'war on poverty'.

The war on poverty permanently reduced the percent of Americans living below the poverty line by one-third. It was a great success as a start, ended by Republicans.
 

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Originally posted by: winnar111
Right. Let's ignore California's 150+ year tradition of maintaining marraige as it has existed through human history, and only focus on a few months. Let's focus on the 3 or 4 states that allow for gay marraige and ignore the 40+ that do not.

Let me quote your post from 1918.

Thread: woman's right to vote

Originally posted by: winnar111
Right. Let's ignore the United States' 125+ year tradition of maintaining voters as it has existed through the nation's and human history, and only focus on a few months of agitating by activists. Let's focus on the 3 or 4 countries that allow for women voters and ignore the 40+ that do not.
 

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Originally posted by: brandonbull
If gay "Unions" get the same legal rights as straight "Marriages", why do people feel the need to keep pushing for gay "Marriage"?

Why do you feel the need to deny gays the word marriage?

How about we tell black people they can have civil unions but not the word "marriage"?
 

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Originally posted by: KK
I never did like those liberal jackasses in CA, this just proves how hypocritical they are.

Um, idiot, most 'liberals' in California voted against the amendment. In fatc, 86% of 'strong liberals' were against it.

If you want to attack the 10% who were in favor of it, fine, but you did not separate that 10%, you attacked all California liberals. Who's the Jackass?
 

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Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: Infohawk
The whole point of a Constitution is that it is supreme. Trying to use the courts to circumvent the constitution is democratically dishonest. Pro-gay-marriage people need to wait and try and convince the electorate for the next round of measures.

The California Supreme Court has ruled that the Constitution protects gay marriage. Unless you can come up with a better legal argument, you're the one being "democratically dishonest".

Infohawk, part of the 'whole point' of a consitution being supreme is to have principles not easily changed by a simple majority.

The CA constitution is apparently not like the federal constitution, where all amendments require a super-majority to pass, and can change any part of the document.

The CA constitution has parts that require a super-majority to modify; this amendment did not change those, they remian in effect, this only required a simply majority.

Why is that? Because the bigots don't have the votes to change the actual constitutional protection - only to use the lesser process with their 52% of the vote.

Depending how the consitution deals with conflicts between its principles - which are already ruled to protect gay marriage - and these simple majoriyt amendments will determine what happens (for the four honest justices who found the right exists in the first place, at least). But this was apparently not like the federal constitution, where amendments are passed by a super-majority and there's no lesser type of amendment.

Apparently modifying the part of the constitution that has the equal rights protection would require a super-majority, and that process did not happen.
 

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Originally posted by: BigJelly
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: ZeroIQ
These people aren't being terrorized, they are being told marriage is for male and female. They have been granted the same protections in the form of civil unions. This is not the same as people owning other people as property or not allowing women to vote.

And in our democracy, the majority doesn't always have a right to tell the minority "the way things are", no matter how much they might want to. That's not a good way for democracy to work, and it sure as hell isn't how our system is supposed to work.

Actually having the majority decide is exactly what a democracy is:

government by the people ; especially : rule of the majority b: a government in which the supreme power is vested in the people and exercised by them directly or indirectly through a system of representation usually involving periodically held free elections
Linky

hmm, majority rules and their voice is exercised during elections and the majority of CAs voted for prop 8

Try paying attention during history/government class next time or use google before you open your mouth.

I'm constantly reminded that the right is mostly idiots. The US is not a democracy under your rules, since the simple majority can't pass any damn thing it wants.
 

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Originally posted by: net

prop 8 passed :)

Many young boys were just spared a bad childhood.

I knew a guy with a last name wiener who had a rough time growing up. Kids making fun of him. I can't imagine what it would be like if your parents were two gay dudes.

Thank you for reinforcing the Orange County stereotype. Kindly DIAF.
 

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Originally posted by: winnar111
Except that's precisely what it is. Marriage carries with it certain tax and legal privileges because society has deemed it a worthy institution.

Being gay is a legal status in California. This isn't about being gay; its about Mr. Smith and Mr. Jones letting everyone else know they're gay and asking for some sort of acknowledgment or respect from the rest of us.

It's about their having equal access to the same acknowledgment and rights under the law.

Respect isn't for the state, it's a personal act. Like how I lack respect for you.
 

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Originally posted by: loki8481
reading gay blogs tonight, most of the anger seems to be split between african americans and mormons.

god help any black mormons in California :p

I heard Barack is a black mormon.